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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] Ileftreddit@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

The time for civility has passed

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 0 points 7 hours ago

You might be mixing up civil disobedience and full fledged rebellion.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 23 points 1 day ago

they never taught people "civil disobedience" but refer to them as "protests, or deadly demostrations" its all whitewashed.

they did teach use about checks and balances, in order to placate the masses, so they dont anything that threatens the status quo.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Mlk jr got cameras.

Malcolm X got results.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip -2 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Except not really

It is much harder to label a peaceful protester as a terrorist

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 7 hours ago

You weren't paying attention three months to four years (& 3months) ago.

Let me remind you of trump holding an upside down Bible while peaceful protestors were getting tear gassed.

[–] M0oP0o@mander.xyz 2 points 7 hours ago
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Their combination got results. You think they're ever going to give Malcolm what he demanded? Fuck no. They give it to King and then shoot the both of em for good measure. King made the movement to sympathetic to just start shooting.

[–] WraithGear@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

and that’s cool, just don’t stand in the way of the people who push Malcolm X, so we can have both

[–] julietOscarEcho@sh.itjust.works 10 points 23 hours ago

Thiiis. The insiders need to laud the goals of protesters and the protesters need to ease off on the "complicit" insiders a bit. We are on the same team, and the combination of approaches is more powerful. Disagreeing on methods is fine, you pull, we push, momentum baby.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 51 points 1 day ago (3 children)

School is indoctrination. I'm surprised so many of my peers don't realize it.

When I was in China (country of birth), they did national anthem like either weekly or daily. I think it was every week, they would also do a flag raising ceremony. They then did a weird ceremony where first graders did wore little red scarfs, which I as an adult looked it up and its apparantly called the Young Pioneers program where they attempt to brainwash children into their "communist" ideology. ("communist" in quotes because it wasn't even real communism). So yea I always get weirded out by these weird rituals.

Then when I immigrated to the US, they do the "pledge of allegience" and the national anthem of the US, of course, being a foreign national at the time, I didn't do the pledge, but just stood up to sort of fit in, but I remained silent. I thought these rituals, national anthem, pledge of allegience, making kids wear red scarfs, was normal, just part of every country.

Then I grew older and went online and apparantly Europeans tell me the flah of allegience wasn't considered normal.

I eventually got US citizenship derived from my mother's naturalization. I did eventually get attached to the concept of the constitution and rule of law, checks and balances (I did NOT have any attachments to the US administrations or congress btw, that's a whole differe t thing). But there was always something very uncanny about the way they teach things.

They keep saying "freedom" "freedom" all over everything they teach, and when they teach civics, teachers say that "police cannot do X if they don't have probable cause" "you have rights" "innocent until proven guilty", but we know for a fact that these things do happen, but of course, they are brushed off as "mistakes", and yet cops don't seem to get held accountable.

So again, I slowly see the same pattern all over again, different country, similar indoctrination.

And to top it all off, while the US (pre 2025) was considered "democratic", schools are anything but. Schools admin and teachers always have a lot of draconian rules and some doesn't even make sense.

Like wtf is school uniform, teaching conformity and just "obey" the rules, no questions asked? Also, you aren't allowed to wear any outerwear even if its winter and you're cold unless you purchase the school's sweaters, wtf? This is a liberal city btw. So much for freedom. Freedom to get a fucking cold.

Security cameras everywhere in school, they had fucking security patrolling inside the school, like wtf its K-12.

The fucking police the bathrooms so much. They sometimes LOCK THE FUCKING BATHROOM because "drugs". LOL FUCK YOU. I'M GONNA PISS ON THE FUCKING FLOOR. (sry for caps).

Its just, when you've seen so much shit from schools in 2 different nationalistic countries, and also have to deal with your abusive parents' bullshit, you quickly develop the pattern recognition to recognize authoritarianism.

Public school is indoctrination. (And private school would be much worse, especially religious ones). Sad that people don't recognize this.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

You ever read any Foucault? He famously called schools prisons

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

School uniforms are absolutely NOT the norm in usa cities for the record

[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They're not uncommon though. The only good rationale I've heard is its good for stopping students for feeling bad/getting bullied because their parents don't buy them the most expensive clothes.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 12 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Except that doesn't even work. They'll compare who has the newest and most expensive iPhone. Or who has the most expensive $500+ designer sneakers (seriously tho, what the fuck are kids doing these days) and somehow shoes are not part of the uniform code. Or some other ways to bully.

[–] sqgl@sh.itjust.works 13 points 23 hours ago

Poor kids tend to get given second hand school uniforms so they still get discriminated against for what they wear.

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[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 124 points 1 day ago (22 children)

What did you guys not learn about civil disobedience?

It's non-violence, but it breaks the laws "designed to keep things civil." It's meant to disrupt, it's means to obstruct, it's meant to annoy the shit out of the people you are protesting.

I haven't seen any civil disobedience. Which is weird because the boomers did it all the time.

A protest isn't civil disobedience. Boycotts aren't civil disobedience.

A crowd of hundreds blocking a bridge is. People blocking entrances to government buildings is. People surrounding bases is. People flooding the capitol or disrupting the discourse of policy is. The reason they use the military and ICE is because they are terrified that people will remember that even 1% of the US doing this far outnumbers them.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

People (especially white) frequently forget about Martin Luther King Jr. He and his team worked extremely hard to keep it nonviolent and effective. He was ready to die for what he believed in but it was wise enough to realize violence was not the answer. For those curious, I would recommend that you read some of his works.

I also think that for civil disobedience to work you need purpose and a clear direction. Just blocking a bridge is just going to annoy people and get you labeled as a public nuance.

