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I guess my question is specific to the british royal family.

I saw a post online that said "God save the King" and had a photo of the king. The idea of a monarch or reverence for any other type of leader simply because they are the leader is outside of my experience.

I'm not here to disagree or argue, please don't feel like you need to justify or convince me. I can accept that people value different things.

I would like to understand the appeal the monarchy or even specifically King Charles has for people who respect and support the monarchy.

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[–] IPeaceInYourFace@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

Reasoning aside, it's just human nature.

In a room full of idiots, the loudest one will end up being the boss. Overtime, that elongates into a lineage that people don't want to mess with.

Monarchists tend not to have a lot of free thought and do things just because that's the way they've always been done.

Which isn't to diminish it, some humans are just made like that, they follow a process to procreate, not cause a commotion and die in peace. Social proof if you will.

[–] sunsofold@lemmy.zip 10 points 4 days ago

I might have a weird view of things but I don't want to get rid of royalty, just take away any authority they have over the lives of themselves and others. They already live off others' work. Let's keep them as national pets.

'Who's a good king? Who looks nice and waves for the people?'

'Is it me, ?'

'No! No talking! Bad! Smack you on the nose with a rolled up replica magna carta.'

[–] ChristerMLB@piefed.social 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I'm Norwegian, not British, but we also have a constitutional monarchy. I like it for mostly cynical reasons. They take care of ribbon-cutting and other big ceremonies so the politicians can focus on policy, and they give us a "head of state" that's statistically less likely to become a dictator than an elected president is.

And all the drama and bullshit is a continuous reminder of what a bad idea it would be to institute genuine monarchy.

[–] HrabiaVulpes@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Not a monarchist, but I definitely have one big gripe with democracy.

Who is responsible?

I feel like there is no responsibility within democracy. Politicians just point at abstract things like party, commission etc. They can sell the country to the outsiders for cash money and nobody will be at fault. Or perhaps it's the voter, his fault for voting. And when there is too much "guilt" put on party they just disband it and start a new one. Same people, same issues, just a different name.

As for British Monarchy - they are literally pets. I wouldn't mind a permanent big-brother house with royal family for my country. Would certainly save up on production of telenovelas.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm not a monarchist personally. I lean more ansyn. But if you're going to have hierarchy at all, it's hard to beat a constitutional monarchy like Canada's.

The issue at the core is "doing something". When you have elected heads of state, like the US president say, said head of state feels pressure to be seen "doing something". And in my experience, when a politician feels the need to "do something", trouble results.

In Canada the monarch has virtually no power. Indeed the one real power the monarch has left is the ability to dissolve Parliament and force a new election. In Canada this can be done directly by the monarch, or by their appointed representatives, the Governor General (federal) and Lieutenant Governors (provincial). There are a few other powers the monarch holds (technically a law is only passed once approved by the monarch, for example) but these are basically rubber-stamped because the monarchy isn't stupid and realizes the first time they say "no" they risk Canada turning into a republic and going to shit like the USA did. The only real sword the monarch carries in their sheathe is that ability to just say "no" to their current government and call for a do-over. And they so rarely draw that sword at anything other than formal, symbolic occasions that most people don't even realize the sword is there.

So why is this good? Well, the monarchy, being an inherited position and one which is not subject to recall, is secure. They don't have that intrinsic need to "do something". Indeed they work best when they do the minimum amount possible. 99.44% of the time they are a figurehead, not a politician. And that means you don't have some ambitious twat trying to make their name like, I don't know, tearing down a third of the presidential palace to build a garish ballroom, or trying to glue his name on every institution, or starting wars just to convince his followers he really is tough and totally isn't a wimp, etc. I mean seriously, look at the utter fucking idiocy American presidents, or Hungarian presidents, or any other elected head of state anywhere in the world does each year and compare it to my entire lifetime (60 years) under a monarch. There's no contest. Trump alone has done more utterly fucked-in-the-head things in the past week than Lizzie did all her life.

