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I was thinking about the phrase 'The pot calling the kettle black'. It comes from a time where cooking was done over open fires and cookware would become visibly ashy. (Fun fact: It first appears and was perhaps coined by Cervantes in Don Quixote!)

What are some other idioms that have lost their literal connection to time? What would be a good modern replacement?

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[–] SMillerNL@piefed.social 104 points 4 days ago (5 children)

"Avoiding things like the plague" because people did not actually seem to want to avoid the plague last time around.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 days ago

Those that failed to avoid actual plagues often lived only long enough to regret it.

This was true also in the 1918 Spanish Flu epidemic. And there were anti-vaxxers even then.

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 8 points 3 days ago

I think the outdated/obsolete nature of terms in many idioms is what makes them charming.

It also makes it pretty clear you aren't using them in a literal sense. If your idioms are too new/unfamiliar and your terminology is too modern/relevant then people might just think you're being literal and not idiomatic.

[–] SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 39 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Oh, man, when it comes to nautical idioms, I could go on all day. There are so many, and they've lost their literal connections so thoroughly, you probably don't even think of some of them as idioms. A few that occur to me immediately:

  • taken aback (wind on the wrong side of the sails)
  • give a wide berth (extra space for a vessel to maneuver)
  • leeway (unwanted downwind slippage of the vessel when in motion)
  • above board (on deck, the board being the section of the hull running fore and aft just above the water line)
  • onboard (to load onto the deck of the ship)
  • go by the board (to fall off of the ship into the water, passing the board on the way)
  • hand over fist (two-handed motion to pull in sails, ropes, etc. as quickly as possible)
  • high and dry (above the tide line)
  • loose cannon (a gun insufficiently secured would cause havoc on a warship when fired, or as the ship rolled in waves)

Honestly, I'm not sure that I want modern equivalents, since many are so rich in imagery.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago

Don't forget "I like the cut of your jib"

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 days ago

Batten down the hatches too.

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[–] Hegar@fedia.io 63 points 4 days ago (10 children)

"Have your cake and eat it too" doesn't really make sense. Cake is not rare or expensive enough that simply possessing it feels good. If you have cake, all you want is to eat it.

The italian version, "you want a full barrel and drunk wife" illustrates the same situation much more clearly.

[–] hungprocess@piefed.world 83 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I'm only half joking when I say this could be the modern replacement. I've caught both myself and the S.O. using "no take only throw" in conversation, often about unreasonably demanding people.

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 33 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (6 children)

That’s because it’s backwards. Should be “eat your cake and have it too”

Edit: While that preserves the form and is recognizable as the common saying, it makes the meaning clearer if phrased as “Eat your cake and still have it”.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Thank you Unabomber

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 15 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Also wanting to eat your cake and have it too is supposed to imply you're like a toddler having a tantrum because you're just coming to terms with the rules of object permanence: a person playing peekaboo or hide-and-seek can disappear and still come back, but if you eat your cake it will be ALL GONE!!!

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[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 19 points 4 days ago (4 children)

You cannot have a cake in your possession and also eat that cake. Once you eat it, it is gone.

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[–] Akido37@lemmy.world 64 points 4 days ago (9 children)

“Burning the midnight oil”

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[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (8 children)

Eating a dead horse - not unless you buy the budget beef mince at Tesco

Read like rabbits - rabbits can't read or even hold books

Nip it in the butt - that's sexual assault, you're not allowed to do that any more

Get down off your high horse - you're not allowed to get animals high either

Kids should be shorn and not herd - goats have hair, not wool, and can't be shorn. Their natural tendency to herd is a difficult behaviour to break.

Under the weather - unless you're a pilot you're going to be under the weather most of the time

A blessing in the skies - unless your bishop is a pilot too, that's not going to happen.

Fight off more than you can chew - I don't know where to start with this one,

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Boneappletea

[–] crimsonpoodle@pawb.social 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I always thought it was “nip it in the bud” where a bud is the early stage of a plants development / before the flower emerges on a flower. So meaning “kill it before it grows larger and that becomes harder”

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Has to be trolling because they are all wrong.

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[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

You almost got me.

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[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 42 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Don't put the cart before the horse.
Don't submit your post before you write it.

[–] blackshirt@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In my home country they say "Cheap as Onions" (eq in English : Cheap as Dirt)

Looking at the prices on Onions nowadays ...

[–] SuluBeddu@feddit.it 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

In Italy, when something is expensive, we say that it's salted. Because salt was expensive. Hasn't been for a while but the word is still there!

