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[–] Abracadaniel@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

"Came out" as enbie to a friend (I'm pretty masc) and they came off dismissive and skeptical. I probably won't change my name or pronouns but it still felt bad.

Then a few months later they referenced it in like a sarcastic way. That's all pretty shitty of them right? It definitely feels shitty and like I'm not safe to talk about that stuff without being ridiculed.

Might be more of a demiboy, idk. She can fuck right off with that.

[–] whisp@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

Exorsexism sucks, I'm sorry that your friend is like that comrade

[–] HarryLime@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm sorry that happened. That's really tough, especially coming from a friend.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

That was indeed shitty. They are being shitty. I'd confront them about it. If they value your friendship they should value you as well and that involves the basic respect that should be granted to anyone. I wouldnt misgender my enemies, let alone friends. Tell them theyre on thin fucking ice. Better no friend than one who isnt a friend back, and that's pretty far from it. You dont need to take that kind of shit

[–] spudnik@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

That shit sucks, I'm sorry it happened to you meow-hug