hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

SwitchyandWitchy* (1/20 (The darkest day in the history of our democracy.) - 1/26)
SILLY BEAN@lemmygrad.ml* (1/27 - 2/2)
AshenWolf* (2/3 - 2/9)
GayTuckerCarlson* (2/10 - 2/16)
oscardejarjayes* (2/17 - 2/23)
EstraDoll (2/24 - 3/2)
Eco* (3/3 - 3/9)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

Fact: the freckles on my arm are infinitely cuter when they're not under arm hair

Yes… ha ha ha… YES!

Upvote to put me back to sleep

when the scam-caller calls you “ma’am”

DICTATORSHIP OF THE QUEER

up with trans

down with cis

I finally got back on HRT last week lesgooo

Being a boy is awkwardly sitting there doing nothing and handing your dad tools while he actually does stuff.

Being a woman is doing the same thing except with your wife.

bit idea: t4t straight couple where the boyfriend is complaining that his GF keeps leaving the toilet seat up

::: spoiler im overwhelmed

My friend has been so fucking weird with me and needing constant unending intense emotional support around her life and specifically around her jealousy of myself and one of our friends fucking. I keep trying to tell her that i cant be a suppirt person in this for her, but nothing changes, and i keep having the same conversation over and over and its fucking exhausting and i just want it to end. The convo isnt productive, and its sole purpose is for her to get reassurance that we wont fuck when im clear and adamant that that us stopping wont happen, because us fucking is none of her business. We all live together and she wants me to text her any time we are gonna fuck but also doesnt ever want to know about it and i keep telling her that its not appropriate or healthy for us to have that depth and style of communication and she agrees with me and then a couple days later asks for it again and we have the exact same convo all over again

Anyway i keep asking for space and she doesnt give it to me and she gets upset and feels like im "leaving her" when i go to my room for distance and space. Im so done with this.

I know almost none of you really know me or care about me and I apologize for shitting up the mega. All of you are so happy with what you're going through that you don't deserve to see the absolute trainwreck that is my life right now. I'm sorry, but with no one to properly just vent to, I resort to coming here. Legitimately if you don't like it and don't care to see this, I will stop. Just tell me in reply or PM. Seriously.

downloaded bumble again for the first time in a while and the only 4 options you get for your political leanings:

Apolitical Moderate Liberal Conservative

in that order too? fuck off

LETS FUCKING GO guess who just got prescribed HRT

Upsides of wearing a dress: looking and feeling cute

Downside: I now want to get ripped so I can have giant arms

Having to misgender and deadname yourself at the marriage office sucks

built some furniture for my wife

I am happy to announce to you all that the last couple of days have been much better for me, overall Not much of note gender-wise ~~using a fresh razor helps so much good lord~~ but yea, I've gotten to feel like me again and its very nice.

My department is renovating my department's building and apparently one of the changes they're making is turning our gender neutral restrooms into larger gendered restrooms even though literally no one asked for that. Their rationale is "none of the other departments have gender neutral restrooms" 😞

aww yis first, morning

god damn that girl in the mirror is finally starting to just look like a clocky ass trans femme and not just some kind of soft faced guy now this is really nice

Bit idea: IT manager with it/its pronouns.

8 months HRT and I can start to feel my body weight center shift down from my waist to my ass and thighs and it feels great

I just introduced myself with she/her pronouns to an entire 75 student class for the first time and it STRESSED me out but it was ultimately painless

hawk you i won't tuah you tell me

Bif of a mixed bag on Xiaohongshu regarding trans people. I see a lot of "Don't ask don't tell" sort of responses, including some "We don't care, but it's not for kids" type talk. When it comes to non-binary, there are a lot of "we don't have 96 genders in China" type responses.

On posts by trans and gnc people, I don't really see any negative comments.

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The more I think about it, the less I care about changing all my documents and shit. The name I use for paperwork basically never comes up in normal interactions, and when it does I genuinely just find it funny. Like, a security guard one time who said "huh, thats a weird name to give to a girl, what was your mom thinking!!" or an old ass man who looked at me like Im an alien when and he looked up my registration. Maybe I'm stupid cuz it might put me in danger or something, but after 4 ish years of being stealth, I don't even care about being outed anymore. Actually, I kinda wish I was more visually trans sometimes, because I know for a fact some of the people I work with and see every day don't know any trans people (or at least don't know that they know) and only hear about them on fox news and shit. Anyways... Ramble over, thanks for reading it :D

awwwwwrufff!!!

I feel silly for feeling like this lmao but I'm honestly so happy that I just got a nice used car

My old one was almost as old as I am and is falling apart and just a total POS at this point

The new (old) car is like ten years old and nothing fancy really but it's well maintained and clean and in really good condition and I somehow got it for 4 figures and it feels like an unfathomable amazing luxury to my broke ass that's used to everything in my life being frustrating shitty bullshit

Driving it home I was amazed by how nice the interior is and how it smells nice instead of faintly moldy and I felt like, underdressed for how nice it feels to me? Like this is a car somebody with their shit together probably drives and I'm a weirdo mess but goddamn this is one of the best things that's happened to me in ages and I'm really happy about it

it's crazy that literally everyone who ever watched animorphs or read the books is transgender now. every single one

is it me or do men misgender you more than anyone else? it just clicked to me like 5 minutes ago that women almost never misgender me at work but men frequently do. Am I going crazy here or is this just a normal thing?

I think one of the main reasons why trans rights are such a common litmus test is because it demonstrates how easily someone is willing to live-and-let-live, and to have space for others.

The reality is literally the other way around of

I remembered the new mega this week. You all should be proud

Something I’ve learned from Xiaohongshu is that goth lesbians very much transcend language and nationality

Once again crying over the simple pleasure of warm leftover stew