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I know my comment here is 4 days late, but since you haven't had a single comment from a transmasc person (that I've seen), I figured maybe you'd like to hear from one of us.
All of your feelings about being a guy (why would anyone want that? Do most men really not want to be women? Maybe if I just double down on acting like a man I'll feel like one), all of those feelings I've had in reverse. It never made sense to me that women were happy as women, I really thought they were lying about it. I thought if only I could "perform girl" better maybe I'd actually feel like one, surely the women who are super femme are doing it just to feel more like women, right? And if I could just do the same, maybe I'd have their poise and confidence in my feminity.
Well, no. Of course not. I'm trans. I'm not a woman, and pretending to be one sucked so fucking bad. I crave a (slightly) more masculine presentation than I ever allowed myself when I thought I was a woman. And I feel so much more comfortable with myself now! I feel like I can actually be a human, actually be myself, now that I'm no longer working so very hard to pretend to be a woman.
I can't tell you you're a woman, you have to decide that for yourself, but I can tell you that there are people who would never in a million years choose to be women. There are lots of humans on earth who would be (and, for some of us, have been) deeply, deeply unhappy living as women.
Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it. I never realized why I felt the way I did or that anyone would ever understand.
I kept waiting for some hidden force to kick in and turn me into a man. I thought there was some way I could ever feel validated as a man, by other people or society. I don't though. I never feel that way. It helps to hear your perspective in the opposite direction.