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Until recently, I really didn’t know how to cook properly.

One of the things I used to make often was spaghetti bolognese. It was high in protein, fit my diet well, it was reasonably healthy, and so I made it about twice a week. The recipe was very simple: mince, onions, spaghetti, and a bottle of pasta sauce from the store.

Over time I started experimenting. I tried different recipes, added more ingredients, cooked parts separately, and let the sauce simmer longer. Bit by bit it evolved.

Now I make the sauce from scratch, cook the mince in a separate pan, add finely diced carrots and a do a bunch of extra steps I never used to, as well as letting everything simmer for a two hours.

The result is honestly fucking delicious and better than any spaghetti bolognese I've had in restaurants.

The problem is that it went from being my easy go-to meal to something that actually takes effort. I used to make it multiple times a week, but now I barely do.

And the worst part is I can’t go back to the old version anymore, because it just tastes disappointing.

I just wanted to rant, I'm frustrated because I want the dish more, but don't want all of the added effort.

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[–] Godnroc@lemmy.world 44 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Make a bunch and freeze it, now you have premade meals of the good shit whenever you want.

This is the way. I’ve got little frozen containers of spag bol and Mexican beans and mince sitting in the freezer ready for dinner when ever. The trick is to get a giant ass fry pan and just make up a fuck ton of what ever you happen to be cooking and have a bunch of freezer safe containers.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 41 points 1 month ago (2 children)

PS. I'm heading to the shop now to buy all the ingredients I need to make this, gota start soon else I'll eat way too late.
Can't not make it at least once a week.

[–] normanwall@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Can you make a big batch and save some leftovers in the fridge or freezer? I think it's great that you have perfected it, I'm happy for you.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I'll try that once, but I doubt it will be the same. My oven & microwave have been broken for like 3 months so I've been learning to cook a lot!!

It's also pretty good for my mental health to have to run to the shop every day and make food, else I just end up on the computer all day.

So I kinda force myself to cook and go to the shops most days

[–] null@piefed.nullspace.lol 7 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Being in the same situation, I ended up getting some big, silicon "ice cube" trays (if you used them for ice cubes the cubes would be huge). Each slot holds ~a serving of pasta sauce.

We'll make up batches of sauce and freeze them in these trays. Then you can pop a cube into a saucepan, add some cream (or other liquid base that makes sense for the sauce) and heat it up while you make the pasta.

In my experience it works and tastes great, and makes it super easy for when you don't have time or energy to cook.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 7 points 1 month ago

That sounds great, I'll give that a try

[–] AnotherMadHatter@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

We do that with home made sloppy joe sauce. A muffin cup is perfect for one sloppy joe serving.

[–] frosty99c@midwest.social 3 points 1 month ago

My mother in law makes huge portions of her pasta sauce and freezes it in smaller portions to give to us. Heats up just fine in a pan on the stovetop. It may be a little more watery, but I’m sure you could just simmer a bit longer once it’s up to temp to thicken it out.

[–] Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

When you do the leftovers, pan-fried spaghetti feels very different and is also super delicious. Let it dry out a bit as it cooks, seems like bad instructions, but it's so good.

Edit: I should note, this starts with the sauce and noodles already mixed. Ideally when put away, so the noodles absorb the sauce over a few days. If your diet allows for it, adding your cooking fat of choice is of course very much recommended for frying in a pan.

[–] rants_unnecessarily@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You can reheat the sauce in a pan and just boil up some fresh pasta.

Of course it won't be 100%, but it'll be 100 times better than your old go-to and just as easy.

[–] MagnificentSteiner@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

You can just heat the bolognese up in a pan after defrosting. It'll come out the same.

I've done exactly this with ragu before, worked perfectly. I don't own a microwave (don't see the point in them) so all my stuff is reheated in a pan or the oven.

I hear ya about going to the shop though, I'm in the same boat.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

I usually make a massive batch and by morning it is always all gone. You can't not eat it all. Impossible.

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[–] GammaGames@beehaw.org 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Why not make it in bulk once a week, enough for a few servings? And I probably don’t need to tell you this… but keep it in the fridge/freezer

Also please share the recipe, I’m interested!

[–] new_world_odor@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Excellent work, that just means you need a new dish to iterate on! And the cycle can continue.

Maybe in future experimentation try to prioritize timeliness? That's easier said than done though. Your journey with bolognese is similar to mine with shakshuka, so I feel I understand. It's impossible to turn off my desire to improve things and resulting brainstorms on the topic.

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Make a big batch once per week on the weekend and portion it out into easy, freezable individual servings. It can still be your easy go-to meal if you make a week or two worth of sauce all at once. Cook the pasta fresh, reheat your frozen sauce in a microwave, combine and enjoy.

