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All trans women can use the f-slur, because society considers us f-slurs. The thing from trans-rad-fem where we are the synthesis of f-slur and w-slur for women/sex workers.
That said like a spell in a video or roleplaying game, heterosexual trans women get critical multipliers using it, where as trans lesbians sacrifice that for the versatility of also saying the d-slur for lesbians.
Eh, if other girls ironically misgender themselves because they find it empowring or because it's some weird kink of them or whatever i'm not gonna say anything, but i'm fucking fed up with people who think it's ok to f-slur somebody else. That shit ain't cool, nobody gets to do that to me and we can't have a discussion of f-slur usage for trans women without mentioning that some of us hate this shit and rank it on the same tier of brainworms as 4tran lingo. I absolutely do. It's bad enough i have to hear that at all, at least don't include me in this crap.
I agree, and would broaden that to all slurs
I'd also like to clarify that there was more context to the situation with my friends, I didn't include it because I didn't want that to be the focus of my comment. I actually said something along the lines of he better not call me that but the tone was kind of joking but also serious, it was a lot to explain and I didn't care to
I don't use the f-slur for anyone except me and my best friend who also uses it for herself. I was called the f-slur in high school...a lot. I wouldn't call someone else it unless they wanted.