this post was submitted on 08 Oct 2026
381 points (96.4% liked)
memes
22977 readers
1899 users here now
Community rules
1. Be civil
No trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour
2. No politics
This is non-politics community. For political memes please go to !politicalmemes@lemmy.world
3. No recent reposts
Check for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month
4. No bots
No bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins
5. No Spam/Ads/AI Slop
No advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live. We also consider AI slop to be spam in this community and is subject to removal.
A collection of some classic Lemmy memes for your enjoyment
Sister communities
- !tenforward@lemmy.world : Star Trek memes, chat and shitposts
- !lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world : Lemmy Shitposts, anything and everything goes.
- !linuxmemes@lemmy.world : Linux themed memes
- !comicstrips@lemmy.world : for those who love comic stories.
founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
PSA: if you want to age well:
wear sunscreen
eat fruits and veg, avoid sugar as much as you can
do some form of cardio(walking is perfectly fine, you just want to get your heart going)
Do some form of resistance training.(calisthenics, lift a litre bottle)
Sleep around 7 to 8 hrs
You'll not only be the hottest 60 or 70 year old, you're quality of life won't degrade much.
First, these ladies aren’t doing anti aging surgeries, they are doing “have a different face” surgeries.
Second, the only way to win at the “wOmeN sHouLd jUSt aGe GrAceFullY” bullshit is to know that there is no winning.
You will be accused of “letting yourself go” or “getting too much work done.” Period. There are like 12 women in the world at any given time who will age in a way that is aesthetically pleasing to the majority, and you probably won’t be one of them.
So pick which you are more comfortable with and do what ever the fuck you want.
"you are quality of life won't degrade much."
Words hard, apparently.
Me talk pretty one day
My mental health is too poor to be able to do any of those.
Just gotta start. Its hard I know but once you go, its easier.
Thank you
"Have you tried not being depressed?"
For fucks sake they acknowledged the difficulty of getting started.
Yeah that's the hard part...
This false narrative that you're helpless to try when depressed needs to end, its needlessly self limiting. The only reason my life is good now is because I took steps I had to that i didnt want to. People can encourage others and we can recognise how difficult it is at the same time, they are not mutually exclusive.
The advice works, but only if you have the strength to do it and not everyone does.
Realize that some of these aren't just decisions you have to get right every day (like walking every day), they're decisions you have to get right 86400 times a day. If you crave junk food, you don't just decide "I'll stop eating it", you have to make that decision every second of every day, because if you slip once, you're fucked. It gets easier, sure, but the first days/weeks are brutal.
I got out of severe depression by trying and keeping at it to do these things I didn't even believe could help me anymore. Surprise, they did. Yes it took long and was hard. But it is possible to do even a little bit.
The part telling me I can't do it and saying I shouldn't even try cus I won't do it anyways, that is part of the depression too. It is self sustaining.
In my mind the trick that worked was: if everything is shit no matter what, if I hate every second anyways no matter what I do, if nothing will change how miserable I am, then taking a short walk won't change anything for the worse either, not to any significant degree anyways.
That way bit by bit my absolute apathy tricked itself into doing things because it didn't matter either way. And slowly shit got tiny bits better.
One of my favourite one-off characters from any show
Believe me, I know what it's like. But taking baby steps can help
Walking really helps my mental health. To be fair I live near the beach so it very relaxing.
I've had major depressive for most of my adult life. No rhyme or reason for it, just shit brain chemistry. Finding the right medication and walking or cycling really helps.
For me, Desvenlafaxine was the right meds for me, your mileage will almost certainly vary though.
Been there. And, my physical health precludes it sometimes too.
Nothing I can say will help, but you ain't alone, you aren't the only one, and if you ever do have a day when you can do that kind of self care, don't beat yourself up if/when you have the next one where you can't.
We all gotta get by as best we can, and nobody gets out alive.
My depression, gives me insomnia. My insomnia gives me anxiety and worsens my depression. Be your own best friend and go easy on yourself. You wouldn't let others talk to your friends like you talk to yourself. On good days, make sure you do all those things. On days you don't feel like, push to do as many as you can and know it's ok if you don't. On bad days, acknowledge your wins of getting out of bed and brushing your teeth if that's all you could accomplish. You don't have to be perfect. You just have to keep going and get back to it.
Oof, I don't have friends. The friends I did have years ago were terrible, though, I don't miss them.
Action precedes motivation. If you wait to be motivated, actions won't happen. Even if it's starting small like brushing your teeth, or any act of self care or hygiene that makes you feel better physically
Alright, now solve that for executive dysfunction
I feel you there. I've had periods of time where motivation in general was easier and thus I could more easily feel up to taking a walk, and that almost always made me feel better. It truly sucks when you don't feel able to find the motivation. And I'm not trying to make it sound easy, but if you force yourself on occasion to do small exercises like walking, you're more likely to find your way back to the place when you're automatically motivated.
Sugar is unkind to you in so many ways. Ignoring it's negative impact eventually catches up with most people, some worse than others.
I thought all the fuss about it and carbs was silly and over-stated myself, but my thoughts and feeling didn't change the consequences. I've learned better now but wish I could go back in time and tell myself what was coming so I could change my behavior sooner.
Also not sure what the connection is there. Sugar is bad for you if you're diabetic, but doesn't itself directly lead to ill health - the effect is via obesity.
Not medical advice, but a suggestion of easy things to ask your doctor to check for if you have insomnia, and inexpensive to address if they are the culprit: taking taking B12 and D supplements gave me (back?) my ability to sleep. I've never slept better in my life.