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[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 40 points 2 days ago (1 children)

weird how "allies" like yourself always use the same rhetoric as the people who want us dead. if you were actually an 'ally' you'd just acknowledge your comment sucked and learn to be less of a piece of shit.

[–] imacatnotaman@lemmy.ml -2 points 2 days ago (6 children)

how is boy crush homophobic? that seems like bending over backwards to find hate. look hard enough, you'll always find what you want. grow up.

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 45 points 2 days ago

smug-explain Actually, it's quite humorous to imply that someone is gay. You're just too emotional to admit that being gay is actually really funny, because bad people are gay and gay things are bad. You can't be mad for saying this, because I am actually calm and mature for making jokes like this.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 37 points 2 days ago

[says homophobic shit]

[gets called out for it]

"Wow, you need to grow up sweetie" smug-explain

[–] WafflesTasteGood@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago

how is boy crush homophobic?

You used it as an insult, it's not that complicated.

[–] axont@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

you just called it a joke, so you're saying it would be funny if Donald Trump and Kim Jong-Un were secretly gay? Is it funny when people are gay? Do you think it would diminish the reputations of these two people if it turned out they were both gay and would you revel in that possibility?

i don't have to look hard at all, you said that implying two people being secretly gay is a joke. That's a funny concept to you.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Mite fuck around and regret posting this, but I generally think the idea of "boy crush" and "girl crush" are not really about sexuality at all.

Unfortunately the rest of your post is implying actually rude insulting things about the DPRK, so I'm not trying to defend you as much as defend the concept of heterosexual non-sexual homosexual crushes. Because it IS interesting.

[–] axont@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

not only is it homophobic, it's kinda infantilizing too right? It's middle school level bullying, saying two people are gay together because you don't like either of them. It's only used in an insulting or patronizing way. I don't think there's a positive way to imply two people are secretly gay.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago

It certainly is in the context of the post we're discussing.

Its possible that my elder millennial exposure to the term allows me to be way more generous than I should be, since it is possible to converge on "boy crush" as an insult from first principles (lol) working forward from simple homophobia and juvenile attacks.

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

you're either being sincere, in which case you are unteachably dim, or you are intentionally being a slimy sack of shit

either way you're a waste of time. drown yourself in a toilet

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

oof, caught slipping. bad habits die hard ig

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

well, habits anyway.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just because it's against the rules doesn't mean it's bad

[–] Mindfury@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

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oh hell yeah