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I love sleeping, honk-shoo is so goated.
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I'm homeless now. So that's a life update I can throw out onto the internet.
I'm sorry to hear that. are there shelters you can stay in, or friends you can stay with for a while?
I'm living out of a car right now and I'm asking around seeing if there's anyone who's able to let me set up and do my online job there until I can get approved to live in a place of my own.
I need to find a place to work where I can do lots of zoom calls and there not be external auditory distractions.
I have applications out but I still haven't heard back from any of them. Hopefully I can get something more stable set up soon.
me rambling about my family and former friends. Transphobia, depression, suicide
I fucking love being trans. It is almost certainly the best thing that's ever happened to me. If I had the option to go back in time to the time I came out, I would fiddle with the dial to try and get to go back in time and do it sooner. I would never in a million years consider not coming out. I don't regret it in the slightest.That being said, me coming out as trans was kind of the exact moment my life started to fall apart. I lost basically my entire support network instantly and I've just been spiraling downward ever since because when things go wrong I now have very few options.
If I still had the support of my parents I could have gotten some financial help when I was struggling with rent at my old place and I could have just stayed there.
Me staying at my gf's temporarily while we try to find another place was supposed to help me while I found a job so we enough income to be able to find a new place. That took SO much longer than I had anticipated and the same day I finally got a job that was going to pay enough for income requirements for renting, my gf gets an eviction threat for keeping me there too long since I'm not on the lease (they didn't want to add me. We tried. Idk if transphobia was involved or not.)
I'm so. Fucking. Tired. Of the gouls of the world getting to decide everything about my life when they don't give a shit about me. I'm barely asking society for anything, and it can't even give me the bare minimum because I'm not profitable enough
I feel so hopeless. If we don't get communism soon I'm in danger of killing myself. I feel so crushed by the weight of simply existing in society.
Sometimes libraries have rooms you can book for stuff like that
Mine has rooms but you can only book them for 2 hours at a time and they're first come first serve, unfortunately