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International Transgender Day of Visibility (TDoV) is a day for celebrating the lives of transgender people, recognizing the contributions we make to society and rallying against the discrimination we face. TDoV also functions as a counterpart to the International Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR)^[TDoR is observed on November 20th and memorializes those of us who's lives were stolen by transphobic violence, particularly trans women of color. TDoR was initially founded in 1999 in remembrance of Rita Hester, Chanelle Pickett, and Monique Thomas, three black trans women who were murdered in the Boston area.]; with TDoR being a somber occasion and TDoV having a more celebratory nature.

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[โ€“] Busgirl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I was looking for a job, and then I found a job And Heaven knows I'm miserable now! That sucks! But I would check the laws again cuz if you make under a certain amount in some states they still let you on even if insurance is offered

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

I'm gonna call the insurance people after work. I'm just. I'm just angry and scared. I might have a coinsurance thing. But to avoid nasty surprises I think I need to cancel therapy, and maybe other stuff, until this gets figured out... Ugh I hate this.

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I called them, and I get to deny the health insurance I've been offered because it sucks so much! I'm really happy! As long as I stay on poverty wages I can keep my insurance!

[โ€“] Busgirl@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago
[โ€“] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yay I'm glad it worked out! I'm currently navigating a lot of this for the first time and it can be so stressful and daunting (I'm sure that's by design)

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

Thankyouuu! Its a lot. I didn't have health insurance for a long long time, and then I got it like what a year ago? and all of a sudden I could get things like meds, and evals, and then the prospect of losing it... I just got access to meds like 6 months ago. I was crying at the end of the phone call (happy tears) cause it meant so much. Also my work is really cool but a lot (can't say what I do cause doxxing myself is bad, but its work supporting social workers and Im proud of what I'm doing)

I hope navigating it is going ok for you, its really hard and NGL I cry most times I have to deal with this shit. Its overwhelming and exhausting.