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Lancer is a... weird little guy? I dunno even though I really liked undertale I didn't really vibe with deltarune and never played past ep1. I do vaguely remember having fun fighting him.
Soooo, uh, yeah, that's Lancer I guess. I'd love to hear about everybody's favourite little weirdos.
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To the trans lesbians here, do you see more dating success with trans lesbians than with cis lesbians? Because I feel like I get almost no matches from cis lesbians and mostly matches with other trans women
i'm t4t and love other transfemmes so much.
The femmes love a tall butch enby gal.
e: wrong emoji, was on phone
What's not to understand?
She's having a hard time with relationships rn
Ah, clear
Just joking that I don't know what dating success is
I'm not dating right now. I have been tracking flirting interactions with cis and trans girls.
Honestly I get heaps of cis women's attention I'm tall and very cocky, but also present very femme.
I've had a soft-butch lesbian flirt with me in the mall while stressing her relationship with her girlfriends was open. I've had random queer coded girls tell me how pretty I am.
I get a lot of flirty comments from transfems. I'm not sure if any of this helps.
I haven't really tried dating as a trans woman yet. But I plan to try in like a couple months. I've have seen lesbians being pretty transphobic before. I worry my dating pool is going to be severely limited, but I guess that also filters out terrible people automatically.
My understanding is overwhelmingly lesbians love and accept trans women but the few ones who don't are like experts in transphobia.
I hope to have a similar experience, the ones that have something against us are very loud about it, so that may mask the reality of it.