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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by Lussy@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[-] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 71 points 11 months ago

On the converse, I tried to take a relationship with a close friend to the next level.

It did not go well and we do not talk anymore kitty-birthday-sad

[-] red_stapler@hexbear.net 39 points 11 months ago

red_stapler unity corgiwithalaptop

losing a friend trying to break the volcel oath

[-] Lussy@hexbear.net 24 points 11 months ago

Yeah see, even if I was deeply interested in a romantic relationship with that person, I’d never take it to the next level and stay within boundaries out of fear of not losing them.

Is that conceited?

[-] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 29 points 11 months ago

Nah, it just seems like a defense mechanism I guess. As @red_stapler@hexbear.net, we learned our lessons.

Wish I had thought like you did at the time. Oh well. Maybe in another life.

[-] christiansocialist@hexbear.net 7 points 11 months ago

Were you initially attracted romantically from the beginning?

[-] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 13 points 11 months ago
[-] christiansocialist@hexbear.net 9 points 11 months ago

Did you secretly like them or did you admit it? And did they secretly know or only know after you admitted it?

[-] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 11 points 11 months ago

I don't know if they knew before I told them, but I did explicitly tell them.

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