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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by UlyssesT@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

Younger Hexbears, if the spirit of boomerdom visited your household, boomer is more a state of mind than a specific birth year, so feel free to share your stories too.

There are some obviously better-known movies like Wall Street, but I remember an obscure one called "Let It Ride" that was played on tape over and over and over again so many times that it was like the theme song of the household for a while. It was a Richard Dreyfuss film about a gambling addicted asshole who seeks to triumph over his gambling problems by... gambling. Until he gets vibes about winning and then wins at gambling. galaxy-brain

As a boomer bonus it portrays The Wife as a bad person because she's... upset at the protagonist's gambling addition. Oh yeah and she suspects he's eager to commit some adultery. How dare she... the way to show her is to have a much younger love interest that is totally into the protagonist because he starts to win at gambling! morshupls

For anyone that has had gambling-addicted boomer parents, the kind that thought a fun outing for the kids was going to the racetrack, or to Vegas, you may have similar stories of poverty perpetuated because your grillman also liked to "Let It Ride."

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[-] leftofthat@hexbear.net 34 points 10 months ago

My dad was a huge fan of Falling Down, the movie where the guy pulls a gun in a McDonalds because they stopped serving breakfast

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 34 points 10 months ago

That was one of the earliest examples I can remember of "a lot of the audience really missed the fucking point" movie, and it had the same reason: the camera and the script is focused on D-FENS and his ongoing grill-broke violent rage and that was seen as sympathetic, even condoning, of his actions and anything said about him by the end of the movie was way, way too late to get absorbed.

[-] NoLeftLeftWhereILive@hexbear.net 33 points 10 months ago

Bond movies, Out of Africa, Gone With the Wind

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 29 points 10 months ago

Most Bond movies aged very badly. Like, so badly that it's hard to go a few minutes into them without going yea and offering to turn them off for a fresh viewer that looks unhappy and has a right to be.

[-] YearOfTheCommieDesktop@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago

I used to enjoy them as a kid

Kill James Bond reminded me of some details I'd have preferred not to remember lol

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago

That feel when a "cool spy movie" basically starts with sexual violence dished out by the protagonist. kombucha-disgust

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[-] StellarTabi@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

I remember my childhood friend her older brother had the James bond Nintendo game and they played it all the time and were obsessed with wall mining and headshots then after that it felt like the james bond franchise was dead because I never met or heard of anyone who cared about James bond since.

[-] duderium@hexbear.net 17 points 10 months ago

I have a (millennial) friend who is obsessed with James Bond. He’s seen every movie, many of them multiple times, and I think he’s also read all the books. We haven’t spoken in a year.

[-] StellarTabi@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago

Sounds like a good year lol.

[-] duderium@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago

He’s a good guy and quite a character. He’s been one of my closest friends for over twenty years. I radicalized into a Marxist a few years ago but he hasn’t. He’s also trans and I’ve heard that he’s using she/her pronouns but he hasn’t actually told me this so I don’t know for sure. But he’s also pretty rich and has admitted that while capitalism sucks, he can’t support communism because it means concentration camps for everyone (in his mind).

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[-] duderium@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

He mows down dozens of dudes just out of nowhere in the beginning of Goldeneye. I rewatched this a few years ago and was like…uh…

[-] duderium@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago

The fact that Gone With The Wind has ever had any popularity at all is such a fucking travesty. From the very first opening scene (“puddin’ time!”) that movie is such a fucking disaster. And yes, my film buff mom was into it.

[-] MaoTheLawn@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

Parenti goes on a hilarious tangent about Out Of Africa in his lecture "Images Of Imperialism: Media, Myths, and Reality"... it's somewhere towards the middle/end when he's talking about colonial movies set in Africa.

Here's a link to an unofficial Spotify rehosting of the audio that I listened to it on:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QuISSFwyFQGlZKFJvdbwJ?si=R5_SPQkrRfexKN5TqsETKg

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[-] MeinOnkelBuck@hexbear.net 31 points 10 months ago

Forrest Gump. Don't question anything, America's system is the best in the world, anyone who rocks the boat (especially a woman) is an uppity slut who deserves to die of AIDS. My parents aren't even that reactionary, but they worshipped this film and still do.

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago

It is the film for unscratched liberals that is also compatible with scratched liberals.

[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 28 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Dead poets society: celebrates individualism and self-discovery among a school full of Rich white boys with zero discussion of class/race/gender and their privileges due to it. Typical boomer ideals of liberalism, frontier individualism, etc etc.

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I always hated that movie and never really gave much thought after it came out why I hated it.

Its "uplifting" message, looking back, was "YOU'RE GOING TO DIE ONE DAY SO BE A SELF-ABSORBED EPIPHANY-SEEKING ASSHOLE" as some profound wisdom. grillman

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[-] StellarTabi@hexbear.net 25 points 10 months ago

gambling

The American cultural obsession and normalization of gambling has always left me brutally discombobulated.

