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[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

Thoracic spinal damage is super rare. The thoracic region is the area where your ribs connect. It isn't like the lumbar spine you likely associate with back problems. It usually requires external sources of traumatic injury to cause problems. Unlike typical back problems, thoracic damage can greatly impact posture; not just in the sense of 'hold your shoulders back and don't slouch' bad posture. This is more like, what you associate with bad posture is somewhat related to fatigue, but you're likely unaware of how much continuous strength you actually have that underpins your ability to remain upright. These muscles are still engaged even when you are reclining above around a 45° angle, just to a lesser extent, and certainly in use while sitting upright or standing. When the thoracic spinal region is chronically damaged, holding posture above 45° can become like lifting a 1 kg dumbbell in your outstretched arm at shoulder height. I can hold posture and situp or stand, but it hurts from the moment I start. By 30 minutes it is painful enough for me to lose the focus to read and comprehend well. By 1 hour in, I'm unable to think clearly over the background noise of the pain. Taking pain meds and muscle relaxers doesn't change anything about my condition. It just makes me care less or less self aware. I am here most often because there is a position I can sit in that allows me to fully relax my back while holding a phone. I spend my up time doing other things, I can sit with my computer in bed longer or hold up a novel size book okay. This is a profoundly lonely existence to deal with long term. I'm often hurting too much to really talk anyways. I need the filter of text to piece my thoughts together and feel like I am myself. In a lot of ways I let this place fill a fundamental social need. I don't expect people to understand. I simply have no access to escape this situation and be myself.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 months ago

I honestly expected more answers to be like this.

Glad you're here and glad there's a position you can find some relief and still get some solid community/social engagement and dumb memes.

[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I think a lot depends on the degree a person is stuck dealing with issues. If I could ever let go of the pain, I wouldn't talk about it or want to. For me it is like stupid annoying background music I have to shout over to think or do anything. Thanks though.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Did you post recently about concerts? I've been thinking about that and how difficult that would be.

[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

I didn't post about concerts. I don't follow, sorry.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Sorry. My mistake. Someone recently posted that they had a medical condition that severely limited their outings and the thing they missed most was attending concerts.

[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

No problem. Heck I miss the grocery store, or any chance to interact with real people without being weird or at least weirder than normal. I look fine, and try to mask the pain, but it just comes across as awkward and I end up hurting for days when I push harder. Getting dressed and traveling to a concert is hell for me. I hope whoever it was gets the chance to live their dreams through.

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