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[–] AceTKen@lemmy.ca 94 points 1 month ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (11 children)

I don't play multiplayer games anymore.

First off, they always seem to enable the worst of game companies trying to financially ruin their players.

Second off, I'm in my 40s and my reaction time isn't what it was when I used to play UT or Quake. You can't improve an aged reaction time nearly as easily, yes, because it's gotten slightly worse with age, but also because you become less willing and / or able to dedicate the sheer volume of time that you would need to to improve. Getting repeatedly stomped isn't fun, and quite simply, I've got better and more important things to do.

Third off, I don't like the constant recycling of content that you see in multiplayer games. A handful of maps are expected to last you infinite plays. I like changes of scenery, storylines, and varied experiences. Doing the same thing over and over again is just boring.

Fourth off, player communities in some games are aggressively dogshit and I really don't want to interact with them at all.

[–] ampersandrew@lemmy.world 33 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

It's unlikely your reaction time has changed much in your 40s. You probably have well over a decade before that starts to happen. On your first couple of tries, reacting to something is going to seem impossible. After you've seen the same stimuli and practiced what you should do in response, you'll be right around where teens and 20-somethings are. If you don't want to put the time in to make that happen, that's fine, but don't think it's unattainable to get good at a given multiplayer if you were otherwise interested in doing so. E-sports are now old enough that we've seen enough folks age into their 40s and remain top talent, as long as that remained an ideal career choice for them when so few are going to be able to support themselves in that career.

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Watching NakeyJakey’s video on competitive shooters put into perspective how hard it really is. I knew I wasn’t cut out for it, but that just demonstrated how not cut out for it I was.

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[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

In my own experience, now in my 50s and having played games since my teens, including a long period of RPGs and FPS online, reaction times start dropping in your 30s.

It's a tiny bit and you only really notice it when you're operating near your limits (same for intelligence, by the way - if you're using it near capacity, you'll notice that your capabilities start falling at around your mid 20s).

However, you can compensate it with experience, smarts and even wisdom - for example in FPS games you use the environment against other players, lead them into doing something predicable and get them then and/or prefer play styles that don't depend on reaction speed.

It's just a fact of life that physical and mental capacities do decay with age and far earlier than you seem to think, and whilst if you keep on using them it's not that much, if you're using them at a near peak-level it's noticeable if you pay attention as you can't just reach the peaks you could reach before.

[–] ampersandrew@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago

And in my experience, having gotten into fighting games in a serious way for the first time at age 30 (I'm now 37), people tend to attribute atypical "good reaction times" to what are actually smart input buffering techniques. In a crowd populated by mostly 20-somethings, I still routinely end up in the top 15% in a given game, and those opponents that beat me never feel like the difference was reaction time. Going from memory from a link I'll surely never be able to find again, so take this with a grain of salt, the US Air Force had a vested interest in studying how reaction times change as we age and found that it didn't really start to decay in any meaningful way until long after 40.

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[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Doing the same thing over and over again he’s boring.

That's also a factor in the gameplay itself.

Competitive multiplayer games will always develop a 'meta' that you have to adhere to or respond to in order to be at all competitive.

In single player games, you can make a replay interesting by playing it a different way, trying different strategies even if they're non-optimal, just to have the novel experience of playing the game a different way. Things like, "I think I'm going to try doing a no-vehicles run in Subnautica." or "I think I'll try Cyberpunk with a melee-focused solo build this time." But stuff like that just isn't viable in competitive multiplayer. You will be defeated early and often if you stray too far from the meta.

So not only are you playing the same few maps over and over, you're playing the same few tactics and strategies over and over, making things boring from that angle as well.

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 7 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

In single player games you can also cheat a little,bug abuse and glitch the game for giggles without ruining the exp for others too

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[–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm 32. I just recently started getting better aim than I ever had throughout my entire 20's. When it comes to gaming, age doesn't really matter as much.

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[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 36 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Yes, it's a peaceful life. It sucks when i finally can sit down in the evening and start up a game and then getting insta killed by teenager who has nothing to than practice all day.

Or team based PvE games where it's just trying to keep up with the speedrunners farming.