[-] AbbysMuscles@hexbear.net 11 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Hey, the Aussies fucking love it too. And from what I saw/heard of my Philipino ex's family/culture they love it out there as well.

[-] DayOfDoom@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago

A League Of Their Own and its normie gender politics.

[-] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The Dukes of Hazzard, and Young Sheldon. My parents love Sheldon and it constantly try to compare me to Sheldon.

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

Young Sheldon. My parents loved Sheldon and it constantly try to compare me to Sheldon.

That's more recent but very cursed.

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[-] abc@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago

fucking Little House on the Prairie - which for whatever godawful reason my mom used to throw on randomly whenever she was feeling nostalgic for her childhood. Shoutout Mary for letting her baby die in a fire, shoutout to Mary for skinny dipping with her friend and inadvertently causing them to drown - the memory of being like 7 and watching these episodes because mom put it on while she supervised us doing our homework is chefs-kiss

Funnily enough though, while my mom would throw on Little House - my dad's go-to shows were Tom Baker Doctor Who and/or early Star Trek episodes so clearly there is some sort of fucked up balance between my parents' level of boomerism

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[-] mar_k@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago

My dad thinks the CIA do no wrong. He grew up watching MacGyver

[-] glans@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

MASH

Which by the way I quite enjoyed last time I watched it a few years ago.

[-] SaniFlush@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

Tons of house fixer-upper shows and Alaskan homesteading reality TV

[-] Fruitbat@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

My mom was really into the Left Behind movies, and it really enforced her evangelical beliefs and doomsday beliefs and like. I'm really happy I hardly remember a thing about those movies. She was also into like God's Not Dead and old The Stand as well.

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

I suspect a lot of that was in the roots of "QAnon."

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[-] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

A lot of old 60s classics. John Wayne movies. For more chud adjacent I saw all the dirty Harry movies at a pretty young age. Watched Ben Hur and Planet of the Apes when I was pretty young too. Antony and Cleopatra with Liz Taylor. The Vikings with Tony Curtis and Kirk Douglas and Earnest Borgnine. That movie is still pretty good. Nice revenge arc. Edit: oh and the Blues Brothers. Even as a kid I knew it was awesome to see two misfits drive a beaten up cop car through a column of neo nazis.

For boomer TV shows I grew up with my dad singing the themes of Petticoat Junction, Addams Family, F Troop, old TV from before my time.

[-] pumpchilienthusiast@hexbear.net 17 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

it's really hard to explain what a huge deal "the big chill" was to them... Ive never seen it but I would imagine it validates their turn towards materialism and such.... Forrest Gump was also a huge deal in a similar way about 10 years later and I think a simpleton wandering through life and just happening to win at every turn really resonated with them

on tv, I think "thirtysomething" may have occupied the same mental space as "the big chill" but idk, never watched it.

if you ask me what their cinematic epitaph will be, it will be Peter Fonda in Easy Rider saying "we blew it, billy."

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

it's really hard to explain what a huge deal "the big chill" was to them... Ive never seen it but I would imagine it validates their turn towards materialism and such.... Forrest Gump was also a huge deal in a similar way about 10 years later and I think a simpleton wandering through life and just happening to win at every turn really resonated with them

I've never seen it but when I read about it, I concluded "yeah, a whole lot of boomers certainly do feel that way, responding to the sting of mortality by being selfish assholes." disgost

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[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

All I can think of when I hear about Tyler Perry movies is that Boondocks episode about him and how all his movies have the same basic plot. From my limited viewing of them, I can't say that the Boondocks was wrong...

[-] Othello@hexbear.net 13 points 10 months ago

it was spot on, they are all the same i hate them so much.

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[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago

I forgot what kind of movies Tyler Perry made until I looked.

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[-] Drewfro66@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 10 months ago

My dad was really into Gran Turismo when I was a kid.

He also religiously watched the Red Green Show but I think he was too dumb to really understand that the show was, at times, making fun of guys like him.

[-] Rod_Blagojevic@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

My parents were constantly watching Come and See, which isn't surprising. They were obsessed with every small victory the USSR had against reactionary forces.

Just kidding. This is probably what my kids will say about me when they're talking to their fellow conscripts in the Burger King-Papa John's war.

Edit: Thank God, my parents almost never watch the same thing twice. It's not obscure, but they're most influential media is probably the NFL. Particularly for my mom, they are firmly rooted in her brain. Which is weird, because after decades of watching football she still doesn't know the rules. Still, she refers to the NFL as "the league." I hate it.

Once she had a moment of clarity where she realized the news was bullshit. She couldn't understand why some NFL scandal was being ignored by the sports news. I tried to explain that the week of inane, breathless news between each game was just a commercial for the NFL and that the NFL itself was just a commercial for the US military, and all I accomplished was reaffirming that I'm an idiot.

