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What is this horseshit? Almost $2k in interest this year and it will not even let me throw money against the principal.

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[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

You can take the money you'd pay off and invest it instead, as a hedge.

Im not saying its ideal, but its a little better than nothing.

[–] Newsteinleo@infosec.pub 33 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Student lending is the most preditory lending in this country.

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[–] olbaidiablo@lemmy.ca 25 points 3 days ago

I'm assuming you're from the US considering you're being treated like a commodity.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 93 points 3 days ago (5 children)

It's predatory to allow teens to sign these things without fully explaining them and ensuring they understand.

It's not taught at all in grade school, no one tells them about interest rates, or amortization tables or how to pay extra toward the principal, or that their wages will be garnished if they don't pay, or if they get married, then their spouse's wages might be garnished without warning, and so on.. It's just, "sign here, and we'll give you the money."

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

No it’s just predatory. As long as students believe college is essential and that is the only way to get it, the loans are predatory. It doesn’t help teens to understand if they don’t have a choice.

As someone who cares about my society, I believe it is essential for all students to have access to post-high school education, and as more than just job training. We need more people who can think better …. It’s in our own best interest to invest in our future: let’s make public universities/trade schools free to all who are interested

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

It's actually just scummy and predatory period. Student loans shouldn't be a thing. Imagine wanting to devote your life to helping people, becoming a doctor in a country that has a terrible shortage of doctors (And it very much does)But oh no! some crazy shit happens, and you're not able to complete your degree. Guess what? Big government says "fuck you. How dare you have some crazy bullshit happen to you? You're entire financial future is fucked up for your whole life now. Goodbye."

How in the fuck can a better educated people be worse for society? How in the fuck could you ever make the case that it's bad to have more people trained in medicine? Why would you ever punish and disincentivize behavior that's good for society?? How in the ever loving fuck does that make sense??

FUCK THIS COUNTRY

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 22 points 3 days ago (1 children)

We 100% did learn about amortization in high school math, no idea if it's still taught though

[–] thejml@sh.itjust.works 18 points 3 days ago

It is. Actually my daughter learned it in middle school (7-8th grades). Not that people have many other choices for college cash.

[–] danc4498@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

Also, they make loans standard so they can charge more for the services.

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 11 points 3 days ago (7 children)

The thing is, I understood perfectly I was getting fucked, it's just that without a degree you can't get a good job. That's the most predatory part

[–] sunsofold@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Often enough, even with the degree, you can end up no better off for some time. If you don't get a degree and make x/yr, or you get the degree, spend 6~8 years in school and looking for a position that pays 2x/yr but you spend half of the money on paying down your debt for 20 years... That's a long time to get back into the black, assuming you even went for a degree leading to a position that will pay that much. It is almost criminal that a credit hour learning to work on machine learning systems often has the same cost as one spent learning about art history. Both are valuable to society in their own ways, but they definitely won't get you the same paycheck, and the cost of entry should reflect that.

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[–] IrateAnteater@sh.itjust.works 77 points 3 days ago

If you have extra money that you aren't allowed to put against the principal, you could at least put that money into a GIC that matures once you graduate. Depending on the rates involved, you may even come out ahead doing that.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This thread makes me incredibly glad that at the last minute I decided to not go to college. My significant other still has loans out the ass with one hell of a scholarship to a not even considered expensive school. Just insanity since we're about 40. Glad I chose the trades. I know they're not for everyone but thank fuck.

[–] deft@lemmy.wtf 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Oh man same tbh.

I remember being in elementary school and I was asked about college plans, telling my teacher I'm poor and not going to college and she was saying I should still try or consider it. Decades later and I'm still so glad I didn't listen. I knew my situation even as a 4th or 5th grader.

Yeah maybe my work isn't easy but God damn I can walk into any city or town and find work, I have skills to impress and the only debt I have is from my cat's medical scare which is one tanked credit card big whoop.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 22 hours ago

Yeah, and it's nice when you can look at places you've been and done work at and be like "I did that."

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 37 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Why arent you allowed tp start paying it off? Ive never heard of a student loan you couldnt at least make interest payments on while in school.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago (4 children)

The provider shows a $0 balance because it's "Not available for repayment" which blocks me from making a payment. It's a government loan, which may be why

It's early enough in the semester that it may just not be fully processed yet. When I was in school I was able to dump what ever "loan refund" they gave me right into the principle.

I hate they call it a refund, it just means you took out a bigger loan than what the bill actually cost. Calling it a refund makes people think they got free money.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Since when do they charge interest before you exist school on government loans? Is that new? I remember them starting to charge interest when you graduate/leave

[–] KoalaUnknown@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

There are “unsubsidized” and “subsidized” loans in the US. Every student gets a set amount of subsidized loans they can take out based on their FASFA. If that cannot cover the cost of tuition, you can take out additional unsubsidized loans. Unsubsidized loans build interest while you are still in school.

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Unless something has changed in the past decade, you can still make payments to your loans, you just defer the requirement to do so until 6 months after graduation.

As someone else here said, if you would pay money to a loan while in college, it'd be better to put into a high yield account of some sort to hold onto until after college. From there I would get advice from a finance counselor on what to do with that money, whether save for longer or start it into payments.

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I'm 46 and I still have student loans.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

my neighbor is in her early 50s and is still paying off grad school (an advanced degree, but still, fuck)

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My job paid for my grad school degree thankfully, but nothing like those consolidated undergrad student loans following you around for the rest of your life.

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[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago

This sounds infuriating, not just mildly infuriating.

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

For all my problems, at least I can say I'm not in debt. Student loans always seemed scummy to me. The trade off is I don't receive a piece of paper letting potential employers know i'm worthy. Every thing is a fucking joke and life is meaningless. Fuck everything.

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[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago

Your student loan:

Student loans are a grift. You’re getting grifted.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

I just had one kid finish college and another start this week.

Your loan and interest and payments start on day one. Most people choose to defer payments until they finish school because they don't plan on having money until they finish school. That does not defer the interest.

When you finish school, you can ask the loan company to extend the deferment for another 6 months. Essentially, that's to give you some time to find a job.

You CAN make a payment on your loan. It probably won't cover any principal, but you can do it.

[–] krellor@fedia.io 7 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Is this the US? There are laws that protect penalty free prepayments on student loans, federal or private. Depending on the rates it may or may not be better to invest or have as a rainy day fund, depending on the overall state of finances. But you have a legal right to prepayment and it would have to be a pretty backwater lender not to be aware of this. That said, the system could be clunky.

What bank or federal payment processor?

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