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[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip 46 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Last pride march I went to, my girlfriend was deadset on kissing a girl. That was when we realized, neither of us has any idea how to pull a girl irl

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 40 points 1 day ago (5 children)

This is so depressing for some reason. Even women can't get a date with women.

On the other hand, I at least don't need to 😁

[–] Town@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it's funny when average women who normally have no issue finding guys suddenly have no idea how to do the hard work of getting with another woman.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago (5 children)

It's because they're not used to doing any work whatsoever.

Seriously, the reason bumble failed was women simply will not send a message.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I get called sexist for this, but I think this is basically the reason catfish scams work so easily on older women. When a man comes out of nowhere acting interested in you its just normal. Been a bit rare lately, but it doesnt immediately invoke suspicion.

When i get a message on any platform from a woman, especially unprompted, I immediately ignore it. So often now to the point that they're as invisible as popup ads.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 2 points 17 hours ago

Yeah, I've got a pretty good idea of when someone is completely out of my league, and when I get contacted out of the blue like that, I'm immediately suspicious.

[–] Jessicat@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (10 children)

It worked for me :) Found my awesome husband there. Agreed though, there are definitely women who expect to be pursued.

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[–] poolitzer@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Out of curiosity, what do you mean with failed? Isn't it around and kicking?

[–] LwL@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Iirc they removed the "women have to message first" requirement some time last month.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

It's around, but I don't think the number of users is anything to brag about.

[–] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Look at it from the other side: it worked for people who wanted the kind of relationship where women aren't the ones being chased and set a more even ground.
The problem is that it is a for profit business and the proportion of such relationship seekers is small. More women just like being chased... Bumbe is still around, they didn't fail, but they had to let this model go, because they wanted more profit.

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[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

One of the funniest things is watching women who talk down to guys having trouble dating women by calling them ugly, insufferable, or creepy, only for them to struggle just as much, if not more, to do the same.

[–] SealofLove@leminal.space 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

To be fair, it's much harder to find a woman who's also attracted to women. Much smaller pool to choose from.

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

True, but even in dating apps where you can easily access individuals in this demographic, they still struggle. Women in general are just extremely more selective than men. Gay men, for example, don't have this issue.

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[–] NeilNuggetstrong@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (4 children)
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[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 1 day ago

This is such a sick burn. Juicy!

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I believe here they are mostly found in the !femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone community.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 12 points 1 day ago

I have no idea what it's about, but they do have great memes.

I got a new phone recently, and it started from fresh with all the cookies being unrelated to my accounts and such. The pushed content started out with random shit, but a few days in it started revolving around things that involves anti-social women.

I embrace it. I think it's wonderful content, so it keeps feeding me strange stuff that women do when they're not just showing boobs for likes on YouTube. It's nerdy types doing nerdy stuff.

I find it interesting to see what young women actually do. Mostly because I'm not a young woman. I do have daughters though. I'm waiting for them to revolt on me, but they aren't. They somehow know that we are in this together and that I will support them in every step.

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