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[–] j5y7@sh.itjust.works 2 points 59 minutes ago

Oh, my. That steamed carrot was a bit spicy for me.

[–] Rothe@piefed.social 3 points 2 hours ago

Available in UK, Ireland and Canada according to the official Old El Paso websites of those countries.

[–] speakupattheback@lemmy.world 22 points 5 hours ago

Anyone who thinks Brits don't like spicy food has never set foot in a British takeaway

[–] TomMasz@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

I had a vindaloo in a sports pub in Fulham that had me crying. The local folks I was with had no problem with it.

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 39 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

At some point the spice goes negative and now you owe them spice.

[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] D_C@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 hours ago

In my time I've had a few phaal curries that have definitely 'flowed' the next day.

On the plus side I always felt really energised after.

[–] DontTreadOnBigfoot@lemmy.world 15 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

That is legitimately surprising considering how popular Indian food has been with the few Brits I know.

[–] Rugnjr@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I've never actually seen or heard of this in the UK. It could well be real, but it's not that common. Most people I know have reasonable spice tolerance given as you say the popularity of Indian food there.

[–] Willy@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Indian is spicy in that it uses lots of spices. It does rank real high on the spice meter imo. Even the “ghost pepper vindaloo” at a specialty hot Indian place near me doesn’t rate much more than 3/5 and that’s the hottest Indian I’ve found. Everything else at the many Indian places I’ve been only reaches maybe a 1.5. I grow ghost peppers annd I don’t think they really use em. Any Thai or Burmese places “white people spicy” is about the same.

[–] Sc00ter@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

Yea this sounds like a local you thing. The indian near me has me literally sweating at "white people spicy." I tried "indian spicy" when i went with my indian friends, and i could barely finish it.

[–] UnspecificGravity@piefed.social 23 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (3 children)

I think you guys get different Indian food than we do. I've had stuff that would peel paint off a car.

[–] Tyrq@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 hours ago

Can confirm. As someone who has a high spice tolerance, when I order spicy, I tell them to not hold back, and sometimes they still do, thinking I can't handle it. But when I went to England, that request was a whole other realm of pain. No regrets, I asked for it, I cried my tears, and teared my crungus, but man, I was not expecting it.

[–] DontTreadOnBigfoot@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Same.

It must be made differently across the pond. I've felt like I was gonna bleed from my eyeballs once or twice from Indian food. Way hotter than any Mexican food I've ever had and I'm in an area with a lot of first generation immigrants cooking...

[–] somethingsnappy@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Lived in Southern China for a while. I've also had plenty of authentic thai, Indian, central American. The dal bhat my sister made after living in Nepal was a burning I will never forget. Ever.

[–] whimsy@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

If I got it right, how can dal and rice be spicy?

[–] NoForwadSlashS@piefed.social 5 points 2 hours ago

You use spices

[–] Quokka@quokk.au 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve never had a spicy Indian dish in my life in Australia. I usually go with Szechuan food if I want something spicy from a shop.

[–] Wobble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 hours ago

South Indian food is quite spicy. Most typically the Indian food you find in different place is Northern Indian. I recommend trying to find some!

[–] Zedd00@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

In Albania if a dish has black pepper it's labeled spicy. I picked up a jar of tikka sauce that had 3 peppers on it, was labeled medium, and it was sweet. Absolutely 0 spice.

It's not as bad in Austria, but definitely all products made for Austrian market labeled as spicy you bet your ass there's no hotness at all.

[–] Barley_Man@sopuli.xyz 14 points 7 hours ago

In Finland in the 90s you couldn't even buy garlic. My old Finnish Grandpa would get totally red in the face from eating burger king because it would have a tiny amount of black pepper. It's better nowadays though

[–] Gold_E_Lox@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

i have never seen extra mild in my life

[–] fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Archer@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Nah, too spicy

[–] M0oP0o@mander.xyz 7 points 7 hours ago

Is it just antacid in sauce form? Like the mild has no spice, you can drink the stuff. How do you even get this level of anti spice?

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 13 points 8 hours ago

when cumin is too spicy

[–] HumanOnEarth@lemmy.ca 5 points 8 hours ago

Right, me stomach'll be in real barney rubble if I have any of 'em spices. I'll be full of raspberry tarts, I will.

[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

I used to be mad jealous of the families that could afford to have the extravagance of brand name Old el Paso mexican dining at home.

It seemed/I was told that shit was too expensive for us. I never tried mexican food until I moved out of fucking university.

[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

Mexican food is the cheapest and easiest and most delicious food to make. Old el Paso is old el crapo when you can just throw some tomatoes, garlic, and onion in a blender with whatever pepper you prefer and you've got amazing fresh salsa.

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 5 points 8 hours ago

I'm Australian and My partner is American with Mexican ancestry.

I eat shin ramyun for breakfast, and My partner can't handle it because it's too spicy.