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Not my nails, obvs.

Some (beginner-focused) tips for painting your nails:

Lighter colors and solid colors are easier to work with. Pick a good color or few, you don't need to start too fancy.

Don't shake nail polish, that can mess it up. Roll it slowly if you ever need to mix.

Don't just do the coloration and call it a day, put clear nail polish on first, and put it over the color. That will protect your nails.

Consider getting nail polish remover when you get your nail polish, mistakes are easy.

Put your nails down on a flat surface, clean your nails (maybe with that nail polish remover?), and apply the clear base coat (doesn't need to be perfect). Stroke from the base of the nail to the top, until the nail is covered. It might get on your skin, that's normal, anything on your skin can be dealt with at the end. Let it dry, like you would any other kind of base coat.

Now that it's dry, do like what you did with your clear polish for colors. Base to tip, going from the center outwards. If you can still see through after it's covered, wait for it to dry a little, then do another layer.

Then apply your top coat to make smooth, shiny, and somewhat protected painted nails. Wait for it all to dry (very important), which could as long as normal working hours + commute. Don't mess it up. If you do, you might have to restart on some nails.

Now that it's dry the polish on your skin should act sorta like glue, where you can just peel it off, but if it's stubborn you could use a cotton swab with nail polish remover to carefully remove it (don't let it touch your nails!).

Now you should have nice smooth nails.


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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

cw: SIi feel so numb i barely want to move and type this. i have to leave for work in an hour and i can't stop thinking about putting a gun in my mouth and giving it a big sloppy blowjob just to feel something. not even pulling the trigger or even loading it, just sticking a firearm into my mouth and giving it oral sex as if it were a phallus just to fucking feel something. why the fuck am i still single. why the fuck does every attempt at romance fail. i can't keep track of the number of people i've fallen for romantically and literally no one has ever reciprocated. there are poly trans women my age who have more partners than fingers and i can't find one single person who would ever think to themselves "wow EstraDoll is pretty cute I'd date him" so i might as well give oral sex to a firearm and fantasize about ending my miserable fucking existence because no one else is desperate enough to touch me with a 10 foot pole

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Been seeing more AI girlfriend vids in my feed recently, prob has to do with the grok thing I bet. I get loneliness but my go to is just talking to myself in my head. Like everything it's a skill and the more you do it the easier it gets to the point I forget I'm not talking to myself kril-at-sea insert description of tulpas etc

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

::: spoiler social anxiety, illegality?

Ok so im thinking of going to a show on my own. I have some pretty serious social anxiety, and im worried it will get activated hard. The show is also DIY so it may get shut down. Not terribly excited about running from the cops tbh... Any tips for not being completely socially fucking weird and dysregulated? Last show i went to like this (it wasnt diy) i got super dysregulated and did not have a good time, and im worried it will happen again. A friend offered to go with me and it was looking up but then she backed out cause the show is DIY and while the chance is slim it might get shut down... Part of me really wants to go, to have some fun, but another part of me is so anxious and scared of getting there and feeling totally alienated and alone... Going alone might be better for me, so i dont feel responsible for the enjoyment of the people im with, but it also is scarier...

Anyway yeah, any tips on how to deal with that anxiety? Also any tips on running from the cops in case it is shut down?

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[โ€“] TransWalterKronkite@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I am Walter Cronkite, and I am Trans, and this is CBS News

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I used to be scared getting next to the mirror for fear of mirror me pulling me in and replacing me and now there is no used to I'm still a bit weary scared

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[โ€“] Mari@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

::: spoiler pointless gay ramblings I really really want to tell my friend how much i love her but I'm really scared that she will reject me and me ruining our friendship. I'm also really worried that i might be overstepping her boundaries by asking.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

how do voice train? I'm not a great singer but I can do some stuff

[โ€“] MoonElf@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

for feminization i love Zhea (someone else linked her wonderful playlist) but i personally made a lot of progress with Lucy at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkZ-3sMGEmDwlD5zNgEtWJwz8WDt6H8OZ like enough progress that my family noticed!

[โ€“] happyfullfridge@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There's a lot of resources online but I honestly just got my voice to a slightly androgenous zone and stopped caring, where I'm at being clocky hasn't been a bother really and I personally don't care.

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Keep being recommend more no-copyright content and streamers on yt it's nice but I do eventually worry about the algo thinking I'm a child. Remember hearing and I can fully see yt flagging me as a minor thru ai and how I'd might have to verify my age

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel better today. I don't know why, but today gives me hope.

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

I kinda don't want to do anything. It would be nice if time stopped moving until I was ready

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ryuiji vs Kiryu was so goated imo dragon vs dragon and the dialogue was top notch in their first encounter.

Ryuiji: I'm a yakuza have been all my life and I take it you're a Yakuza 2?

kiryu-stare

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Years ago an electrician advised me to change a breaker from a 20 Amp to a 30 Amp and I did but it's not like I upgraded whatever wiring was there from 12 gauge to 10 and now I'm just left wondering when my house is gonna burn down. I wish I paid better attention to which one it was and right now I'm feeling too silly catgirl-happy and tired to think more of it catgirl-flop

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