With the civil rights movement, it was very well organized and people directly disobeyed laws they wanted changed. Sitting at a white only table is very different than blocking a bridge for something less concrete.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 61 points 1 day ago (3 children)

A crowd of hundreds blocking a bridge is. People blocking entrances to government buildings is. People surrounding bases is. People flooding the capitol or disrupting the discourse of policy is. The reason they use the military and ICE is because they are terrified that people will remember that even 1% of the US doing this far outnumbers them.

The absolute whining from people when they are moderately inconvenienced is depressing. "Sure, death camps are bad but did they have to block the bridge? I'm going to be late for my brunch!" Well, the person in a camp is going to be late for stuff, too.

[–] caurvo@aussie.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've seen someone on this platform, call out people who block bridges as having a "lack of empathy because you've never had to be somewhere on time"

You're so right, how dare I make someone late for their dentist appointment. Let the genocide continue, by all means.

[–] BJ_and_the_bear@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

On a more practical level, it can be counter productive to the protester's cause though. I used to work at a busy convenience store in a city where I would talk to many people throughout the day about what was going on in town, including one day when a small group of protesters shut down the major freeway in the area. It only turned the majority opinion against them and increased support for police. Literally no one so much as even mentioned what they were protesting about, let alone gaining support

Which is why it's effective if coordinated and done well. It makes things relevant immediately for the public, for officials, for businesses.

It will annoy them to the point of either joining them out of frustration, or at least saying "do something!" To the government.

I have no misconceptions that they will happily massacre civilians when those orders arrive, but until those orders arrive they are only trying to intimidate. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if the current orders are quite simply: "Walk and look scary."

They are clearly more afraid of us than them. They're nothing more than buzzing insects with stingers.

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago

There's a reason why Marsha P. Johnson is remembered.

For throwing the first fucking brick.

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[–] mlg@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago (6 children)

There was actually a pretty good comment here once about how MLK and Gandhi only really succeeded with progress when a visible and difficult threat to the system was perceived.

Civil rights stagnated until the ramp up with the march to Washington and widespread riots from groups like the black panthers were damaging public society.

Similarly, Gandhi had trouble convincing the British to even consider independence until widespread communal violence swept the nation in the aftermath of WWII.

Both figures were touted as succeeding in history books due to their non violent movements, but in reality they simply became the center of attention for media at the time which solidified them as icons of their respective movements.

Ironically, both were assassinated which means their opposition definitely viewed them as a a powerful political threat, and not just some supporters for peace.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 37 points 1 day ago (16 children)

checks and balances is not a lie it just does not work when folks don't do their job. its like they did the patriot act because bush jr. didn't do his job. No system can work when a significant amount of the components are bad actors.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

No it was designed to look like it works. Smoke, mirrors, placation they amount to fancy words for lie. Governments and Capitalist leaders have been getting bolder and bolder and are not only saying it but trying to act like they deserve the ability to control the masses.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 19 hours ago

I totally disagree. I like many of the parliamentary systems that have come up but Im not sure I would want to switch to any of them. Although the swiss system is tempting.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Yeah, we entrusted too many shitty people.

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[–] WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh for fuck's sake, if you want to start a revolt then fucking start it already. Fascism is here right now, so you need to fight it right now. You're doing no good by sitting around and saying "I would have totally joined the Revolution if one had spontaneously formed around me."

If a violent resistance isn't feasible in the here-and-now (and it isn't) then you need to find other ways to resist.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Bruh, it sounds like you and OP are both on the same side. Like the point of this post is to kind of -nudge nudge- that "disobedient" thought that's teetering on the edge of realization, without making a direct call for action. You call for it one way, they call for it another way, but both of you seem to be attempting to conjure the same idea.

Why in the world waste time complaining that your teammate isn't using the same tactics as you? We have to stop letting arbitrary shit divide us. If we all have the same goal, we should be aiming toward it together.

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[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Ok I go do a revolution now, thanks for the pep talk.

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[–] AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world 44 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (9 children)

One misconception I had about civil disobedience from what I’d learned in school is that it’s a reliable means of drawing attention to your cause: your willingness to expose yourself to legal repercussions will communicate to the public how critical you consider the issue to be.

What I learned from witnessing it first-hand is that officials and the media will invent their own narratives about your actions out of whole cloth, and the statement the public thinks you’re making is subject to arbitrary filtering and distortion.

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[–] Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 day ago (5 children)

What did the nebulous "they" teach us about civil disobedience again? Because I'm not sure I ever learned that lesson in the first place 😈

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 59 points 1 day ago (2 children)

IDK, in school they spent a lot of time on MLK and Gandhi, focusing on non-violence. You'd never even know that these men ever talked about anything else.

Nobody ever learns about Fred Hampton, the Haitian revolution, or Malcolm X by sticking to the curriculum.

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[–] theunknownmuncher@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was taught that the founding fathers' did not take into account a two-party political system when they designed the system of checks and balances.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

They did take it into account and George Washington himself said it was a terrible idea because it would lead to exactly where we are now.

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I remember learning about people like MLK with respect and admiration for his methods, but also being taught to not use our first Amendment Rights to stir up trouble. It was definitely a conflicting message, and probably the reason everybody today recognizes that we have an extremely serious problem, but nobody wants to start the trouble that will finally deal with it.

We won't have to, though. They want trouble, and they will have their trouble, even if they have to instigate it.

The thing is that MLK's legacy, while absolutely awesome, has been appropriated by whites and we're constantly told "he was one of the good ones". Many of MLK's false advocates will conveniently forget that he was the target of the FBI for sowing civil disobedience.

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