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Here's my "black coffee" this morning.

Double infuriating: everytime I tell people that "baristas" and coffee people can't comprehend the concept of black coffee, I get back talk. Here's the first coffee I've ordered in 10 years because of this persistent problem, guess what, they lived up to the complaint... they can't formulate the concept of black coffee in their own mind.

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[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 27 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

OP went to McDonald's (it reads McCafé, and the colours are right) and is trash talking minimum wage employees because he couldn't be fucked to be clear in communication, and likely couldn't offer a modicum of respect for the employees.

Your expectations are way too high for McDonald's. They are not baristas, and most importantly, they are most likely teenagers. It's not impossible you accidentally got someone else's coffee, too. Shit happens. Stop being a child about it, and politely ask to switch it out.

OP, you have issues. Also, your car is fucking disgusting, I feel bad for whatever mechanic has to work on it. Start with that, you have bigger problems in life.

[–] sheridan@lemmy.world 75 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Clean your car before whatever is growing in it becomes sentient.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

My car looks like that but I'd never be bold enough to post it online, and certainly not while trash talking somebody else.

As a side note though, I've always had people give me the cream pods on the side.

[–] sudo@lemmy.today 36 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

The coffee looks gross, but somehow not the most infuriating part of this image

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 7 points 10 hours ago

I had to go back and check. OP what the fuck

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[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 10 points 11 hours ago

I have never once had a problem with "coffee, black". Doing more would require extra work, you're telling me someone went out of their way to put a little cream on your coffee?

At most you were perhaps given the wrong order.

[–] Slatlun@lemmy.ml 38 points 14 hours ago (19 children)

Weird. I only drink black and this has never happened to me. Not sure why you're getting the short end of the stick

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 6 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Apparently the "you can't order a black coffee anymore" thing is a common conservative fantasy

I honestly was blissfully unaware until I stumbled across the above video

[–] Slatlun@lemmy.ml 2 points 43 minutes ago

Well, that's a new one to me. Thanks for the link!

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

As somebody who only drinks black, I can confirm, there are no problems anywhere ordering it. Just tell them black coffee, or iced Americano, or an espresso shot, or whatever. And if they make mistake and you show it to them they'll fix it. There is literally no conspiracy here

[–] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

No, but it makes room for places like Black Rifle Coffee Company to take market share.

[–] Telodzrum@lemmy.world 22 points 14 hours ago

I also only drink it black and have never had this happen to me.

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[–] KittensAreKittens@lemmy.today 19 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Lol your dirty cupholder is also mildly infuriating.

[–] newtraditionalists@kbin.melroy.org 11 points 14 hours ago

Mildly?? I forget how filthy so many people are. This was an unwelcome but necessary reminder lol

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[–] X@piefed.world 12 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

everytime I tell people that "baristas" and coffee people can't comprehend the concept of black coffee, I get back talk.

Back talk. As in talking back.

Translation: When I tell you shit, you either agree with the truth I speak, or you shut the fuck up.

Stars forbid anyone fucking disagree with you and speak their fucking minds. Conversations are one way with you: from you to everyone else.

[–] Holyginz@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

Yea, using the phrase back talk makes them seem like a parent talking to a child. Whether I agree with what they said or not that phrase being applied the way they did it got my hackles raised.

[–] YoFrodo@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

When ordering a black coffee there shouldnt be anyone else 'speaking their mind'. It's a plain coffee, no opinions from the barista required. It's not a negotiation.

What is this comment?

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

"talking back" is really just an oddly specific way of saying "answering", generally to acknowledge or ask further clarifying questions.

OP sounds like my parents, anything I say is talking back. They like to talk at people rather than to people.

[–] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I recall being backhanded just trying to discuss a difference of opinion. I don't recall the conversation from 30 years ago, only that my opinion was not wanted.

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 hours ago

I read somewhere that emotions create stronger neuronal connections than information. Your emotion of rejection is valid.

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 14 points 14 hours ago

Clean your car

[–] partiallycyber@ttrpg.network 7 points 12 hours ago

OP is more infuriating than the post lol

[–] shiftymccool@piefed.ca 7 points 12 hours ago

Can I get a black coffee?

So, like, less sweet?

No, just black coffee

Any creamer?

No, just black coffee

Want me to save some space in the cup for your own creamer?

No, just fill my cup up all the way with black coffee

[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 7 points 13 hours ago

"Baristas don't know how to make extremely popular and simple drink" has always been a dumb take.

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 6 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I’m sorry to hear you’ve had such frustrating experiences with coffee. I wonder if my experience could help you in navigating your experience.

When I order coffee I always see how they do it.

I don’t do it to complain. In fact, even if they get my order wrong I rarely ask for a change, because whatever they give me is usually alright.

I see how they do it because I’m curious. I like to know what their process is like. I like to know what machines they use. I like to know how they organize work in the coffee shop. I like to see their technique.

Because of this curiosity, I usually understand quite well why my coffee ends up the way it does.

Yes, I am a customer. Yes, I could insist that my drink has to be different. But I prefer to accept that life is unpredictable and that we are all human. And it’s usually alright.

Here’s a video that could help: https://youtu.be/OXbQx2hfA5k

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[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 10 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

Looks like hot water with a brown crayon in it.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

You talking about the cup or the car?

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 hours ago

Trying to ignore what’s going on with the car. Echt.

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[–] PostProcess@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

I'll always add ".... No creme or milk please" after asking for it black, I know it's the same thing twice but it twigs a 'could this guy have a milk allergy' thought now and again.

[–] M137@lemmy.today 4 points 12 hours ago

You need professional help, everything about this thread screams that.

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