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[–] Bombastic@sopuli.xyz 16 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Karl@programming.dev 2 points 4 hours ago
[–] Transform2942@lemmy.ml 105 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

i'm a guy btw

The masculine urge to receive enthusiastic penetration in women's attire

[–] Siethron@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Why did I read enthusiastic as euthanastic?

[–] Hupf@feddit.org 1 points 30 minutes ago* (last edited 29 minutes ago)

I always read "enthusiastic" in Curtis Arnott's voice. Guess the walks were quite euthanasic too.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 hours ago

at this point, I'll take it

[–] errer@lemmy.world 28 points 12 hours ago

We’ve all been there

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 14 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Hey if it lets me wear a longskirt.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 12 points 9 hours ago

I'm a Victorian dress btw.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
  • "greenhouse"
  • looks inside
  • is transparent

anyway - woa.... the .... the combo of greenhouse n thunderstorm is... quite somthin-

not much of a victorian dress kindsa peep tho.,.,. thad jus sounds uncomfy.,.,. but u do u <3<3<3

[–] sausager@lemmy.world 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I imagine the windows would be all fogged up from the steamy sex, right? ..right??

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.zip 8 points 8 hours ago

Only one way to find out.

Unrelated, but can you rent a greenhouse on Airbnb?

[–] vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 74 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Not any greenhouse! A conservatory!!

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 12 points 9 hours ago

Solarium or GTFO

[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 25 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

How about an orangery? If we really want to spice things up

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 6 points 11 hours ago

Kew Gardens. Go big or go home.

[–] ummthatguy@lemmy.world 23 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] deacon@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago

I’ll fetch the butter…

[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 11 hours ago

I've never felt so sniped

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 31 points 13 hours ago

I think this is the origin story of Victorians hearing 'banshees' in the storm

[–] happy_wheels@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I now have a new addition to my bucket list. Thank youuu!! :D

[–] abbotsbury@lemmy.world 10 points 13 hours ago

more like your rhymes-with-bucket list

[–] Samdell@lemmy.eco.br 17 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

A greenhouse? In this economy?

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 5 points 8 hours ago

The local botanical garden by me charges $6 entry for area residents. I'm assuming this includes coital entry on the premises.

[–] unconsequential@slrpnk.net 9 points 12 hours ago

So that’s where babies come from!

[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 5 points 11 hours ago

Botanical gardens.

I wanna get that extra-risky public space thrill. Just maybe not during Rafflesia bloom.