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Deadname rule (lemmy.one)
submitted 11 months ago by I_like_cats@lemmy.one to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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[-] GeneralVincent@lemmy.world 81 points 11 months ago

Omg at first I thought this was two people getting married with PayPal as the wedding officiant.

Congrats to the happy couple tho lol

[-] KnowledgeableNip@leminal.space 53 points 11 months ago

Do you take this man to be your husband? We've sent a six digit code to your phone, please repeat it for yes.

[-] GeneralVincent@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago

I didn't get it.

Oh shoot I just got it after I pressed the button to get a new one. Now I have to wait for a new one... or can I just type the first one...??

[-] FrostyTheDoo@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

Now you receive 2 more and none of the 3 codes you've received work. You're out of tries. We've locked your account for security reasons, please check your email address from 1999 to reset your password and try again in 3 business days.

[-] GeneralVincent@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

You know what... I want a divorce now

[-] PM_ME_YOUR_SNDCLOUD@lemmy.world 49 points 11 months ago

It’s so unbelievably annoying that PayPal doesn’t let you use whatever display name you want to. Not everyone uses their legal name in their social life.

I understanding needing you know your customer, but why not let me set what my display name is?!

[-] CheezyWeezle@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago

? Does PayPal not allow this? PayPal has always called me "Praxis" lmao

[-] PM_ME_YOUR_SNDCLOUD@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

They may have at one point but they do not now.

[-] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 11 months ago

So are all PayPal users trans, or just dumb cuz they use proprietary software?

[-] I_like_cats@lemmy.one 62 points 11 months ago

What? This meme is about a transaction between two trans people but that doesn't mean all Paypal users are trans. But I agree that PayPal is proprietary software and should be banished. I will delete my account now. I planned to do it for a while but haven't got around to it yet

[-] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 11 months ago

I assumed that this is supposed to be the norm, but yeh, funny meme. Good luck with getting your account removed.

[-] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago

I will delete my account now.

this is really funny to me but I don't know how to explain why

[-] FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

I never had a PayPal but I know my dad did and he very strongly recommended I don't get one, that they are bad for a lot of reasons, so I just never got one.

[-] HKayn@dormi.zone 45 points 11 months ago

Are you dumb because the device you're on uses proprietary firmware?

[-] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 15 points 11 months ago
[-] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Naw, the meme just makes it appear negative that they don't see what's going on with their money. I I interpreted that as them being ignorant of what happens with their money, yet still use the service. Which yes, I would consider dumb... Just my opinion though, feel free to share yours.

Edit: Oh right, forgot to answer the question. I use graphene OS, so no worries about evil Google snacking on my data. (And Jerboa for Lemmy)

[-] pokemaster787@ani.social 38 points 11 months ago

makes it appear negative that they don’t see what’s going on with their money. I I interpreted that as them being ignorant of what happens with their money

To be clear, the meme is that PayPal shows the users' dead names (presumably because the account was set up prior to their transition/legal reasons)

The "I do not see it" is referencing "not seeing" the dead names in the transaction details.

[-] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 11 months ago

OOOOh, okay I didn't get that one. Thanks for clearing that up. Actually didn't notice that.

[-] HKayn@dormi.zone 6 points 11 months ago

But you didn't replace the proprietary bootloader, did you?

[-] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 11 months ago

True, I didn't. You got me there, I'm a proprietary bootloader using, apples feet kissing, winbliws using consoomer... Is it possible to change the bootloader on a pixel 6?

[-] Habnab@kbin.social 22 points 11 months ago

Which open source software can I use to transfer money?

(not crypto)

[-] my_hat_stinks@programming.dev 9 points 11 months ago

Why use a third-party at all? It's been trivial to send money via bank transfer for a long time, check your banking app or website and you'll likely find a way to send money with just an account number + sort code. If your country has a system like faster payments the transfer will be near-instant too.

[-] guywithoutaname@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago

"bank transfer"

Laughs in US.

[-] Habnab@kbin.social 8 points 11 months ago

Banks are proprietary software

[-] my_hat_stinks@programming.dev 3 points 11 months ago

Okay? But you presumably do still have an account with a bank or building society, right? So why use a third party when you can request a transfer from them directly?

[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago
[-] my_hat_stinks@programming.dev 2 points 11 months ago

Ironically enough it's the opposite. Banks answer to shareholders, building societies answer to its members. Building societies compete with banks, if they're unheard of in the US that certainly does explain the state of the US banking system.

[-] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 months ago

We don't have building societies in the US, but we do have similar institutions called credit unions.

[-] naught@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

America has Zelle which does instant money transfers by email/phone. It's private but it works in my banking app, is totally free, and is instant

[-] mosiacmango@lemm.ee 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Zelle is a private company and not "America" wide. Your bank has to support it.

Otherwise, youre stuck in the paypal/venmo/cashapp loop with the rest of us.

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Yay for private interests lobbying our government!

[-] optissima@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 months ago

Not in America! Every bank transfer is a series of hoops that is a pain to jump through which take days to update.

[-] yetAnotherUser@feddit.de 1 points 11 months ago

You don't have some system like IBAN allowing you to just send money to whichever bank you want within ome or two days (or in real time but with a fucking fee but that's about to change)?

[-] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

Not a universal one, no. But there is one that a lot of banks use called Zelle.

[-] yetAnotherUser@feddit.de 2 points 11 months ago

Truly, capitalism breeds innovation™

[-] soulfirethewolf 1 points 11 months ago

I don't think there are any open source alternatives to PayPal. Maybe frontends (unlikely), but not whole apps

[-] FluffyPotato@lemm.ee 18 points 11 months ago

I just made a new account and deleted the old one when I needed to change the name. It's stupid but it worked.

[-] FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 months ago

Is it hard to change your name on Paypal or something?

[-] floridaman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago

I think a lot of payment gateways require you to use your legal name, so if someone hasn't gone through all the paperwork legally then your PayPal will have to say whatever is on your birth certificate

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