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I got curious about how bad Hexbear was according to sh.itjust.works and told myself "i should document it and make a post about it if it's really that bad"

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[–] PorkrollPosadist@hexbear.net 45 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It was about 6 months into the covid crisis. I was browsing the chapotraphouse subreddit through a VPN while on the clock. It was one of my favorite subreddits because it was one of the only places which was completely uncritical in its support for the George Floyd uprising (the true reason for the ban, in my opinion). It got banned while I was reading it. A couple hours later, I was called to a meeting and told I was being furloughed because of the pandemic-induced economic standstill. In the meantime, someone set up a "lifeboat" discord server. Within a day or two, about 10,000 people ended up there from the 140,000 subscribers to the subreddit. I joined a group of a dozen or two people who decided to grab Lemmy, an emerging Fediverse platform (which was very bare-bones at the time and did not even support federation yet), kick the tires, and do what we could to make it suitable for such a chaotic situation. About a month later, we got chapo.chat online. We had dubbed our bespoke Lemmy fork "Hexbear." Eventually, the site name and domain was changed to match when we decided the community had much broader interests than just a podcast.

[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago

Eventually, the site name and domain was changed to match when we decided the community had much broader interests than just a podcast.

I didn't decide I-was-saying

[–] Euergetes@hexbear.net 41 points 3 weeks ago

hexbear found me, an abandoned cub on the bank of the great yenisei. she nursed me into the mighty warlord you see before you

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 40 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Similar to you, but the reddit version "Wow, people sure hate these chapotraphouse leftists but won't go into any consistent details as to why. I'm going to see for myself."

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

Go back to chaoptraphouse, tankie!

"What's a tankie and what's a choptraphouse?"

-Me on reddit, about to undergo an evolution

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 37 points 3 weeks ago

i was on some forum for the mexican drug lord el chapo and they changed the theme to communism

[–] Assian_Candor@hexbear.net 35 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I have always been here. When they banned the chapotraphouse subreddit and we all went to the discord, I was there ussr-cry

[–] Collatz_problem@hexbear.net 34 points 3 weeks ago

During the Long March from r/chapotraphouse.

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 32 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Everyone said they were awful but the memes kept making a lot of sense to me so I went to askchapo with a few questions. Anyway I'm a communist now

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[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 31 points 3 weeks ago
[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 28 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Chapo reddit got banned. Came here.

Me:

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[–] comrade_pibb@hexbear.net 26 points 3 weeks ago

cth oldhead

[–] Jaclope@hexbear.net 25 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Straight up some comment on Bluesky mentioned it amongst all the recent bans. So far it seems like the kind of old internet vibes I enjoyed about early reddit and digg with a progressive focus. Very cool.

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[–] joseph@hexbear.net 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I’ve been here the whole time

[–] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 24 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

::: cw suicide

spoilerI was a member of a $u!c1d£ forum, looking for someone to help me un@l!v£ myself. Mainly due to extreme poverty and starvation after my disability benefits were stopped. People kept making pacts with me, then letting me down. I ended up completely penniless and starving and tried to sell my prescription medications on the site as I had nothing else to sell. I got banned for that but right before I got banned someone there told me about hexbear's mutual aid and said I should ask for help there, that's how I found this site. And this place has kept me alive for months, both with food and friendship. I didn't have anyone to talk to in real life as everyone abandoned me when I got sick.

:::

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[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The same way from .world. I was horrified, it was from Chapotraphouse but I was curious enough to stay and like it.

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 24 points 3 weeks ago

The horror! screm

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I used to be on the chapo sub but missed the lifeboat discord when it got banned. I finally left reddit when they broke the apps that worked, tried a couple other lemmys, then encountered hexbear when it was briefly federated with blahaj.zone and switched over here when they defedded.

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 20 points 3 weeks ago

I also switched over from blåhaj, i kept seeing shit there that lowkey made me uncomfortable and so moved here.

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Reddit broke apps and that was the final push I needed to run away. Heard about the fediverse and when researching instances I heard about one that was full of trans communists. Sounded like my kind of people.

[–] TheFinalCapitalist@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

Pretty much same story here, whenever rif finally got fucked I swapped to lemmy, world initially but the spectre got to me and I finally became the lib I was ment to become

[–] BadTakesHaver@hexbear.net 20 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

i was trained and conditioned to be a hexbear poster from the age of six

~~it was from r/chapotraphouse though~~

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 20 points 3 weeks ago

some homeless guy was standing outside the train station yelling conspiracy theories and said he learned about them here.