And here's the fun part. The monarchy is cheap. Indeed in the UK the monarchy is a net benefit to the economy; some of the largest amounts of tourist money pouring into the UK are specifically for people visiting royal properties. In Canada we have to pay a little (a state visit by the monarch comes with some significant costs), but even a major state visit by the monarch is less than the damage an idiot president does to the USA in a week. If we had an elected head of state, I can guarantee you that we'd be paying through our teeth for them in no time flat as they get that urge to be seen "doing something".

So let's give a solid example. Way back when, PM Brian Mulroney and his party had Canada's Parliament in a tight grip. They had a very secure majority government and very strong party discipline, so they could cram anything they wanted through. And one of the things they wanted to cram through, and were preparing to cram through, was NAFTA. The thing is that NAFTA was really unpopular for a lot of very loud people. There was a lot of bad blood going on, and there was doubt if Mulroney had an actual mandate for such a drastic agreement, since that agreement was nowhere near visibility at the time of his election. Had things continued on that course Brian would have forced NAFTA through, and there would have been a cloud over that agreement from every day past that forever.

In the middle of the acrimony, Her Royal Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II, dropped by for a visit. (This is ... weird. Royal Visits are planned meticulously months in advance.) Ostensibly she was just doing a Royal Tour, but the timing was very suspicious and the fact it took everyone by surprise was even more suspicious. And in part of her visit she had a private, in-camera meeting with Brian. After the meeting, Lizzie came out looking quite refreshed and unworried while Brian was pale and uncharacteristically quiet. There was a persistent and very credible rumour from that time that Lizzie threatened Brian with proroguing Parliament and calling an election unless he called the election. If Lizzie prorogued, it would be guaranteed that Mulroney would have lost simply on the moral strength of Lizzie's position. So Mulroney was forced to ask her to prorogue (so it was "his idea") and it instead gave him a chance to make his case to the people.

They spoke their subsequent platitudes. Lizzie went home. And a short time later Bri-Bri called an election. His party campaigned on NAFTA. The other parties campaigned anti-NAFTA. His party won. He had a clear mandate for NAFTA, which he signed shortly thereafter.

(Note: I am explicitly not commenting on whether NAFTA was or was not a good thing for Canada. That's out of scope. What's in scope is whether or not the government had a genuine mandate from the people to negotiate it. By forcing an election—if, indeed, that's what happened; it's a rumour, remember—Lizzie made sure that there was.)

Now tell me, how do you think this would play out in a republic? (Hint: you're seeing it unfold in real time as Trump and his coterie of billionaires and sycophants destroys the USA.)

This is why, although not a monarchist, I am in favour of a constitutional monarchy (both words are important there!) over a republic if you're going to have hierarchy at all. Though it would be even nicer if political parties would be outlawed.

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The 1988 election was called because the Senate refused to sign off on the ratification of NAFTA. It wouldn't have even gotten to the GG without that.

The story about the queen visiting Mulroney...are you getting that mixed up with the visit that happened immediately after the Meech Lake accord failed?

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 3 days ago

I might be confusing the two. It's been ages.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Former monarchist here: it was nationalism. Simple as that. Bavarian nationalism.

But that stemmed from self hatred and well thats why i am no longer in the right spectrum ^^

Thank you, this makes sense. I can understand loyalty to a station as symbolic of loyalty to a nation and the sense of belonging that brings.

Glad you are feeling better.

[–] wackyheartfluid@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

The question can also be applied to why people believe in God / follow a religion. The notion of monarchy has (in the UK at least) been tied into pseudo religious notions of 'chosen by god' or similar, so it ties into that belief system for better or worse. (Historically the tie-in was to co-opt the obedience baked into faith, but that's probably lost on modern monarchists and believers.)

People everywhere develop unhealthy relationships with those that are oblivious to them, or outright parasitic and damaging. This is another of those that's been wrapped up in tradition and ceremony under the guise of 'normality' and the status quo. 'Ignorance is bliss' may apply.

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

I'm from the UK and I'm a Monarchist in so much as I want to keep the Royal Family. I certainly don't like the idea of Kings and Queens broadly speaking and "respect" is a strong word, but here in the UK we've got a lot of institutions that have vile histories but wouldn't serve to benefit anyone if we were to scrap them today.

