It be cool working in the Woke factory, I'd go in day in day out and be making genders with my big hammer. I'd get sweaty and tired but I'd be happy knowing I'd be doing proud
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I had a real nice party with my friends. We all made guo tie (potstickers) together and talked into the night.
hi hello
cw election
my friend lives in long island, she is trans, latina, and disabled. she has guaranteed money, enough to live on in most cities except those like nyc and San Francisco, because of a birth injury. she's extremely scared of this new trump government and project 2025. she's also adhd and has trouble making decisions. should i encourage her to move away from America? what should I say to her? I'm not sure how dangerous it will be for her but she already hates long island. she either wants to move to montreal, where I and some friends live, or Spain where she has a cousin and aunt that she doesn't know too well. montreal would come with the issue of getting a visa but we could figure a way. she puts a lot of trust in me and I don't want to encourage her to move here for selfish reasons (i want my friends to live near me). thank u in advance
someone reply to my reply in this chain please and thank you
My mom keeps using "mijas" to refer to me and my sibling, be processing how I feel about it. I don't know I feel like I don't mind being called mijo or mija as much since it's in spanish and I got different feels for it than english. Even outside of talking to us both, she's also just used mija on me and unless I say something she doesn't correct/notice it. Don't know if anyone else has notice different feels in regard to gender in other languages what with the feminine and masculine pronouns for stuff.
Might have caught gf's cold : /
Every time I give a video essay in my youtube feed a chance it always sucks ass. I clicked one about how modern mass media suck wich had 600k views and it's making literal cinema sins tier "critiques" about continuity errors. who tf cares?
eepy and sick
family shit, alcoholism, venting, REALLY bleak and bitter sorry
feeling exhausted and depleted trying to keep my parents from falling apart and their home from turning into a complete hovel
They're so disorganized and have neglected so much cleaning and maintenance
I want to help and it it's something that definitely needs to be done and they're not capable of all of it anymore but there's so much and I don't have anyone else to help me
I'm an only child and they're getting old and feeble and I feel like a huge chunk of my life now is taking care of them and they're too lazy to do the parts of it that they are capable of
I need to maintain a good relationship with them for financial support and would be quickly end up homeless without them but I feel like I'm doing way more for them at this point than they do for me, and the time spent keeping their home from falling into complete disarray is keeping me from getting my own shit together enough to be completely independent
My mom's a kind person and pretty good despite being of a slob, but my dad is a complete incompetent trainwreck at this point and the most tedious infuriating old sack of shit on the planet and actively makes any attempt at keeping their place decent worse by getting in the way and complaining about everything
I wouldn't trust him to take care of a houseplant for me if I was gone for a week, and mom works full time still, so every time I improve things there, it backslides into filth in days and quickly snowballs from there into "damn bitch, you live like this?!"
All he does is drink, watch TV, complain and ramble about boring work anecdotes from 20+ years ago that I've heard a million times before and he gets pissed off when I don't want to hear him recite in their entirety (he's been "retired" for 15 years, and took that time to become a full time alcoholic and professional miserable burden)
He belongs in a nursing home that we can't afford
I fucking hate him and have no clue how my mom didn't leave him decades ago
My relationship with him has gotten so bitter that it's making me resent her for putting up with him, and I'm a fucked up hermit and she's pretty much the only good person in my life right now
I don't fucking know what to do, it's like my adult life never actually began and can't until his ends
All he's willing to do is drink and watch TV waiting to die, and he's getting so decrepit and doddering that he won't buy his own booze anymore since it's unsafe for him to drive and he's likely to fall just going shopping, so my mom and I have been enablers because booze is the only thing that'll placate him and he'll get seizures from withdrawal
I'm so fucking tired of this and feel completely stuck and miserable
No one that actually knows him will miss him when he's gone and he's an enormous burden on the only people he regularly interacts with, but he's "a great guy" to his old friends since he was mister handyman and always fixed things up for people decades ago
Every time he passes out, I hope he doesn't wake up
It might be tolerable if I had a sibling to share the burden or if I at least had positive memories of who he used to be to focus on as an excuse to keep supporting him, but he's always been a self centered, angry impulsive miserable bastard even when he was able bodied and cogent
I feel like I'm gonna be even more of a black sheep to my relatives for feeling nothing but relief when he's finally dead, and the bitterness of them not knowing how insufferable he became and thinking I'm an ungrateful shitty person for not mourning when that day comes might make me snap
FUCK
feels slightly better to vomit up all that black bile, sorry if you read all that and it bummed you out
When things are going pretty good and all I can feel is that there’s a bit less pain than usual.
So I'm going to a hair salon tomorrow. It'll be a day of firsts for me. It'll be the first time I've presented as fem in public somewhere other than at my therapists. It'll be my first time really doing anything fem in public. I'm stressed but excited. So to cope I'm trying on a bunch of different outfits right now to see what I like. I think I've settled on an outfit comprised of a gray teeshirt under a cute orange cardigan. I'm trying to decide if I should do the high waisted jeans I have, or a cute orange hippy skirt I like. I could do the skirt over the jeans or leggings if it stays cold and rainy like today. Decisions decisions
Was watching muscles and magic mashlee and they got a nonbinary masc character they an antagonist and a bit weird but good person.
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It's a series of magic so their powered up form is more nonbinary femme
Still dub sticks with they/them and outside of their presentation they a classical music buff at least what classical music means to anime fans. They also eat tartar sauce and use fish as a means to eat more tartar sauce. I feel them on this but with sriracha
Been playing shadow generations
i have this great idea for a wrestling documentary. i wanna cover something that isn't talked about enough. so basically, in 1997 bret hart and shawn michaels were
There seems to be a minor shipping war happening with the DA Veilguard fanfics. The two most popular ones are constantly neck by neck in the race for having the most fics about them.
The contenders are a silver fox 50 something dapper necromancer and a tortured assassin who has a demon living inside of him
it's all het shit so i don't really care i just found it funny
The fact that I have to click on more time to get from the front page to the trans mega is violence
I used to make fun of my mom for being into witch shit, and now look where we are... 🧹 🪄
What is happening in gender today, comrades?
taking a break from the endless fetch quest i kicked off with my namechange, also still recovering from the very gay party i visited on friday night