[–] sexywheat@hexbear.net 19 points 3 weeks ago

Damn lots of fellow old heads still repping the old CTH sub. Respect kim-drip

[–] MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago

I was the original bear in the inspiring photo. I changed my account for opsec.

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Admittedly, I was part of the 2023 Reddit migration to Lemmy. Spun up my own server and invited some friends. One of them bought into the idea that the Lemmy devs were “red fasc”, their source was a Raddle post they found on Reddit lol.

So I read that thread and saw Hexbear mentioned specifically, said “lol that place feels like the old internet minus the bigotry”, so I joined. I was not disappointed and have been here ever since.

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[–] Inui@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm one of the treatlers from Reddit. Reddit said they were gonna ban third party apps which was the only way I interacted with the site because I don't use anything like that or other social media unless there's guest browsing and apps that let me block all their analytics garbage.

I was anonymous for a while, then I first landed on .ml, but I got tired of seeing obnoxious posts from liberals during the election season about their favorite war criminals. I did the same thing as you're doing where I actually started to read the posts here (which 95% of people on lemmy haven't actually done) and started to understand what was and wasn't irony. Then made an account.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago

I never had a reddit account, but I lurked on r/cth for a year or two. I think someone put the link out on one of the chapo offshoots reddits that werent banned yet. so I lurked the site a bit and made an account finally. izutsumi-idea

[–] gramxi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago

I was actually looking for the crypto coin website but people here were funny so I made an account

[–] EnsignRedshirt@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago

r/chapotraphouse oldhead here. I remember very clearly being a heavy reddit user, finding r/cth, effectively stopped engaging with any other part of reddit because the rest of it was trash, and then getting on the lifeboat when the sub was banned. Reddit has only gotten worse, I’m glad this place exists.

[–] Feinsteins_Ghost@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Showed up after /CTH got the boot for taking the controversial stance of believing antebellum south slave owners should be kilt.

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[–] CliffordBigRedDog@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Im a liberal and i found this liberal social media site when it was recommended by other liberals after the liberal subreddit r\chapotraphouse was banned for liberalism

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't remember. I was on r/chapotraphouse and I somehow found my way here very shortly after it was banned. Maybe someone posted a link in the chapo discord?

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a user and friend of mine named moon invited me here ,shes banned tho

[–] jjsandwich8@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

Saw a link to this place from a leftist meme subreddit after chapo got banned, then I just stayed here because its pretty much the only place on the internet that I don't absolutely hate

[–] Clippy@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

the liberal wankers were going on about how evil they were - wanted to see for myself

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I browsed r/gzd and people mostly mentioned lemmygrad, and the occasional hexbear mention. I lurked grad but thought the community here at hb seemed more active/fun so made an acct here few yeaes back

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[–] mayakovsky@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

I type in random strings of letters to find new websites and landed on shrekland.net somehow

Edit: RIP shrekland

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[–] deathtoreddit@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago

I found hexbear after I had trouble signing into lemmygrad.ml. Which I got into through r/GenZedong.

[–] Barabas@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago

I heard about it on the chapo post-ban discord, which was a feat since it was impossible to follow.

[–] Wisp@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

They rebranded from chapo.chat aka chacha due to liberalism and now I’m stuck here

[–] SmithrunHills@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

I got banned on reddit-logo for quoting a guy saying violent things and that got me perma-banned doggirl-gloom , so I started looking for alternatives that weren't Fashbook or Twitter.

Not having to deal with weirdos and bigots dogwhistling bigotry and passing it off as "memes" 24/7 is genuinely refreshing catgirl-happy

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

A very dear friend of mine reccomended that I check the site out back in '21 but it wasnt until last year did I start going on here regularly. They would send me posts from here fairly frequently and in retrospect I think they were trying to nudge me in a better direction once I started to drift towards the NAFO nonsense in '22.

Im glad they showed me this place. I think its been a positive influence.

[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I saw a pinned post in r/dankleft and i remembered the fun times in chapotraphouse

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

When chapo was delet I bounced between the lifeboat discord and the actual chapo discord (they bullied Will lol) until I heard they were looking for beta testers for the new site. volunteered, mostly shitposted but found like maybe one-two bugs to make the forum experience less annoying for users, then forgot about the site for a hot minute and missed joining on the official launch day by like a day or two.

Been here ever since duck-dance

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Didn't someone message a bunch of cth people on reddit at some point after the ban or did I make that up? It's been a long time.

[–] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

I was always here.

[–] xarm@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

Reddit -> lemmyygrad -> hexbear

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