The Mountbatten-Windsor family also happen to be the Royal Family. These days they're basically powerless and have less influence and sway than pundits on GB News, the Murdoch media and Facebook, who also aren't elected. But they're still an aristocratic family, which means they have access to extraordinary wealth and control of a vast business empire... except they don't. All their estates, land, businesses, interests, etc are held in reserve as the Crown Estate which is operated on their behalf by a Government-appointed manager. The income from the Crown Estate goes straight to the Government and the Government pays the Royal Family a salary - the Sovereign Grant - which is typically between 25% and 35% of the Crown Estate's profits. So for all those people who say "ThEy'Re TaX dOdGiNg PaRaSiTeS": they pay an effective tax rate of at least 60%, which is about 60% more than anyone else with that income. Anyone who moans about the couple of quid a year the Royal Family "costs" them must be ecstatic beyond words to learn about the few extra quid they actually make in profit.

Having a Royal Family is amazing for tourism. Yes, the French have palaces too, but they attract nothing like the numbers as the actual real, functioning palaces and castles actually used by a real, breathing monarchs. The Palace of Versailles makes Buckingham Palace look like a shanty but can you guess which one nets more visitors? Windsor Castle, same deal. Moreover, they're an amazing soft political power. What would your response be if you found out the Prime Minister of the UK was visiting your country? For most people it'd probably be "oh, who is it this week?". But what about a visit from the Actual King of England? There would be grand receptions, concerts, speeches, unveilings, all because the Actual King of Actual England is coming. Add demagogues like Trump to the equation and the Royal's value is amplified further.

Then there's the scrutiny. We all know the Andrew Formally Known As Prince being a nasty little pervert and I wouldn't be surprised if there's far more to it. And yet, no-one talks about the Dysons, or the Cavendish-es, or the Rothschilds, or the Montagus, and so on, all of whom are richer and more powerful than the Mountbatten-Windsors and far, far, far more sinister and vile, but they're not the Royal Family so they're unknowns. They make the Royals look like cherubs, but they're well-connected enough to avoid scrutiny and smart enough to remain basically anonymous. Personally, if I was the King I'd tell the UK to fuck off. I'd make the UK a Republic, take my estates and wealth and power back, thankyou very much, and tell everyone to go suck their Mum's dicks. I don't know why or how they continue being the Royal Family, but if we "got rid" of them tomorrow we'd lose a tremendous political power and gain yet another unaccountable group of unjustifiably powerful aristocrats.

[–] Womble@piefed.world 5 points 3 days ago

Yes, the French have palaces too, but they attract nothing like the numbers as the actual real, functioning palaces and castles actually used by a real, breathing monarchs.

Just FYI, this is incorrect, Versailles gets more visitors a year (15 million) than all British palaces combined (~2 million.)

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Thank you for your detailed reply! Some of what you said didn't match my understanding. I recognize I'm taking this from wiki vs your experience as a person from the UK, but maybe you can help me understand?

But they're still an aristocratic family, which means they have access to extraordinary wealth and control of a vast business empire... except they don't. All their estates, land, businesses, interests, etc are held in reserve as the Crown Estate which is operated on their behalf by a Government-appointed manager. The income from the Crown Estate goes straight to the Government and the Government pays the Royal Family a salary - the Sovereign Grant - which is typically between 25% and 35% of the Crown Estate's profits.

I don't think this is true. For example:

  • they own private residences
  • some of the privately owned residences are maintained by a self sustaining not for profit which means admission costs etc pay for the upkeep of these private properties.
  • the holdings of the Crown Estate are massive, but the intent of the money is to cover the cost of being a royal.
  • "In addition to the Sovereign Grant, the monarch continues to receive the revenue of the Duchy of Lancaster, while the Prince of Wales receives the revenues of the Duchy of Cornwall."
  • they have private wealth

"ThEy'Re TaX dOdGiNg PaRaSiTeS": they pay an effective tax rate of at least 60%, which is about 60% more than anyone else with that income.

This article says the crown is tax exempt and that the dutchy of Cornwall claims this too. It states the Sovereign Grant is tax exempt, but individuals have voluntarily paid equivalent amounts.

