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We're not going to have a one and done chat/social program and know what, it should be that way. We shouldn't allow another one to become a behemoth that then turns into a perfect honeypot.

[–] Fitzsimmons@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 hours ago
[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 9 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I haven't tried all but I'm not super impressed with matrix so far. I tried to join three former discord groups and it looks like I have to individually join the channel equivalents and then they just show up in a list together with no server identifier so theres 3 "general" chats next to each other and I don't know which is which at a glance

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 hours ago

u should check out cinny. it is a lot closer to discord's ui, and iirc does have a feature to join all rooms in a space with a single click.

[–] qaz@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Someone is working on an alternative frontend called commet, have you tried that yet?

[–] kinkles@sh.itjust.works 68 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (3 children)

I was shocked to learn that Steam group chats can be turned into pseudo-discord servers.

It’s obviously not a viable replacement for 99.999% of people but I thought it was wild it’s there today, hidden away. I wager most people had no idea (like me.)

[–] Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de 37 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

The first time someone called me via Steam, I was really confused about what was causing the noise. I thought the game was bugged because I legitimately had no idea you could call people on Steam.

[–] Egonallanon@feddit.uk 15 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

The thing that really shocked me is that you can stream to your friends list through steam.

[–] vithigar@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 hour ago

You can stream to a wider audience as well. Some people are streaming to thousands of viewers on Steam.

https://steamcommunity.com/?subsection=broadcasts

[–] priapus@piefed.social 17 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

It has weirdly good audio quality too, like noticeably better than Discord. If the Steam desktop app wasnt so heavy this could maybe be a good alternative. Maybe if they split out a separate app to use it without launching all of Steam.

[–] kinkles@sh.itjust.works 14 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

My biggest gripe with it that makes it unusable as a serious replacement is that it purposely only stores conversation history for two weeks.

[–] chasteinsect@programming.dev 1 points 8 hours ago

My biggest gripe with it that makes it unusable as a serious replacement is that it purposely only stores conversation history for two weeks.

Huh that actually makes it more appealing to me from a privacy perspective.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I can't remember the last time i actually (non-work-related) needed to go back and look at old conversations. Anything important enough to be referenced isn't data that should be kept in a chat app

[–] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

My friends' discord has pinned messages for things like mod lists and server connections that we would still use years later. More public groups for things like fan communities probably have plenty of rules and instructions that are displayed to new users. They could be linked as a shared file to download, but having it easily viewable in-client is a legitimate use case.

[–] priapus@piefed.social 2 points 23 hours ago

Oh thats weird I'd never used it enough to notice that. Not a great choice.

[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I don't know if it's a standard feature or a setting you can adjust, but my Steam chats seem to disappear after a certain amount of time. If I can't keep a history of chat logs, then I can't use Steam as a Discord replacement.

Also, I have one friend who constantly spams our chat groups with random links and videos, no context. I kind of like having channels so I can filter some of that stuff into categories and keep some of our chats from being drowned out.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 22 hours ago

Group chats seem to stay forever, I had some I made off-hand like 6 years ago and they are still there lol

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 11 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Every name there seems normal, except for a stoat. Like, I'm sure there was a very heavy process going into deciding the name for the service when they realized they couldn't use Revolt anymore. But stoat just feels weird to me.

They used to be called Revolt but they got a Cease and Desist.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 3 points 11 hours ago

Fits the animal theme some FOSS platforms have like Lemmy (lemmings) and Mastodon, I guess

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago

It's an animal.

Like a tiny weasel.

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

xmpp will rise again and take its rightful place as the decentralized messenger of the people

[–] Shifty@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

hopefully xmpp protocol xep-503 gains traction - it aims to replicate the structure of discord servers/slack workspaces for xmp clients

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 hours ago

that is really great!! yes lets hope some of the projects add it... thinking about it, i should probably go out donating a bit

[–] Godort@lemmy.ca 21 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I would argue that the audience for Mattermost, Slack, and Zulip are pretty different from Discord.

[–] catharso@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

what would be a good stack to replace discord?

teamspeak + signal(desktop client) + ???

[–] Fitzsimmons@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

If you're gonna go that way I'd recommend mumble over teamspeak

[–] priapus@piefed.social 11 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

To be a real discord replacement it needs to not be a stack. It also needs to use the server/channel model discord does, rather than rooms like signal or matrix.

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Stoat or Fluxor do just that.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 9 points 23 hours ago
[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Fluxer or Stoat would be your best options for a feature match ….

[–] Opisek@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I wonder how long until cease and desist. Fluxer in particular is a one to one clone.

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

Lots of companies have a very similar Ui to Discord . Like many do to X or Facebook. I can’t imagine any lawsuit comes about

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Spacebar is the same way though. Like, it's a one-to-one clone that is reverse engineering the API of the service. Their entire advertisement point is that you can take a Discord client or a Discord bot and throw it on to Spacebar without any type of modification aside from the server url

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Last I checked Spacebar hardly just works. Lots of placeholder code at least for the web client. I know there is a fork of it with a web client that’s recommended. But even that for me it’s been buggy

[–] Cybersec@piefed.social 1 points 21 hours ago

+1 for Mattermost though regardless, great app been using it for a while.