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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

been full of very heterosexual thoughts recently and idk what to think about that. idk, i always feel guitly somehow for being "too straight" like somehow I'm not allowed to be a straight trans woman and that "straight" actually means I'm just bi with a mild male preference usually? idk. i've felt hung up on this for many many months because all my IRL friends are poly transbians and I'm out here being the monogamous for boys bitch and I feel super weird about it and idk why i can't just say "i like men" and feel like I won't get judged for it

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Kinda same here. I'm surprised by the extent of lesbian majority in trans space I frequent. I never expected it.

[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

I find a lot of explicitly transfem spaces are lesbian dominated and I think many straight trans women often seek out trans spaces less after a certain point in transitioning. Fwiw, I am a bisexual transfem and I often find myself lightly pushing against other transfeminine folk because I do find men and male aligned people to be very attractive, and make this known.

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

we think its at least in part because men kind of suck and a lot of transfems have had bad experiences with men, so naturally trans spaces are full of lesbians. theres also disproportionately less transmascs in trans spaces because reasons (we dont know the exact reasons).

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

In my experience the transmascs are all out there IRL

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Something like 75% of trans people are one of L G or B. And it tracks youd be into a trans space thats made for femmes, right?

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I expected the overlap to be above average, but not that high.

Its part of why we can never be erased from LGBTQ

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Ngl I semi often find myself wishing I was bi, for various reasons.

It's perfectly okay to be straight or bi and lean towards men :cat-trans:

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was bi before I cracked my egg but more than once on the never ending bi cycle have I thought "I swear to god if I go through ALL this just to come out straight...." lol

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago

me for the last entirety of my transition