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For me it was Cheater Bennington. Linkin Park music helped me through some hard times and I know some of the more impactful lyrics came from him and what he experienced.

Knowing he couldn’t take it anymore definitely hit Me hard particularly as someone I looked up to from young age …

Who was yours ?

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[–] Town@lemmy.zip 66 points 6 days ago (4 children)
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[–] pedz@lemmy.ca 36 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I don't know if he counts as a celebrity but, Aaron Schwartz.

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 34 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

His documentary on assisted dying is a brilliant watch.

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[–] linkshandig@lemmy.today 35 points 6 days ago (3 children)
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[–] TwodogsFighting 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Margaret Thatcher.

What a happy fucking day.

[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Had me in the first half....

[–] Kevo@lemmy.world 31 points 6 days ago

Chadwick Boseman. I was 24 when he died. I'm mixed and a huge nerd. He was one of the first times I saw representation like that in a comic book hero in a movie or TV show. T'Challa was a king, and his death came out of nowhere

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 18 points 6 days ago

Leonard Nimoy. Grew up with a lot of Star Trek. Both him and Keanu Reeves helped me understand that it's entirely fine to be introverted.

As I understood it, Nimoy's death was from lung problems that developed as a result of his smoking habit - even though he had quit smoking many years prior that. It was the catalyst I needed to finally say, "I can't wait anymore, time may already be up. I need to quit smoking now." And that was when I finally did quit smoking and make it stick.

[–] morriscox@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Robin Williams, on my birthday. Great guy, a gamer, and knew his way around computers. It might not have hit as hard if it hadn't been my birthday.

[–] cerement@slrpnk.net 26 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] iguessimlemming@lemmy.ml 18 points 6 days ago (2 children)

David Bowie. I really mourned him, didn't expect to feel so strongly about someone I never met. Feel like the world got significantly duller and darker since he took off.

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[–] sunbeam60@feddit.uk 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I dont know why, but Sean Lock, a U.K. stand-up comedian who was the backbone of a couple of U.K. panel shows. He never spoke about his illness, but lost a lot of weight and the suddenly gone. I still watch and laugh out loud from the many, many laugh out loud moments of his career.

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[–] 48954246@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

John "TotalBiscuit" Bain.

Hit at a rough time for me and at that point I had been following his content for many years.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Man the loss of TB has been extreme.

Gaming and technology seemed to orbit him when he was alive.

Have you found a successor yet?

I miss The Mailbox and WTF Is...? so much.

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[–] jared@mander.xyz 19 points 6 days ago (3 children)
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[–] fushuan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You might want to edit Chester

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[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 18 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Sorry for the convenience.

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[–] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)
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[–] MTZ@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago (4 children)
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[–] Hayduke@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] CelloMike@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Sean Lock

The first time I've felt genuine shock at a celebrity death, RIP undisputed Carrot in a Box champion

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Chris Cornell, he always seemed like a classy and cool if somewhat aloof guy, extremely talented vocalist.

[–] kalleboo@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Douglas Adams.

That was the first time it really hit home to me how much it hurts to lose real talent from this world.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago

Yes! His early death was tragic.

We could have had several more Dirk Gently mysteries, and the Guide Trilogy could have been even more inaccurately counted, by now. RIP Adams.

Grant Imahara, first person I had a parasocial relationship who died. It was also such a sudden and tragic death.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] omgboom@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

Anthony Bourdain

[–] TheDarkQuark@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

Chester Bennington and Kurt Cobain. Although I discovered their songs years after their death.

[–] Bullerfar@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Definetly Chester Bennington. Linking park inspired me to be a muscisian, Chester inspired me to become a singer. His passing was really hard on me. I really gave up on linking park after the minutes to midnight album, since I see it as the last album where they were honest to their roots and still not too experimental. But after many years I was talking to my wife, and we agree that next time they played in our country, we would see them nomatter what. I shit you not, the next day we saw on the news he was dead. It was almost like we knew it was about time to go watch a show since they wouldn't be around for long. Anyways, I have massive respect for Chester as a guy who delt with my own mental sickness and also have had thoughts of sucide and so on. Chester and linkin park helped me through a lot of tough times. I wish his family all the best.

[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Anton Yelchin was so goddamn young and had an entire career ahead of him.

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[–] pulsey@feddit.org 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

For some reason Heath Ledger. I loved the movie A Knights Tale as a kid. Watched it many times.

I think it was the first real celebrity death that I conciously experienced.

[–] Panda@lemmy.today 2 points 4 days ago

Same here. I loved A Knight's Tale and 10 Things I Hate About You so much and I watched it many times a as kid. My then sister in law told me about the news and I didn't believe her until I heard the news on the radio.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Taking the question literally, I'll say Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

[–] SelfHigh5@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

She was on HELL of a legal mind but goddammit why didn’t she retire when Obama could have appointed her replacement. The fucking hubris.

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[–] perfectduck@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (6 children)
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[–] DaanBanaan@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago
  1. Prince
  2. Lady Di
  3. Amy winehouse
[–] fta@lemmy.zip 7 points 6 days ago

Norm Macdonald

[–] Yosmonkol@piefed.social 8 points 6 days ago

Fred Rogers, it was like a grandfather died when he passed.

[–] gajahmada@awful.systems 7 points 6 days ago

Well, I read the title and the only thing popped up is Chester.

I always shrugged off celebrity deaths cuz it never affects me before. But that morning my then SO woke me up and I'm in dazed cuz teens me just full of angst lol and how he did it after just released One More Light is too much, I think I avoid listening to LP for a few years after that. It's also after Cornell did it not long before I think? AFAIK they're Godfathers to each other kids.

I think contrary to what generally believe LP lyrics all are Mike's. But understandable since Chester is the one actually sung it. don't think LP would be this big if they didn't have Chester, the band said so themselves (the label want to get rid of Chester at first but they pushed back).

I just wished Mike would just rename the band like Audioslaves did and leave LP as a legacy. Don't get me wrong Emily is badass.

[–] normalentrance@lemmy.zip 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Chris Cornell hit hard especially when you go back and listen to his lyrics.

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[–] Redvenom@retrolemmy.com 5 points 6 days ago

Joan Rivers, I really miss Her, she was a comedic genius

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] LoboAureo@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Terry Pratchett

[–] keepee@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Dolores O'Riordan

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

David Lynch. His death hit me like a punch to the heart.

Also Adam Yauch (MCA).

[–] Augustiner@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Mac Miller was probably the worst one… I’m a little younger than him and watching his career from early on felt like watching an older brother develop and making it big. He made the soundtrack to most of my youth.

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