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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").โ€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I should have gone back to bed a while ago, I am going to end up so emotional today. On that note, dear god I want to be on hormones :kitty-cri:

[โ€“] context@hexbear.net 13 points 4 months ago

oh hey is that our public universal friend? it is! hi puf!

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (13 children)

can't sleep, let's have a tea thread.

I like Earl Grey lately for the afternoon for a little caffeine boost (with a bit of oat milk and maple syrup), but I'll also drink sencha or genmaicha.

At night I like camomille, or sleepytime, or Bengal spice, whatever Partner is making.

Since I stopped Spiro we've accidentally ended up with a huge bag of peppermint tea and I'm trying to like it again, because Spiro was gross but I used to like peppermint.

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[โ€“] Mousy@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago
[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

On the first day of Hallows Eve my true love gave to mee
A bat in a dead oak treeee

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[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (9 children)

being a social rejectKinda wish someone would just say this stuff to my face. It's like everyone else knows what my deal is and has decided to see me as an NPC. Literally they all know and just are like "interactions with you end here"

I feel like I'm more likely to explode than to ask a direct question with intent in a social setting or talk to someone who isn't already talking to me first. I feel like there are times where I just stand around hoping someone will interact with me, because I don't trust the interaction to go well if I go up to someone.

And it's not just being quirky and smol or whatever. I like don't have friends and struggle with my goals because I can't talk with confidence ๐Ÿ˜ถ It blows chunks

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Anytime there's a scifi club, there's always hot feminine coded aliens grinding in cages or otherwise inaccessible

Where are our hot dude coded aliens?! Or even our hot alien-aliens??

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (5 children)

What if I bought a set of cat thigh highs and cat ears... haha.... unless :3

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (8 children)

How do I make my wrists stop hurting? They are sore, when I turn them, exert straight force on them or hold something with weight.

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

funi joek liz-society

What do you call androgynous smelling pretty perfume?

punchlineEau de parfum pour themme

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (9 children)

Sanity check chat, is a parent saying "you can do a b c transition things, but I don't want you doing x y z while you live here, I'm just not comfortable with that/goes against my beliefs", abusive? Like assuming its strictly transition related. I don't know what specific things are being thought of either. Personally, I'm assuming that to mean hrt/pronouns/name/clothes?

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

What goes against their beliefs and why? madeline-stare If something you need goes "against their beliefs" (cultural revolution against kkkhristianity when) then I would say yes to this question.

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[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yes, definitely. The parent is clearly treating the child as property, doing so in a cissexist manner, and attempting to destroy the child's sense of self. However, it's super normalized.

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[โ€“] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 4 months ago

I never knew about The Friend! Learning new things every week with trans mega :trans-ferret:

[โ€“] Wake@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I decided to finally mod in a female codriver into my favorite rally game. It's so much nicer than the robotic British dude shouting at me.

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (29 children)

fucked up in the crib sippin Dr. Perky

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