In addition getting 30 min of uninterrupted time can be a luxury, so pause feature is a must have.

[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

start up a game and then getting insta killed by teenager

One of my younger coworkers was just complaining about that and I had the pleasure of informing them they were now an old man.

[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 4 weeks ago

In addition getting 30 min of uninterrupted time can be a luxury, so pause feature is a must have.

Yeah exactly. I need a game I can just pickup and put down on a moments notice.

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[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 23 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Got drunk and played megaman 11 with siblings, passing around the controller, cracking jokes about how megaman’s ow sound seemed weirdly gay and horny in this one. I was so bad I kept getting him hurt and it sounded like a gay porn.

My sister asks “isn’t that supposed to be a robot child?”

Me: “He’s been a child since the 80s and his voice is lower now. He’s a megaMAN now, and how dare you demean the short king fighting for your safety over his robo masochim kink and short stature.”

Brother: “yea he can’t help he was built that way. You’re a monster. Don’t kink shame”

Me and bro: -glare-

Sister (who is in a poly relationship and very much the alternachick of the family): “….what the fuck is happening here?”

Single player games are still fun when played together.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago

Your family sounds fun lol

[–] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I have over 1500 hours into The Witcher 3.

Sometimes I think at least 500 of those hours are just me loading into the game after a long week, finding an isolated spot on the map, and just staring into the sunset while the wind howls in my headset.

[–] greedytacothief@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I really love the atmosphere of skellige. Something about it is so nostalgic, the blowing wind, the clouds that look like a huge storm is about to roll in.

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[–] mereo@piefed.ca 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (9 children)

I'm in my early 40s. Back then, I used to play Quake 3, UT 99 and Tribes 2 competitively. Not anymore. Life is stressful enough, and I don't want to add to that by playing competitively. I want to relax by playing story-based games. I also play a lot of games on easy mode so that I can truly enjoy the story.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Exact same. I can pause when needed and handle priorities. Fuck MP games that drive up my blood pressure. The only MP games now are co-op, like L4D2

[–] Spooge@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] purplerabbit@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

The live service model has been a plague on gaming and has basically killed every bit of enjoyment I'm getting out of multiplayer game nowadays. Shit's like having a job. You leave for two weeks and you might as well be playing a different game. Leave for a month? Maybe the game don't even exist anymore. It's exhausting.

[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 weeks ago

You're not supposed to leave! Subscribe to the Steam iv nutrition service and stay focused!

[–] grinning_serpent@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago

It's also why they keep dying. All of them operate off a walled garden model while simultaneously demanding "this is probably the only game you can play for a while" levels of time investment and using unlockables as the carrot.

So is it surprising that players don't want to jump ship and leave all their skins and "look at me I'm special" shiny equipment behind for something that's not much different than what they got already?

It's the same thing as when every Tom, Dick, and Harry were sure they'd be the next WoW. Execs never learn.

[–] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 17 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I used to play mostly shooters online.

Somehow, living next to a country which is invading one of its neighbours, and seeing a bunch of actual real war footage from real wars on the daily basis, made me reconsider if shooters actually qualify as "fun" these days.

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[–] Switorik@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Don't forget all the new CoD, battlefield, and even tarkov (soon) is requiring TPM 2.0, secure boot, and actively blocking linux making it impossible to even play them.

[–] scops@reddthat.com 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've yet to find a game I couldn't play on Bazzite in the year since I've switched from Windows. I know that says something about my gaming preferences, but it is also high praise for the folks who have worked on Wine and Proton over the past years

[–] Switorik@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

To make it a bit more clear, they are actively blocking access to the game via anti cheat that doesn't support linux or in many cases, not enabled.

I have zero issues on arch. I find linux works better out of the box, is more reliable, faster, and doesn't actively farm your data.

[–] Zarobi@aussie.zone 5 points 4 weeks ago

I was initially so mad when they blocked League of Legends on Linux. Then I was grateful 😂

[–] Airfried@piefed.social 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think the friendslop trend is great. It brings the couch gaming experience into the modern era after a long time in coma.