Royal.UK says:

Taxation The King pays tax.

In 1992, Queen Elizabeth II volunteered to pay income tax and capital gains tax, and since 1993 the Monarch's personal income has been taxable as for any other taxpayer.

His Majesty is subject to Value Added Tax and pays local rates on a voluntary basis.

And

Under the 1337 charter, as confirmed by subsequent legislation, The Prince of Wales does not own the Duchy's capital assets, and is not entitled to the proceeds or profit on their sale, and only receives the annual income which they generate (which is voluntarily subject to income tax).

The 2024-2025 financial statement mentions that

In addition to the funding received by the Royal Household, income from the Duchy of Cornwall funds the private and official expenditure of the Prince and Princess of Wales and is taxed to the extent it is not used to meet official expenditure.

But the above states that this is voluntary. I'm not seeing anything about the 60% effective tax rate. What am I missing?

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[–] TheTetrapod@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

If you do the "getting rid" of them correctly, they definitely won't be aristocrats anymore.

[–] Jolteon@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 days ago

Who do you think they are? The French?

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[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I'm not monarchist. I think most of the time it ends up as a disaster. However, I'd say the appeal is training someone from birth to be a good leader. Theoretically this could still involve checks and balances.

The other benefit is that they can just get shit done instead of arguing about every little thing and special interest groups roadblocking progress at every turn. Again, this usually backfires spectacularly, but that's the dream, to just go have a vision and fuckin' do the thing.

Plato envisioned extending this to a ruling class/aristocracy that is intentionally not allowed to own property but instead focuses on just doing their job to benefit the city. They don't have to campaign, they can't reject power, so it is to their benefit to do a good job and benefit the city. There is some logic to this since any schmuck can get elected in a democracy, and money hungry oligarchs are diametrically opposed to having qualities desirable in leadership such as patriotism or caring about others in any way.

[–] remon@ani.social 7 points 4 days ago (4 children)

The British Monarch isn't really a leader any more it's mostly ceremonial.

They look fancy and bring in money, so with bother removing them?

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I can understand this leading to a neutral or slightly positive view of the monarchy, but I'm not sure it explains people who actively support and say things like "God save the King" or have photos of them in their homes.

Unless it's just a reflex/kitschy tradition at this point?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I think it's just another fandom.

Some people do the same thing for Kardashians

Okay, that makes sense.

[–] leraje@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

Because they're parasites?

I'm not sure the argument that they bring in money via tourism is accurate. No tourist comes to see them, they come to see the Palace etc. Tourists still visit the Palace of Versailles even though there's no monarchy in France.

[–] mrdown@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (3 children)

It do not bring money, it waste money

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[–] grranibal@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

How do they bring in money?

[–] shadowedcross@sh.itjust.works 10 points 4 days ago

People like to say they bring money in through tourism. How much? I don't know, but I have to imagine the percentage of tourists who come here because of the monarchy is very small.

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[–] RickyRigatoni@piefed.zip 4 points 4 days ago

Rich dommy mommy telling me what to do.

My guess? Monarchies are likely to lean conservative and uphold "tradition".

There are many who'd love to live in a monarchy and do away with all the lib/woke/left stuff they so much despise. Throw in some disregard for the dangers of absolute power and a sprinkle of love for a "strong leader" and voilà.

Specifically in regards to the British royal family, who don't really wield much actual policy power, it seems to be more a cultural/traditional curiosity. They're more like national mascots than anything.

In the case of actual monarchist government, I'm not a monarchist myself but in a certain sense I can understand the logic. Your leaders are trained basically from birth to be leaders, and institutional wealth and lack of elections makes them more difficult to bribe. If your monarch is a good and responsible person, the power to make sweeping improvements without slow, fiddly debates and negotiations is a big benefit.

The logic falls apart pretty quickly in reality though. Generations of isolation from the common people makes you ineffectual in the long term even if your intentions are pure. Then there's the difficulty of dethroning a monarch whose intentions aren't pure.

