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Emojis and Lemmy (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oyzmo@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
 

Why are Lemmy posts and replies (almost?) emoji free? - I like the small emotion symbols, they add a softer human feel to things :]

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 33 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Because they make you seem like an AI or spammer or a boomer.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It's "boomer" to use emoji? The fuck?

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 26 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The stupid Facebook posts with an over sized 🤣 about a mild joke.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Well yeah, overreacting is pretty cringe-inducing, I agree. But not the use of emoji as a concept, IMO. I think conveying emotion or intent or tone using them is good for communication in general. Makes things more personal and clear.

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[–] Panda@lemmy.today 7 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Why a boomer of all things? O.O

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[–] hellothere@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)
[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 32 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

I actually prefer emoji-lite conversation, meaning emoji is there to enhance the comment/text, and not mere spamming of one. Like for example

"i don't think i can do that 😅" kinda feels lighthearted with the emoji than without it. But "i don't think i can do that 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣" is just pure obnoxious, to me at least. I'm not gonna chastise anyone for doing that of course.

Also i do prefer kaomoji more ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

[–] big_slap@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

(☞゚ヮ゚)☞

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 28 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Because my millennial ass still uses emoticons :l

[–] FishFace@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Stay true, sister

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[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 24 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Lemmy is full of boring old farts.

[–] CaptnKarisma@lemmy.ml 10 points 3 weeks ago

I feel offended and personally attacked, but I agree

[–] bigfondue@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago
[–] Tja@programming.dev 6 points 3 weeks ago
[–] Bubberpillar@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago

I’m a girl and I use emojis and abbreviations on here. Idgaf!🤗😜

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Lmao I use emojis alot of the time

But not every comment is appropriate for emojis, and I feel like overusing it makes me look like a bot or a weirdo, so I don't do it unless it really fits the tone of the comment

[–] quaff@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I've had someone question whether I'm a bot or not because I use so many emojis 🥲

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[–] gnu@lemmy.zip 20 points 3 weeks ago

I'm quite happy to not see emojis spammed everywhere, I can deal with an emoticon or two - more so if actually useful for setting tone - but much more than that and you're pushing it.

I tend to associate posts peppered with emojis with either immaturity or those out of their depth when it comes to technology. I'm sure it's not always true but it does seem to correlate well with either kids or those whose typing method includes just tapping on the emoji whenever their phone keyboard suggests it.

[–] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 weeks ago

Emojis are for the girls and the homies. Sorry, I don’t know y’all like that.

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I see them as a crutch for people without a large grasp of their spoken language. Emojis are then new "very".

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 7 points 3 weeks ago

This will be the most infuriating upvote I give today. Congratulations, and good job.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

My whole name is emojis. 🤷‍♂️

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 weeks ago

Mine too, but only because I saw your username two years ago and cribbed your trick.

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[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 10 points 3 weeks ago

Because no one on lemmy has emotions of course :3 /j

(But ever since I figured out that entering LLAP into the compose key thingy results in the vulcan salute emoji (🖖) I have considered signing off my posts with that lol)

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

That made me realise of one thing, if I'm on PC I have no idea how to write an emoji. I don't even know if they're available, I imagine they are, but not a clue of how.

[–] FishFace@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

I think this is probably a big part of it actually. If you're inserting emojis you're probably on a phone, so you're probably interacting with the discussion in a quite different way than if you were on a PC. It's not as comfortable to write longer, better-thought-out comments.

People pick up on these implications and judge people accordingly.

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[–] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's kind of funny how I was recently thinking that Lemmy and other Fediverse services seem to be at least tolerant of occasional emoji use. Just don't overdo it and you'll probably be fine. 😁

Compared to, say, Reddit. If you used emoji there, you either got murdered by the spam filter and you will never succeed in your life and you don't know why (there are other ways to trigger it, of course), or it goes through, and the fedoras shall descend upon you.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 weeks ago

I was going to say, I think it's carry-over from Reddit, which is vehemently anti-emoji.

I think they are fine, even helpful, punctuating a larger comment, but I think the fear is tolerance leads to posts that just consist of 👍 or 🤣🤣🤣 which are ambiguous (is that agreement or mockery?) and just trash quality content that contributes nothing to the discourse.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I miss vBulletin emoticons.

The unicode ones are lame.

[–] razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 3 weeks ago

My take on it is that emojis are used more in casual or interpersonal conversations where they do add tone and emphasis. Most of the topics, at least on my feed, are technical or political and emojis either seem unnecessary/out of place there.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I use the voyager app to browse and it has this little text faces that, imo, are better the emojis. ~(つˆ0ˆ)つ。☆

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[–] zecg@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

That's like greeting a toddler and asking parents why she's lice-free.

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Emojis are for chatting/texting. I don't even want to see them here.

[–] craftrabbit@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 weeks ago

👉👈🥺

[–] remon@ani.social 6 points 3 weeks ago

I don't really care why, just glade it's the case.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've never been against them globally, just depends on the community theme. They're inappropriate on serious communities I think still.

String four 🤣🤣🤣🤣 together on a debate board and the urge reach through their screen and strangle them like Homer and Bart becomes intense.

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[–] Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Smileys are where it's at. :)

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[–] Toes@ani.social 4 points 3 weeks ago

\⁠(⁠°⁠o⁠°⁠)⁠/

[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 4 points 3 weeks ago

I love Kaomoji and use them in most of my comments. So far I felt like people are very neutral here when it comes to this topic but iirc other platforms weren't very fond of emojis so I guess a lot of users are just not used to it.

When I use emojis I try to use as little as possible because they feel kind of overused to me and a text with several emojis just doesn't read well for me.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

the small emotion symbols

Possibly you mean emoticons? ^⁠_⁠^

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