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[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

That's interesting. I didn't know that. But I have a vag and am wanting a dick too. I don't know if I only want to have been born with both, or if I'd ever get a whole new penis that I wasn't born with. The latter might be too scary, but I'd sure like to know if it's a thing.

Edit: I also wish I could make the penis go away whenever I wish so idk about permanently having a penis that can't instantly disappear and reappear when I want. There are certain days where I prefer no penis.

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

ugh the urge to have hot swappable genitals is so powerful i am glad someone else understands this but sad someone else has to go through this impossible yearning

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 2 points 5 hours ago

the urge to have hot swappable genitals is so powerful

It is powerful. I wasn't aware of how powerful until I felt the jealousy over a real world example of a surgery happening to someone I personally know. At first I thought, "I'm happy for them." Then I remembered that they were an adult who seemed to show the empathy level of a cowardly middleschool bully towards absolute horrors happening to others. I'm bouncing between being happy for them about their surgery, and remembering that they were a heinous misogynist. If it weren't for that I would be happier for them, and maybe I'd instead be more envious than jealous.

Most importantly, at the end of all this, I'm left wondering what I'm unconscious of when it comes to wanting a dick that can come and go whenever I wish.

Good news! Google "vagina sparing phalloplasty". Also known as "vagina preserving phalloplasty". Exactly what it sounds like.