[–] Typotyper@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

"Worth ones salt" is older and sort of Italian (Roman)

https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/worth-ones-salt.html

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[–] Jonnyprophet@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

A stitch in time saves nine.

This refers to a time when clothes were hard to come by and often homemade. If they tore, a small tear could be fixed with one stitch of needle and thread, but if let go too long, it would take many more stitches to repair a bigger rip.

Change your oil (or tires) in time, or change your car.

[–] ryesyg@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

This is still relevant, please take care of your clothes.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 22 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (11 children)

All the horse ones because we don't use horses anymore. There a ton of them.

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Who tf gets a gift horse?

Saddle up. Who tf has a saddle?

Hold your horses. Who tf has horses to hold?

Get off your high horse. Who tf has a high horse?

Beat a dead horse. WTF.

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[–] crwth@piefed.zip 33 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Dollars to donuts originated in an age when a dollar could buy a considerable quantity of donuts. Inflation has since reduced the literal interpretation of the expression to nearly even odds.

[–] psud@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Doughnuts are also zeros

[–] FudgyMcTubbs@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago

Also donut shops overcharge. Donuts used to be super fucking cheap. That's why they'd be next to the coffee pot at every function, and in the work break room. Now they want like $2 a donut. It's dough that's been boiled in grease. And they get to reuse the grease for many boilings. C'mon.

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[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 34 points 4 days ago (7 children)

FYI this can still happen on liquid propane stoves, so not totally lost to time.

Maybe "Kill two birds with one stone", because who hunts with stones anymore?

[–] Dagobah@lemmy.world 41 points 4 days ago (4 children)

As a software dev I'll offer 'Kill two bugs with one patch' as a replacement.

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[–] Godort@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I think I remember seeing a PETA post years ago that suggested "feed two birds with one scone"

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[–] TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I don't think it's the char/open fire but rather that both pot a d kettle would be made of the same black cast iron

[–] ToxicWaste@lemmy.cafe 1 points 2 days ago

in our holiday house we still cook on an iron stove. we also installed a small gas burner, because that stove is the heating system for all the 3 small rooms. it gets really hot - so usually you don't want to use it during summer.

but the original pans are out of copper. they have a complex shape so, if you remove the cooking top, you can hang them directly into the fire. cast iron surely was and still is a thing. but i will always choose copper over cast iron for something i want hot quickly. i would bet that most kettles where made out of something thin and conductive, so your water is hot quicker.

all our copper is black from the sud.

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[–] Hobo@lemmy.world 33 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

"Pulling my leg." Meaning you are making something up/joking at someones expense.

It does not have any real connection to the present. The idiom came about in the mid-19th century. There's two competing theories about how it came about. The prevailing theory is that pick pockets, particularly child pick pockets, would pull on people legs to distract their mark. The darker theory is that it was related to pulling someone's legs when they were hanged in order to finish the ordeal if they didn't die from the initial drop.

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[–] zabadoh@ani.social 27 points 4 days ago (5 children)

(to do something) "on your dime," i.e. at your expense - A reference to public coin operated phones, which for a long time cost 10c/a US "dime" coin per call.

Inflation by the late 70s had made the single dime call a thing of the past, but USD20c was still possible, and inflating phone fees in the 80s required increasing amounts of coinage. Public pay phones were decimated when mobile phones gained popularity and are virtually extinct today in the US.

"on your card" might be a more modern version, but cards are slowly disappearing with NFC phone payments.

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[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 21 points 4 days ago (4 children)

In Portuguese the equivalent expression is timeless: "o sujo falando do mal lavado" (the dirty one talking about the badly washed).

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[–] Evil_Incarnate@sopuli.xyz 23 points 4 days ago (5 children)

"Did you bring the (evening newspaper) with you?" I've used this in different countries, the newspaper referred to is one which historically was sold in the afternoon, not morning. And I ask it of anyone who comes to work late. Now, at least here, all the newspapers come out in the morning, so I just get confused stares.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

whats the point of a modern replacement? idioms connect us across time and when they really have not modern sense (which there is enough understanding of cookware I don't think we hit that with pot and kettle) then it becomes an interesting backstory.

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[–] ironhydroxide@sh.itjust.works 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I always thought of that idiom as the pot (something generally cast iron and not polished) calling the kettle (something that is polished and therefore reflective) black.

Being that the pot sees itself in the reflection, but calls the kettle that as a derogatory thing, unknowing of it's personal alignment.

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