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In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").β€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] ZoomeristLeninist@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (8 children)

having nail polish on all week has made me feel great! gonna do this all the time!!

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

@EstraDoll@hexbear.net sorry I missed the lego’s gathering at your place! When’s the next one? screm-pretty

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Public Universal Friend Megathread! lea-manic

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[–] WertformProphetin@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Germans cannot be trusted with a nation-state

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[–] TheChemist@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The State of Kansas has just become the Sixth US State to officially recognize Asexual Awareness Week, which starts today, on the 20th. I am happy this happened, as an Asexual Man.

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[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago

Crawl into bed at 2am, a reasonable hour! Suddenly connect that people I was helping pay for medical appointments last year have recently bought an apartment. At least I have this stale popcorn.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

HASAN SHAVED boohoo noooooooooooooooooooooooo~oooooooooooooooooooo...~

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Is it toxic that I like when people I date are a little bit annoyed with me?

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Bought a lesbian bracelet but I'm too anxious to wear it outside :/

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (4 children)

PFLAG and WPATH sound like environment variables

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being a blue whale seems like a sweet gig (other than the noise pollution) just swim around with your mouth open, visit the carribean laze your way to the Indian ocean, visit by the antarctic

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

GAY, UP TOO EARLY AND VERY HUNGRY

doggirl-tears

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Transphobia, misgenderingCissies will hear me say I'm a woman, I go by she/her, and will correctly gender me once then never again. Unlimited forced transition on the cis

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

i was going to type more about possibly thinking about dating a poly person and how i feel about that but fuck me i got to shower and head out to work too soon to write that essay today. gay thoughts later

i like girls :)

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

getting back in to weird paranormal shit. ghosts, aliens, weird magic stuff all that jazz. and my god none of these people have even just a modicum of critical thought, skepticism about extraordinary claims, or ability to question their own ideas. I want paranormal shit to be real, because it'd be cool and make the world way more interesting, and I know in my heart of hearts I want to believe which is why any time I find myself being swayed I'm like woah ok we gotta touch base here and look critically at this shit. if you want it to be real, you need to be 1000% more skeptical, because your brain is trying to get you to do a dumbass cognative dissonance and look past actual rigorous critical analysis.

why are there so few reasonable 'idk bro, could be somethin, but we'd neeed more evidence. as of right now, this is merely a weird thing that more than likely is nothing' paranormal investigators!

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The negotiating committee says: "this is probably the best deal we're going to get, it's up to membership to decide if this deal is acceptable but we recommend ratification"

The general membership seems to be saying: "we can get better."

And I can sympathize, I do think we can get better. But I don't really have faith that my fellow union members are actually willing to go to the mat to get better, or if they're financially able to. Cause I don't think this government is going to give and I think if we strike, strike pay is SHIT in the first place, they'll legislate back to work - and I don't know about the wherewithal in membership to put up an illegal strike. Cause they will fine us as a unikn, some members (mostly in leadership) will be threatened with fines and even jail time, but it's definitely a struggle we can win to get better pay which is one of the big disappointments from membership. So many of us are living paycheck to paycheck and are single parents and can't afford strike pay for months.

I hope, should we ratify, they keep that anger for the length of the contract, they build up their coffers and solidarity funds and communal stuff, so that the NEXT contract if we don't get a better raise again - then we can go to the mat and wildcat if we need to. But just shouting "fuck you" in general isn't gonna win us much better than the current offer and it could end up worse...

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Initial consult for my therapist went well! We scheduled a follow-up, and I am looking forward to it!

