To maybe add a little. Alienation under capitalism is such that it forces all care to fall to the insular family unit and destroys other modes of material support. For instance, most help with housing, food, and care come from blood relationships. Especially from those lines that will support accumulation. Capitalism like the shit prion disease it is folds all into its like.

That being said, finding a friend is somewhat a luxury but finding family is to find a survival tool in this hellscape.

Also people really love to fuck. So finding out the person you're trying to fuck doesn't want to fuck you is kind of a bummer. Not to try and justify the toxic levels it goes to but it can be disappointing.