[-] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 10 months ago

My mom loved "little house on the prairie" which, I admit, I rarely paid much attention to, but the name of it kiiiiiinda sums a ton of stuff up. My mom loved all those westerns on tv back then like "gunsmoke." I found them boring, but, you know.

She also loved "MASH" and I fucking hated it.

I've still never watched any of these as an adult.

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[-] Judge_Jury@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago

It's kind of on the nose to pick a televangelist talk show, but still, 700 Club was on our TV entirely too much. Song of the South and Gone With the Wind were also cited for "How the South used to be"

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago

Televangelists were huge in the 80s and like modern day attention vampires like trump-anguish and my-hero , anything fucked up they did only seemed to fuel their riches and power.

[-] Cummunism@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago

my dad loved MAS*H which is such a liberal show with all of it's messaging. unfortunately he died when i was in middle school so i didnt really get to dig into that. It made me watch the show though and while i probably didnt understand everything i think the messages got through to me too. I have watched it through several times as an adult.

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[-] MaoTheLawn@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

My parents weren't into that sort of thing, but if you want a hilarious boomer esque B-Movie I highly recommend movies by James Glickenhaus. I think he might be one of my favourite directors of all time, and he only made about 4 actual movies.

They're pure right wing fantasy, the acting is terrible, the dialogue is hilarious, but then out of nowhere there's just the most ludicrous action scene you've ever seen with notes of fantastic cinematography. I find them so charming. They just come together so well.

In order I'd recommend:

The Soldier. It's like American James Bond. The most ridiculous of them all, so far that he almost seems self aware. USA works with the Israelis to stop some guy blowing up all the oil in the middle east with a nuke. At one point they ramp a car over the Berlin wall. As a bonus, the sound track is by Tangerine Dream, making the movie the first ever ambient action film.

Shakedown - in the UK it was called Blue Jean Cop. The movie opens with a young Sam Elliot in a trashy cinema, falling asleep to a scene on the movie screen from The Soldier, where The Soldier does a 360 Uzi noscope on a ski ramp. The action scenes in this one are an absolute masterclass, and the come out of nowhere. Glickenhaus even predicts 9/11 at one point.

The Exterminator - Porn tier acting in this one. A traumatised Vietnam vet goes around killing gang members and pedophiles with a flamethrower. The lead character is so uncharismatic that he's perfectly casted as the most unremarkable man ever. In one scene where he shoots up a party (that only 5 people are attending), some classic 80s pop song is playing the whole time. I don't remember which song, but it's absolutely hilarious.

McBain - Don't watch this one. Unless you're craving more Glickenhaus. This one stars a young Christopher Walken as some guy who stages a coup in some Latin American country... Except he seems to show up after every firefight is over and never really does anything? It's actually hilarious once you notice it, but it's just too long to be a proper Glickenhausian romp. It opens with bamboo cage fighting in Vietnam, and in the middle of it there's an awesome speedboat scene where quite simply, dudes are rocking. Otherwise, eh.

God, I've waited so long to put my love for those movies into words.

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[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

My dad was really into James Bond, Dragnet, and Hawaii Five-O which had an effect on his politics. He also loved Get Smart and somehow watched The Prisoner in the 70s(?????) despite never setting foot in the UK, so I guess it wasn't completely bad.

I guess he's just really into spy TV shows and police procedurals lol

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[-] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

It's a big deal in Aus, but The Castle might not be well known elsewhere.

On the surface It's an ode to the dirt poor little Aussie battler keeping the government from destroying his community to build an airport runway...until you realise they're actually fairly rich tradies larping at true poverty, all their friends are some kind of lower PB with hardly a worker in sight, and to them success is becoming feel good small business tyrants.

Exactly the false consciousness that Howard used to turn Australia into the hyper-racist faux-true blue ocker hellworld it is today.

[-] ChaosMaterialist@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago

Animal House for my Dad, Ferris Bueller's Day Off for my Mom.

Also my Dad grew up on the original Star Trek, and I watched TNG growing up too.

[-] GriffithDidNothingWrong@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago

My 84 year old Dad fucking loves gunsmoke

[-] pooh@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

So my dad’s all time favorite movie was The Sting with Newman and Redford. To be honest it’s actually a pretty great movie, so I can’t really criticize that. “Chariots of Fire” was another one my parents liked and I never saw it so I’m not sure how terrible it is. Plan 9 from Outer Space was another one they loved, and I can’t criticize that either for obvious reasons, but maybe watching that kinda stuff is a small part of why I’m so weird.

I guess I should mention my parents were also in an evangelical borderline cult and didn’t watch too much popular media since they considered it “worldly”. They would ironically sometimes let us watch very adult films like Predator or Robocop, and I dunno if it’s because they were clueless or just cared way more about sex than graphic violence.

I also remember watching some weird religious shit like “The God Makers” which talks all about how Mormons believe Jesus and Satan were brothers and other stuff that makes them look bad, which there’s plenty of.

EDIT: Also forgot to mention UHF, and now that I think about it they actually had not bad taste in films overall.

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