[–] Redfox8@mander.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

This! Batch cook & enjoy!

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Does it freeze well? When I used to be extra as hell with Bolognese, I would do batch cooking and it went pretty well, especially if I wasn't super lazy with how I defrosted it.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

Or can it be canned easily?

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Probably, but I think it just won't be the same again

[–] Killer57@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

You are correct, putting something in the fridge/ freezer will deepen the flavor, freezing it for later may in fact, work better and you might just end up with something tastier in the long run.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

You can go further. I also make my sauce from scratch, but then pressure cook some beef chuck or shanks in it with red wine. Then I make my own pasta to go with.

And it’s good it takes so long because I would be too fat to make it otherwise.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've once made pasta with a friend who had her own pasta roller (not sure what it's called), it was a lot of fun. I'm definitely keen of getting one, one day. Adding more effort lol

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My own mother cursed me by getting me one for Christmas. Now I can’t stand the stuff from the store.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Its also nice because you get to make stuffed pastas that just don't exist in normal stores! Love it.

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Making my own tortillas has done this to tacos for me. It doesn't add a ton of complexity, but the extra time takes what was a super fast zero effort process, and now makes it about as involved as any other simple dish to cook. But it's SO much better that I can never go back.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 4 points 1 month ago

I hear you, but you might be able to decouple the lazy version and the fancy one. I love pasta al pesto. I have the lazy version (sauce from the store, chuck it in) and the fancy version (start with basil…). One is a comfort food in rough times, the other a delicacy I can only savor a handful of times a year. Both are great in their respective roles.

[–] TLGA@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sounds nice, I personally like taking time to cook good food. Can we have the recipe?

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

It's essentially this: https://youtu.be/HZctds20DfA

I add some chilli because I like it spicy

[–] JakenVeina@midwest.social 3 points 1 month ago

Bolognese is obe of my favorites as well, but it's like a 4-5 hour process, yeah. Feeds me for a solid week, though, more than anything else I cook.

[–] RamRabbit@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Make a big-ass batch once every month or three. Freeze 90% of it to eat later. Cooking 10x as much is not much more effort than cooking 1x.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 3 points 1 month ago
[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

There's no prize to perfection, only an end to pursuit

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

Simple solution.

Get a big, big pot and make a f%%k ton of sauce once a month.

Get containers and freeze them.

I make chili and lentil soup this way; I've got plenty of each sitting in the freezer. I mostly keep it for days I am sick or just don't feel like cooking.

If you don't have a good sized freezer check online. You can find one that's about as much floor space as a chair that holds plenty.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm blursed with a weak sense of smell/taste. This can't happen to me, I would barely be able to tell the two recipes apart. But on the other hand, I'm pretty sure I'm missing a lot of the enjoyment people have with really good food.

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Tasting is also a skill. It takes practice and focus to notice these things.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I'm pretty sure in my case it's either genetic or the result of actual damage to my olfactory nerves.

[–] valek879@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

I make noodles with red sauce fairly frequently. I just get a big, 28oz, can of whole peeled tomatoes, no Calcium Bicarbonate because that makes the tomatoes taste like crap. I dunno the whole can of tomatoes in a pot on the stove with some basil and let it reduce for 30 minutes to an hour.

If I'm feeling fancy I put a minced onion or shallot with some butter in before the tomatoes.

Anyway, salt to taste, add a little of this or that for umami... Boil some noods and bam it's done. Top noods with sauce and it's a fine dish. Add some cheese if you feel kinky.

Tomato, Basil, salt. What a dream.

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

Cautionary story, that one. Better be careful with the way I refine my easy stew. Currently, everything about it is pretty random, but at least it’s low-effort cooking. Better keep it that way.

[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Guess you wouldn't like my easy meal of dumping a can of diced tomatoes over noodles and calling it a day.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Lol that's where I started.

Another meal of mine used to be 2x packets of instant noodles and then I'd add ~300g chicken for protein and flavour.

Eventually I added onion, then I started using real noodles. Then I started adding chicken stock and making a sauce for flavour.

Another easy meal ruined, but it's delicious.

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[–] dumples@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Take what you learned about your Bolognese and then make a simpler pasta dish. I love being able to whip up something delicious based on a can of tomatoes and what is in the fridge. Go practice that as your new easy dish..

You can do the same thing with other dishes you enjoy. Find a simple one and perfect it even if it becomes complex and work on doing simple meals.

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[–] teft@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Tomato sauce is one of those things that freezes well. Make a bunch of your sauce in a big stock pot and freeze what you don't need portioned out in ziplocs or other freezable containers. Then even though it's a process to make you'll only have to do it once a fortnight or so depending how much you prep and how much you eat.

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