[–] Zarobi@aussie.zone 5 points 4 weeks ago

I miss split screen. Too many games nowadays, in order to play with my kids, I have to buy multiple copies, finagle multiple PCs and accounts just to play multiplayer. Finally my ancient laptop collection has a use

[–] Larry@piefed.social 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I miss community servers. Each had its own identity and you could pop in and out without being penalized. Being locked in to a 30+ minute sweatfest with people I don't know, or like, has never been appealing to me.

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[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Cheating and involving money ruined multiplayer gameplay.

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[–] Dunstabzugshaubitze@feddit.org 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I sometimes miss counter-strike, but i lack atleast the time and the people to play it on a level where that game is fun and probably the reflexes.

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[–] Nelots@piefed.zip 9 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Competitive multiplayer games are a big no, but I love cooperative multiplayer games. I'd much rather play one of them with a friend or two than play something by myself. I couldn't tell you the last time I've actually beaten a single player game, I tend to get bored and lose interest half way through.

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 9 points 4 weeks ago

I've always preferred single player games. I hate multiplayer, all those strangers running around in my TV, chaos everywhere. I want to relax and explore, but multiplayer is stressful. I don't want to deal with other people.

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

If I wanted to be the target of homophobic insults, I could just do it to myself in front of a mirror, though granted, I can't really emulate the voice of a 12 year-old so it's not quite the same experience bouquet.

Beyond that, multiplayer is almost like working - you're supposed to relentless keep at it, on somebody else's timings even if you're in a guild: done it in EVE Online and WoW and, frankly, for the experience of work I have real-life were I actually get paid for it rather than the other way around.

Then there's the whole creepy monetisation shit - I'm not really interested in the constant sales pressure, especially when it's "buy this or else you're handicaped vs those who did" (EA is still in my shit list since they did it with a DLC in one of the older Battlefield titles), especially nowadays when I've managed to mainly remove advertising from my life.

So I just stopped doing multiplayer a decade ago and pretty much avoid it like the plague.

Maybe I'll try Guild Wars 3 if it's in the same style as Guild Wars 2 (which came out before the monetisation era).

[–] Dariusmiles2123@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Sometimes I force myself to try multiplayer, but other than Gran Turismo, Last Of Us factions and Gears of War, I never found how it could be considered as enjoyable.

And even these games are way better as single player games.

It’s also making my move to Linux gaming way easier.

[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I thoroughly enjoy single players games. I like being able to explore the world at my own pace, make my own decisions, and draw my own conclusions. It's like reading a book, if turning the pages involved solving puzzles and beating monsters. Relaxing, if you're good, challenging if you're not.

Cooperative games are a close second. I like PvE, it means that I get to help my friends. The objective isn't rank and competition, it's winning together. It's why I like Starbound, Minecraft, and D&D.

Genuinely? I despise PvP. It's the trash talk and the aggressively competitive assholes who have nothing to do with their time. I hate dealing with people who like to hurt strangers by humiliating them. Who the hell enjoys that?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I only stopped playing multiplayer games because all the current MP games suck shit.

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[–] lordziv@lemmy.nz 6 points 4 weeks ago

This is going to be extremely niche, but I find the surf mini game in Counter Strike Source to be incredibly relaxing and rewarding while also being a quasi multiplayer game. The community is quite helpful and friendly and there are almost 1000 different maps of all skill levels so there is something for everyone if you are into movement based mechanics.

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

I personally mostly use video games as a means of an escape from real life. And to me multiplayer pulls to much of real life back into games and it can be unenjoyable.

[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 weeks ago

Multi-player is fun at a good old fashioned Lan party and not much more.

I miss multiplayer video games. I wish someone still made them.

[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I used to be pretty good at the usual stuff like COD, CS, Battlefield… but each game got fucked up in its own unique way. Stuff became just too sweaty and annoying, all the while the sense of community faded. COD back in the 360 days was fun. Now it’s just annoying.

These days, I’m fully single player. It’s just not worth the price of modern games to deal with all the multiplayer bullshit.

[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 8 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

A real sense of community

The community

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[–] nightwatch_admin@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was pvp hardened in Eve Online, exactly because of that I will probably never touch anything multiplayer again.

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