[–] MagnificentSteiner@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Same appeal as religion... delusions can be, and often are, comfortable.

[–] mech@feddit.org 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Monarchs don't just look to the next election or next year's economic growth.
Their frame of reference goes back for centuries and they have a personal interest in keeping the country functional and prosperous for the next centuries.

So as long as they don't wield too much executive power that isn't democratically legitimized, they can act as a counterweight to the parliament that's often dominated by party politics.

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Thank you. The appeal of stability makes sense.

I really hope this doesn't sound like arguing, but you mention "they have a personal interest in keeping the country functional and prosperous for the next centuries". That made me think of places or eras where they got taxes or "rent" from the citizens. I guess this means the citizens accept this as the price?

[–] mech@feddit.org 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I personally don't know of any country where the royalty gets tax money directly.

But I'm not an expert.

They do usually own lots of land which creates income that would go to the state instead, if they abolished the monarchy and nationalized their property.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

British monarchy gets tax money plus from their own companies and land holdings that arent taxed

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Would it be fair to say that the income they have from their position (i.e income from land) is seen as fairly derived and a fair amount?

[–] mech@feddit.org 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I wouldn't call it fairly derived.
It's all inherited from people who have stolen the land by pointing sharp sticks at its former owners.
Some Brits say it's a fair amount, since supposedly the monarchy draws in more money from tourism than it costs.

No idea, really. In Germany we abolished the monarchy but let them keep their lands, so we have the worst of both worlds.
And it's even worse with the church: Their real estate was nationalized in 1803, and the state agreed to pay reparations for it, perpetually. So now they get hundreds of millions of € per year from the state, and that's been going on for 223 years with no end in sight.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 days ago

Though for that long term ruling-long term thinking, and only out for next election. It doesnt need monarchy.

May i introduce you the venetian republic!

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Having an inert (a-political) monarch provides a figurehead and commander of the nations military, making it less likely that coups and fascist takeover occurs because all the soldiers swear an allegiance to the king. They don't have to agree with him, or even with monarchy, but as the big boss ultimately in command of the entire army, an allegiance to him is allegiance to protecting all your comrades and countryfolk.

The monarch is usually unlikely to collapse the country and then flee to another one with their winnings, as a prime minister might do. You could say they have commitment to it, since it's essentially their family business. Theoretically it should be a blessing that, in a monarchy, we have leadership who actually inherit that position and are raised from birth to lead.

One reason people don't like monarchy is because there are past case studies of it causing problems, e.g just one legitimacy crisis and civil war breaks out, or if a monarch gets to greedy they will emnroil you in war with your nearest neighbouring state for ages.

But people need to realise, it was never just the monarch in charge. There exist pressure groups, the aristocracy, the church, merchant class; these sorts of organisations have a lot of say in when a war happens and what gets done. The truth of power is oligarchy - an organised minority of the population will always be best suited to maneuveur a takeover of the rest of the popupation. It has to be larger than 1 person, though.

In my eyes, therefore, the king exists not as the leadership but as the figurehead of the organisational force of the country. For instance in the UK the civil service works for the king - this is again superior to them working for the party government, as they have more reason to be unbiased than just "please don't do that, it wouldn't be fair." The monarchy is a real thing, bigger/more important than the party politics, even if less flavourful.

I wholeheartedly also believe that the British Crown provides superior organisation of our secret service/intelligence agency (nope, its not just movie-slop!) - we actually have the oldest standing secret service of any country, i believe, and it's pretty impressive russia hasn't completely destabilised britain yet. I would chalk that up to the crown.


The british monarchy is all of these things, but for countries across the world. It therefore has staying power. Getting rid of it isn't merely a question of how would the people of the UK feel - it may lead to little crises across the world. It's a big reason why the british army is called out to fight wars in african nations (they do this a lot btw)

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[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

I'm a 'Murican. When they had that royal wedding back in 2012 or whenever and everyone was going crazy I was like didn't we fight a war so we wouldn't have to care about this?

I've been around general monarchists, as in people who support monarchy as a form of government, and always wanted to ask this question. The best answer I can think of myself is that democracy is not a guarantee against bad leadership.

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