I also got a bra that fits. The cup is a bit big, but I have some sort of mastia due to my weight so I should be able to fill it out with some inserts. Idk how things are going to go as I lose weight/start HRT, but it's affirming for now. With that, I am working on assembling another outfit. I want to try something goth/punk. I will try to figure out some normal femme clothes eventually, but if it's in private for now then I might as well have fun as a baby trans. I also want to go to some metal shows again and it would be nice to not seem like a square.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (10 children)

So I'm trying to apply myself to some theory in earnest, now that I've had the funny book as a little treat, and

We must also stop pretending that there are essential differences between women and men. This begins with the acknowledgement that there are exceptions to every gender rule and stereotype, and this simply stated fact disproves all gender theories that purport that female and male are mutually exclusive categories.

kel-bliss Thank fuck, holy shit. On some level I know this is probably the most basic tenet of feminism and gender theory proper, but it's still gratifying to see it reproduced in such an oldass text, especially because I came to just this conclusion entirely independently. This shit rules.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sometimes in a relationship you have to take a firm hand top-use-words

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Waking up crying, gross, woke up too early now theres not enough time to fall asleep again

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

so i've alluded to this before but i don't really have a ton to really write out about this and I'm like 90% sure I know the right answer here and I hate the answer but i got to vent still

rambling about the girl i'm into being poly but how that kind of puts of me off the idea of dating her. this might come off as kind of shitty towards polyamorous people idk. if it is call me the fuck out pleaseso anyway, this one girl that i've really, really fallen for pretty hard mentioned to me offhand the other day that she is, in fact, polyamorous and i'm really conflicted by that answer because like, yay i guess that means she (might) be open to dating me but the more i think about it, the more i realize that like, i don't think i could be that fulfilled in a relationship where my partner has her attention split between three other people and also me? I really need that one on one connection and yeah, I'm already jumping several steps by assuming she'd be willing to date me just because she's poly, though I still think that there are other signs she might be into me back, I feel like if it actually came down to it, if she asked if she wanted to date, despite the fact that I'm really, really into her, I'd have to just... grit my teeth and say no because I can already see this not working out on my end? I still do really want to at least remain friends and not have this get any more awkward than it has to be with trying to force a romantic connection that I know I won't be completely satisfied with

There is one obviously right answer here, and it's to look the girl I wrote a love letter to with no intention on sending it dead in the eye and saying "I think we should just be friends" and fuck me that fucking hurts to say

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

sadposting

yes-honey-left

I'm so fucking tired

I need a fucking break

I need like a week in a nice cabin in the woods to myself miles away from other people with a big warm comfortable bed to hibernate in and try to make up for months of a sleep deficit but that's completely unrealistic

I have a whole thing about gender shit and family shit to vent but now I'm gonna attempt to sleep and kick my own brain's ass if it's uncooperative in doing that because I'm so fucking exhausted that I'm seeing shit in the corner of my vision that isn't there

Goodnight/morning

sleepi

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Poiting out my current stim phrases to bully myselfSomewhere somehow someway, I picked up saying "it rocks/it rules" or "this rocks/this rules" or similar about fucking EVERYTHING, both ironically as a shitpost and unironically for some reason.

I am not sure where this phrase comes from, I think it is Orange Book. Maybe it's when she says "it's not even ironic: Poison rules" about the big patch of the first Poison album cover on the back of her stupid denim jacket? My brain remembers that she was describing something terrible with "which rules" or something.

Please send help.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

at least marvel writers can be safe in the knowledge they'll never write anything as embarassing as the elon musk scene in iron man 2

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

i am in sight of 99 agility in runescape madeline-stare

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (18 children)

t4t but they're both catgirls. discuss

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Got my flu and covid shot and now my arms are mad at me about it bleh

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

you know how like sometimes you know a thing is true, but you're kinda annoyed it's true and would rather it wasn't? I feel this about giraffes and horses. like ok you look at a giraffe and you're like oh, it's a tall horse, I get what's going on here, it's related to horses. but no! horses are odd toed ungulates and giraffes are even toed ungulates, and their last common ancestor was like 60 million years ago in the early eocene!!

and like I know this, it is a factual truth, but I don't want it to be! my brain sees a giraffe and is like na mate, that's a big horse. the bastards are more closly related to fucking dolphins than they are horses!

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If huffing nail polish is so bad for you why does it smell so good? Checkmait liberals

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

:arm-L: workout done :arm-R:

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