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[–] glowing_hans@sopuli.xyz 2 points 30 minutes ago* (last edited 27 minutes ago)

discord is an evil spirit and i am anti-discord puritan ᗜ‸ᗜ

javascript bloatware with pop-up advertisement for you to buy nitro-shit to post glowy animated stuff

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I use discord extensively. I've been on lemmy for over a year. Heck, I'm on a server that got pulled together in lemmy. I've seen a lot of complaints about discord, but nobody's actually ever condemned me for using it.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Let me be the first one. It has nothing to do with FOSS or decentralization, I just think it's a shit software.

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Afaict, it doesn't really have any major competitors. No, if I have to self host, it's not a competitor

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I agree. I just think the reason it doesn't is because it doesn't need to exist. Seriously, 100% of its usecases are better served by something else.

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Um. As a simple place for a group to chat and communicate via text?

[–] smeg@feddit.uk 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Is it better than Signal/WhatsApp for that?

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Signal / WhatsApp are messengers, they're meant for 1 to 1 or small groups. They don't handle large groups well, for which you want things like rooms, roles, moderation, etc. Different niches.

[–] smeg@feddit.uk 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Ah, so large groups specifically? Fair enough

Yeah, I run a hobby club with like 200 members in discord. Handling that in WhatsApp or signal would be such a pain.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Discord's great for that. But so many games and software are using it instead of forums or proper issue trackers now. It's a pretty serious downgrade.

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 hours ago

Yeah I get the downside of those. But I find it weird how so many people blast discord when it's just about the only option for simple modern text based chat groups

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

It reminds me of MIRC but if MIRC was soulless and made you pay to do the "fun" stuff like change colors and script things.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 1 points 10 hours ago

I still like pIRCh better

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 6 points 17 hours ago

I'll take "Things that don't happen" for $2, Alex.

[–] emeralddawn45@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 23 hours ago

Why do people think they're entitled to some sort of validation for their poor software choices? No one is being banned or blocked just for not using linux or for using discord. People are free to disagree with your choices- thats not gatekeeping.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 11 points 22 hours ago

sure but like. if you moderate a comm here and wants a chatroom, please spare me from discord.

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 61 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I'd imagine gatekeeping based on a percentage of FOSS used isn't going to win many hearts and minds in the long run for our communities. Imagine if the Linux community decried using the Steam Store on FOSS operating systems.

If the tool is best for the job, people will use it. Our role is to make FOSS that tool in each category.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

Yeah, and in terms of usability Discord alternatives are really quite substantially behind Discord in terms of functions.

I don't think the same is with Reddit and Lemmy/Piefed. The distance is not so vast.

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[–] sunoc@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago

IMO that's the very reason why the FSF failed to gain significant traction over the years. Using a 100% libre device is HARD, even if you really want to. But yeah, gatekeeping is never gonna be helpful to push people towards better habits...

However, I would politely disagree with the "best tool for the job" argument. I believe that FLOSS software is an inherent quality, and that some degree of trade-off is acceptable, and even needed if we want to further promote it. Like, is Darktable worst than Lightroom? Sure, but it's an awesome piece of software with minimal trade-offs for most people, so I think it's still meaningful to promote it above a potentially better software for the job, feature-wise but that requires to give up all freedom to Adobe.

Eventually that limit of acceptable trade-off is matter of personal choice, and again, it sound silly to gate-keep people on the Fediverse for that...

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[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 23 hours ago

why would you care what a few hundred nerds think at all?
the fediverse is big and diverse, find a place where people aren't weird about shit (or are your kind of weird)

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You should gatekeep Discord because it fucking sucks

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

It's not like there's any actual alternative with decent UI that doesn't require self hosting or a subscription.

[–] axEl7fB5@lemmy.cafe 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

element? it has its fair share of criticisms tho

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 2 points 10 hours ago

Giving Up on Element & Matrix.org

Yeah, I looked into it at some point but it does not look suitable for big groups that include non techies.

[–] mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de 37 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah I love Lemmy and I love that people aren't afraid to be extreme on here but sometimes it's exhausting that it's just so omnipresent. It's like there's a whole lifestyle associated with Lemmy. And some people really take it too far. I think there's a balance to be struck between being full of normies vs being all extreme all the time.

[–] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

you butchered the hell out of that format

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[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 23 points 1 day ago (29 children)

I had some dickhead coming at me the other day on Lemmy for not having completely erased Facebook from my life. As though that's a remotely reasonable thing to expect everyone to do.

It's not like making a personal decision not to use Amazon or to install Linux. It's a social network. It's literally not possible to make the decision unilaterally, unless you want to cut yourself off from people you care about IRL and from real political organising.

[–] drosophila@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

It’s literally not possible to make the decision unilaterally

Sentiments that would be completely incomprehensible 20 years ago.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 points 9 hours ago

Eh, it's not that different from the way humans have always been. Maybe you didn't like drinking in the 19th century, but if the local pub is where all your mates meet up to hang out, then the pub is where you go.

[–] violetsoftness@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

based on the replies it's incomprehensible to some people right now 😂

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I did it. There's plenty of other ways for people to get in touch with me.

there's one right there!

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[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I have had lots of meme ideas, some even made it into production, before ultimately deciding to shelve it because it was on a topic that wouldn't have been very welcome.

Like a meme on Amazon being late yet again (if I were to order from Amazon, not saying I do! 😅) or something. Or a meme on how sometimes I use AI and it's actually helpful (Again, not saying I do! 😅(I want my threadilawyer)) LMAO

[–] deedan06_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago

Dbzer0 is pro ai

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