teal really proved living well is the best revenge.

Neither one is someone I want to talk to but grey really should've just put the phone down and focused on that promising opportunity

Grey is definitely in the wrong, that's exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.

Greens response could've meant (s)he had a busy day at work and was glad to put their feet up. The bluntness met have been unintended.

Grey then exploded and made it a problem, showing that green actually dodged a bullet.

Who's in the wrong here?

Everyone in this thread who is too stupid to realize this is fake rage bait.

Although rude, I appreciate when people tell me outright I'm not a priority for them. So I can adjust my own.

I hate people now. Nobody wants to keep their commitments. You can invite people to an event and they will all say yes, until a more enticing thing comes along and the flake on you last minute. If you say yes, be there, tell the other person “sorry I already made plans that day” like an adult

I am for having read this. Doubly for commenting,

The one who flaked, and then said that there were better options. I’d respond just like the one who luckily got away.

“Hey, I’m so sorry to do this, but, something came up”.

Mmm the ragebait tastes so good though I feel righteous and angered

I don't get why people are confused about this.

Grey was horrible human being first. Green's reply was a response that horribleness. It's not like green was genuinely waiting to spring that.

...probably.

Sommehow reminds me of this story:

“A senior monk and a junior monk were traveling together. At one point, they came to a river with a strong current. As the monks were preparing to cross the river, they saw a very young and beautiful woman also attempting to cross. The young woman asked if they could help her cross to the other side. The two monks glanced at one another because they had taken vows not to touch a woman. Then, without a word, the older monk picked up the woman, carried her across the river, placed her gently on the other side, and carried on his journey. The younger monk couldn’t believe what had just happened. After rejoining his companion, he was speechless, and an hour passed without a word between them. Two more hours passed, then three, finally the younger monk could contain himself any longer, and blurted out “As monks, we are not permitted a woman, how could you then carry that woman on your shoulders?” The older monk looked at him and replied, “Brother, I set her down on the other side of the river, why are you still carrying her?”

You deserve this

Damn right they deserve to be free from that kind of personality

Gray does not understand the relief of cancelled plans.

Grey didn't value Green's time, even stated someone better came along. Green responded with shade in response for this lack of respect, Grey had a crash out because her lesser choice had teeth.

I must be weird, or maybe it's because I used to date someone like Grey, but the impression I got about green is not that they said that because they didn't want to go out anyway, it was that they were glad grey revealed themselves to be uninterested in them even if it was kind of in a sleazeball way, acting like it was just fine to cancel last minute to go be with someone else.

More like green was happy grey pretty much just sent up a red flag and confirmed that they dodged a bullet.

That's the best answer he gave. Based on the limited, implication based knowledge we have of this conversation we don't even know is real or staged.

See this is the variety of shitpost where it’s just a shit post.

Most likely, statistically, they're both shitty people.

I mean its 95% fake but it doesnt really make a difference for discussing it as if it was real.

I think it deoends on the relationship between the two and the kind of meeting they had planned. If its a date and grey bailed for an other date, thats really shitty. If it was a casual meetup between friends and grey bailed for a dating opportunity, its not that shitty and green was a bit rude with the follow-up, but again depends on their relationship and how they usually communicate. In any case, the last few messages are completrly overboard.

Tell me you got banned from reddit and miss it dearly without telling me

Lmao, the other person for sure. There's no reason to lose your shit like that

Also green could have meant "thank god you found someone good luck"

Assuming this is not made up obviously grey is in the wrong

Grey is faking outrage to get out of the situation