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Lancer is a... weird little guy? I dunno even though I really liked undertale I didn't really vibe with deltarune and never played past ep1. I do vaguely remember having fun fighting him.

Soooo, uh, yeah, that's Lancer I guess. I'd love to hear about everybody's favourite little weirdos.


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I have several friends who have friend names that only people within the community call them by while their family uses another chosen name, and usually this has developed over time. It's really not that big of a deal to ask people for this, i've made that switch without problems every time a friend brought up she wants to try that out. It would be a lot different with, say, boomer parents who already struggle with the chosen name you picked originally, but that's part of how i see this applied in practice. That there is one name that is more intimate, one that has more of a symbolic function, one that is more formal (deliberately not saying "official" here bc uually all of these are these people's official, legal names by now).