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[-] Anticorp@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Absolutely! Life is a precious gift, and I hope to continue living for a long time. It's not always good, it's not always easy, it's not always fun, but it is beautiful, interesting, challenging, and better than the alternative.

To be able to make such choice implies that I already exist in some form.

And I'd probably be too afraid of non-existence to choose not being born.

Life sucks, but I also don't want to "not-exist". Its terrifying.

Can I just be a ghost floating around and just "chill" and observe? Perhaps in the company of other ghosts to talk to...

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 month ago

Non-existence isn't scary, scary thing is losing your existence.

[-] baldingpudenda@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I didn't exist for billions of years and I'm fine...ish. idk what happens after though

[-] NegativeInf@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Same thing that happened before. You were fine with not existing before hand.

[-] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

This was my immediate thought also, whatever part of me that is making the decision already exists so this is the same question as "would you want to stop existing now?" the answer to which is an emphatic "no." I'd exist indefinitely given the choice.

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[-] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 31 points 1 month ago
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[-] ElcaineVolta@kbin.melroy.org 22 points 1 month ago
[-] austic23@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago
[-] Mr_Fish@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago

Absolutely.

A. Even with how shit the world is there's enough good that exists for it to be worth it.

B. If I didn't exist, I would never have a chance to help improve the world in my small way.

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[-] johannes@lemmy.jhjacobs.nl 17 points 1 month ago

No. And thats the reason i don't have kids.

Humanity is rotten, and personally i don't think we'll ever change. The best thing that can happen to earth is for humanity to collapse and become extinct.

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

No. Not even remotely. Not even if I was assured it was a simulation. No.

[-] LambdaRX@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 month ago

Certainly yes.

[-] Linktank@lemmy.today 13 points 1 month ago

Fuuuuuck no.

[-] megane_kun@lemm.ee 12 points 1 month ago

I'm echoing a lot of the replies here by saying “No.” Even if I'm given a choice as to what kind of life I'd live, still no.

Even if people say there's a lot of good things in life, or that there are people living their dreams in this world, still no. I don't play the lottery, even if I might end up with more money than I could ever hope to spend. The same logic applies here.

There would be no me to regret not existing if I don't exist.

[-] Anticorp@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

What if you could choose to be born with absolute power, like an emperor of old, and mold society into the shape you wish it were?

[-] megane_kun@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I know myself enough that I'm likely to let that absolute power absolutely corrupt me and hence, make things absolutely worse for everyone around me.

I'm not that good of a person to be able to be sure that I won't abuse that power, nor am I wise enough to know what to do in order to use that power for the good of everyone. Worse, I'd fall under the delusion that I'm the only person with the will and power to able to do good, and that my ideals are the only ones that count.

So, unfortunately, no. I must decline.

[-] Anticorp@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

That's very introspective. I need to participate in that sort of self-evaluation more often. Believe it or not, I think our silly little conversation actually just helped me IRL. Thanks!

[-] megane_kun@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

I'm glad it somehow helped you IRL. Best of luck to you!

[-] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 month ago

Even if my life currently is not bad, there are and have been bad times. Not existing is never bad. So no.

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[-] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 month ago

Others have already answered this well, but I'll repeat it anyway: No.

[-] Xiisadaddy@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 month ago

Funny you should ask because fetus me actually tried to hang myself with my own umbilical cord and they had to cut me out of my mom to stop me. So apparently i really wasnt looking forward to my time on earth.

[-] Mannimarco@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago
[-] Godthrilla@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I mean, the universe is just an experiment in experience. Even with the bullshit, it's better to have been than to never have been

[-] transientpunk@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago
[-] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago
[-] fool@programming.dev 7 points 1 month ago

Warning: ITT, lots of nonresponse bias.

Life dissatisfaction guides people to type no;
neutrally satisfied folks will skip;
the relatively contented might type a "yes" or be offline.
With today's historical context, there's a bit of a skew, especially for those hanging out online o( ; ´ ﹏ `;)o

As for me, I'm excepted. I have decent dissatisfaction rather often, but arrogantly -- I'd be born a million times, every time (unless you ask me at a bad moment).

Even at my worst, why do I not roll over and die? "I want to see how my story ends."

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[-] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

Question, can I change my sex at birth?

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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago

I reckon so, yeah. Better than nothing, right? Been plenty of good with the bad. That's about all a disembodied energy form could really hope for, after all.

[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Oh fuck no. For my entire life I've resented having to be alive. You try being a suicidally inclined 7 year old and see how you like it. The fact that it's impossible to ask someone if they want to be born is enough for me to never want to have kids, always had been. Forcing existence and cognizance on a human being is unspeakably fucking cruel.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Yeah, it's worth it. Plus maybe I can help.

[-] Tattorack@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I've been through some terrible things in life.

But yes, I'd still choose to be born. The universe is an amazing place, and despite everything that has happened and is going on, there truly isn't anything as wonderful as getting to experience a small, brief slice of the universe.

[-] CrimeDad@lemmy.crimedad.work 6 points 1 month ago

Yes. If I'm actually some kind of cosmic being that can choose to be born yes, I am taking that pill. I'm taking all the experience pills.

[-] wewbull@feddit.uk 5 points 1 month ago

I think I would have preferred to just manifest as a being of energy that could take corporal form at will.

Would have been a lot easier on my mum.

[-] tty1@reddthat.com 5 points 1 month ago

Yes! I'd rather there be something than nothing. It's a wonder that anything exists at all

[-] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 5 points 1 month ago

God no. And I won't have kids either. Spare them having to think about it.

[-] lustyargonian@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Just like how we don't know what it would feel like to be dead, and we dread dying, I suppose choosing to be born would feel like death of that self that is given this choice, so I guess the question can be rephrased as "if you could die in this moment, would you choose that?"

I guess not.

[-] Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Damn right I would.

[-] overload@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

Yes. Everything is pointless and nothing is forever. Might as well enjoy the life we've got. Non-existence is better for some people, but I think on the whole life is worth living for most people.

[-] AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago
[-] Eryn6844@beehaw.org 4 points 1 month ago

just go ahead and turn me to dust again, split apart my atoms, make something useful out of it.

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[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

So far, yes. I think being able to be physically embodied is so remarkable. And on top of that, to be able to hear and see (sort of) and think and feel? It's not gonna last forever, so I want to feel it while I can. Absolutely yes.

[-] Viri4thus@feddit.org 4 points 1 month ago
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