[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 39 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The idea that Mao had regressive views on women should not be shocking in the slightest. Modern women's rights are really really recent developments across the world.

One shocking fact I like to bring up is that women weren't even allowed to own their bank accounts till like the 70s/80s. My mom brings that one up when talking about how much things have changed since her childhood.

But it's also not particularly relevant. People don't listen to Mao for his views on women's rights. It's the same way we don't dismiss electricity just because the society back then owned slaves.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 33 points 10 months ago

It's an opinion article, those always have takes that are much different then the mainstream. For better (like the one here) or for worse (pretty much all of NYTs).

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 41 points 11 months ago

Carnist Catch 22, if it hits the beans then they'll be destroyed and you'll have to eat the pig to survive.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 41 points 11 months ago

Why would an anti LGBT group want lots of support from LGBT+ members? Seems like an easy way to fall apart once you let the mask slip and you won't have any backup because all the other anti LGBT people would have left.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 20 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

A lot of this reporting is a big misunderstanding of statistics.

As the study says

About 45% of the population had zero beef consumption on any given day, whereas the 12% of disproportionate beef consumers accounted for 50% of the total beef consumed

Now just as a thought experiment, do you think that almost half of the US never eats any beef? No, of course not. But on any given day? Sure, quite possible. People's diets vary.

A randomly selected person might have a McDonald's hamburger for lunch and a steak for dinner and be part of the 12% on the first day but then eat mushroom ravioli for lunch and pizza for dinner on the second day and be part of the 45%.

And there might be certain demographics that are more likely to make up that 12% on a given day but that doesn't mean there's a particular nonchanging group of high consumers.

I'm not going to dig into the study here but just as an example, let's say Dog Breed X is 1.5 times more likely to bark than Dog Breed Y is. You can't hear a dog bark and say "Ah it must be Breed X then!", you can only say "Ah, it's more likely from Breed X than Breed Y".

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 22 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I think that way about evolution sometimes. It's blitheringly obvious when you consider the two points

  1. There is a difference between parent and offspring and yet they also inherit traits
  2. Differences add up

Both are easily observable in the natural world. The first one can be seen with babies "oh you have your mother's eyes" while also the baby not literally being the mom. The second one is used by walking where we cross a large distance one step at a time.

And all you need is those two principles to come to the conclusion that the small yet inheritable differences between offspring will add up over a long period of time. The question to be asked isn't if it will happen but rather just what traits it happens to.

And yet, it took humanity (and for many people still they refuse) millennial to grasp it. I'm looking at the process as so simple only from the lens of someone born after it was figured out.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 48 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How can there be civilians at all if mandatory conscription is a thing? Every civilian is a potential soldier in Israel. I feel bad for the people who were just born into the world without making any of these decisions and got hurt but they were, whether they like it or not, going to be used as a tool of terror by the Israeli state.

You can't use your civilians as weapons and then fall back and claim they're not a threat.

If Israel ends the mandatory conscription, and lets the civilians stay civilians, I might have more outrage.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 76 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The government literally had/has a program to give out cheap smart phones, tablets and laptops to poor people during Covid.

The idea of this technology being inaccessible to those in poverty is like 20 years out of date.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 84 points 1 year ago

I was told landlords did a lot of work to earn their money? If he's clearly well enough to do such intense labor like owning property then he must be in good mental condition.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 38 points 1 year ago

This sub is probably mostly cops and maybe some law students.

From what I remember almost all of the moderation team are cops yeah.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't think it's particularly unreasonable to conclude that any decent approach to the first will also include the second. That shit is literally designed to be addictive, even the best teachers are gonna struggle to compete.

[-] berrytopylus@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago

The thing about FDC is that there are certainly people on social media who misunderstand things like autism and are likely diagnosing themselves incorrectly. But there's a reason why pretty much all their focus is on TikTok, it's because they're children! Of course a 12-year-old on tiktok doesn't have a deep understanding of what autism symptoms looks like. And yes that 10 year old probably doesn't have DID when they say they're a Danganronpa character but you know what they do have? An imagination.

At best they're literally making fun of children having fun playing and not perfectly understanding the world and at worst are making fun of children going through serious struggles trying to find an answer for themselves.

And that's not even to mention the FDC very rarely has an understanding of what these disabilities look like either. Like sensory processing issues is well known to have high comorbidity with autism and yet saying you dont like loud noises gets the response of "no one likes them, you're not special". But if no one likes them then why do people go to the movies? Why are concerts a thing?

It's a horrible sub through and through that pretends to be righteous by "correcting misinformation" but in reality is just laughing at and insulting kids.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by berrytopylus@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

So like, I'm one of those live with parents no college super autistic basically unable to function on my own type of NEETs and a lot of places on the internet tend to be pretty hostile if you admit to that or try to be happy about "minor accomplishments" in their eyes so I just wanna share it here instead cause y'all so nice.

Ever since the start of Covid I've been making really good progress on being more independent and taking care of myself and my body. Twice a week I go to the park now and just walk around (with plenty of sunscreen if course!) and I've been able to branch off of just junk food and eat more fruits and veggies. Like I never knew brocolli could taste so good with just a little bit of olive oil and seasoning. I even found a way to make some light money online filling out like, university studies and stuff. It's actually pretty good pay (it's a UK site and most of them are at/above UK min wage so even transferring to USD it's still well worth the time) but obviously not reliable enough to make as a job even if I wanted to. But having a little bit of money to myself to use as I want is a huge help.

Also been looking into those Section 8 vouchers and trying to get on disability and maybe even be able to live at my own place near my parents. Even signed up for the local community college and got a little bit of financial aid. God bless the Pell grant, imma get myself some clothes I've been wanting maybe or anything else I can figure out how to paint as "necessary for my education" since it's just free money. I don't plan on getting a job either in the end even if I managed to somehow get a degree so imma just use it how I want.

All in all I feel like I've been doing a whole lot better. I can see it in my parents face too, everytime I've looked at them since I was about 20 even I could tell they basically "gave up" on me but they seem so happy and supportive. It's actually kinda upsetting in its own right, makes me feel like I'm apparently of more value to them if I'm productive but I also know it's because they want me to have a good life and they've been trained by society to view that in a particular way so I'm not mad.

Oh yeah also since my dad helped me get my legal name changed a bit ago, my classes will be the first time I'm out at some major thing like this getting to present as myself. I even felt bad about having to do this so late in my life but apparently I'm the average age of community college students at 28 so I might be able to fit in well! I'm used to lying about my life to cover up all the issues I have so I'm hoping I'll be able to fit in well enough. And if not, oh well fuck them anyway I suppose I'm good enough for me and that's what matters.

Hell even smaller things I've been getting better at like getting used to the feeling of makeup on my face which when I first tried it a few years ago was too overstimulating.

Thank you Hexbear for being such a great site that I feel comfortable talking about these embarrassing things. I love you all <3

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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by berrytopylus@hexbear.net to c/games@hexbear.net

The type of game that when you recommend it, you have to clarify they need to play a few hours before they'll understand.

To me, many JRPGs have this problem. Xenoblade, Final Fantasy (14 especially), Tales, Kiseki, etc all take forever to get interesting.

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