this post was submitted on 26 May 2026
46 points (94.2% liked)

Mildly Infuriating

46106 readers
209 users here now

Home to all things "Mildly Infuriating" Not infuriating, not enraging. Mildly Infuriating. All posts should reflect that. Please post actually infuriating posts to !actually_infuriating@lemmy.world

I want my day mildly ruined, not completely ruined. Please remember to refrain from reposting old content. If you post a post from reddit it is good practice to include a link and credit the OP. I'm not about stealing content!

It's just good to get something in this website for casual viewing whilst refreshing original content is added overtime.


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means: -No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...


7. Content should match the theme of this community.


-Content should be Mildly infuriating. If your post better fits !Actually_Infuriating put it there.

-The Community !actuallyinfuriating has been born so that's where you should post the big stuff.

...


8. Reposting of Reddit content is permitted, but attribution is not required in any way. No links to Reddit in post body


-If you would like to provide a source link, do so in the comments but not in the post body.

...

...


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Lemmy Review

2.Lemmy Be Wholesome

3.Lemmy Shitpost

4.No Stupid Questions

5.You Should Know

6.Credible Defense


Reach out to LillianVS for inclusion on the sidebar.

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules.

founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
top 38 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] beeng@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

In Berlin for eg its tough to get tap water. You ask for it and get it 20mins later after a 2nd request. It's more see as a task for something that customer wants but is not directly tied to making income.

(I don't want a yes but reply). Just a comment.

[–] chris@l.roofo.cc 1 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Germany is very weird about water. We have clean good tap water everywhere but restaurants want you to pay for bottled water. I have been to a few countries and most of them give you water without asking. But not Germany.

[–] skuzz@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 hour ago

I've heard that was rooted in the aftermath of WWII, infrastructure was destroyed and acquiring clean drinking water was difficult, so people started having a large reservation against tap water, sticking to bottled water, and it just stuck. Word-of-mouth history though, so grain of salt and all.

[–] JackFrostNCola@aussie.zone 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

If you sit at a table in Australia they will bring you water and glasses when they come to give you menus (at a mid-expense cafe/restuarant).

At a low expense resturant/cafe/pub the water will be available in ready filled re-usable bottles on a table/fridge with stacks of glasses and you grab bottles and glasses for your table as needed.

In higher end resturants the waiter will seat you then ask if you would like any water and offer "tap, sparkling or still". "Tap" in this case will be chilled and served in a nice caraf or jug, poured by the waiter. And the sparkling or still options are 'brand name' bottled water which you pay for.

Water is legally required to be served upon request in any food/drink serving establishment and you will be served immediately and without judgement just as if you were buying any other drink.

[–] chris@l.roofo.cc 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

I don't think we have that rule in Germany. I only know that the cheapest drink on the menu must be non alcoholic.

[–] Tortellinius@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

Yes but the reasom for that most of the time is that you can't book tab water in the system, so it falls short of memory more often unfortunately. Moreso in a busy shift.

[–] EnderLaw@lemmy.world 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was at a restaurant in Italy and they kept bringing us bottles of mineral water. I go back to the restroom and see the waiter refilling the bottle from the tap them tried to bill the table for 7 bottles of mineral water. I disputed the check, we shouldn't have to pay full price for tap water. There was nashing of the teeth until I said that is seen them refilling the bottle.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (6 children)

You're right and correct, but it's a bit insane you didn't feel the difference. Or was tap water over there like über fantastic 😁?

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I've got an RO filter for my drinking water at home. I haven't tried a bottled water that I like as much as my RO tap water. I suspect that even if I filled a plastic water bottle with that water and let it sit for the expected duration a bought one would sit for, it would also not be as good. I don't think plastic is as inert of a material as we like to pretend it is, or that BPA is the only bad plastic chemical to avoid.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

A lot of the mineral water you buy is tap water. It's the same water the people in the area where the water is bottled drink. It even says so on the bottle sometimes.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 14 hours ago

Well, IMO not Italian bottled water and definitely not sparkling.

It's the only country having better sparkling water than France even.

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 4 points 13 hours ago

Tap water is good here in the Alps.

[–] Nighed@feddit.uk 15 points 1 day ago

If your in the mountains, the tap water is better than most bottled water.

[–] EnderLaw@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 14 hours ago

I guessed so, tap water is rarely sparkling 😁

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

assuming we're not talking about sparkling water, which some people call mineral water: Is it really that common outside of america for tap water to not taste fine?
I've never had bottled water where the taste was in any way remarkable, except from some brands that just taste like stale water where the plastic bottle leeched into it..

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 14 hours ago

Well then you have to go on a tour to france/italy, their sparkling water is fantastic (slightly fresh of course).

Especially good on the terrace of a café in the spring ...

In sweden they sell stale water and leftover wine so (gissar att du är svensk 😁?)

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 35 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Man, that's hard. When I go there I try to follow etiquette closely, it's their custom and I want to follow it, and the woman may have been a bit of a Karen.

However, tap water should be free. Anywhere. Maybe I just hiked a mile to get there. Maybe I'm just thirsty. 7 euro to drink water is simply extortion of your tourists. If that's etiquette then it's wrong.

[–] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 1 points 13 hours ago

She did offer to pay for it, but they still refused.

[–] fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It is extorsion. When you live in a touristic place, I think at some point you just stop seeing people as people. I know I can't stand living in such a place anymore, personally. Not necessarily tourists themselves, but the absolute corruption that tourism brought to the place and its surroundings. So much greed.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 hours ago

It depends on the tourist place. Europe is very stingy with water, but other tourist parts of the world aren't.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

You do realise that tap water isn't free in many European countries, right? Buildings have a meter and the owner or tenant gets a bill every month.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

That's also the case in a lot of north american cities. If you're pumping your own well out in the country, then it's "free" (plus costs of running the pump and any well maintenance you need, also depending on availability in your water table), but if you're in a town or city you have a matered water line that gets charged to cover both the clean water supply and waste management (at least that's how it works in the Canadian town I live in, maybe other locations meter the waste side, too).

My water bill gets lumped with my power bill but they are itemized seperately with usage graphs for each of them.

If someone needed water, I'd give it to them without even thinking about the cost because my whole month of water use is only like $50 (and the metered bit is only $20 of that, though that does imply the lighter users are subsidizing the heavier ones, but that's a seperate issue).

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

It's literally less than a cent (euro or dollar) for a whole bottle of tap water.

Out of curiosity I checked the price I pay for tap water in Portugal and 1 m³ (1000 l) costs around €0.5, so a 2l bottle of tap water contains all of 0.01 euro cents worth of it.

[–] frischkaesbagett@feddit.org 6 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Fuck posh etiquettes.

Let's not name her Karen - she sounds badass. Fighting in court for water everywhere sounds good to me.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech -3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

If you haven't been to Italy, there are quite a few cultural differences to be aware of. One of them is generally you don't make demands, dinner is an experience that you are there to have and they want to give you their experience. So it's at least worth calling out that it could be part of the experience they want you to have.

[–] frischkaesbagett@feddit.org 1 points 15 hours ago

“a really affordable premium experience” as a not so wise man once said.

[–] StillAlive@piefed.world 17 points 1 day ago

I've asked for water from poor villagers while hiking (I'm from India) and they have filled my bottle without expecting anything in return.

Italy's restaurant industry and justice system seems like a dick.

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Italy, the Nestle of nations

[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

So many good things there, but their legal system seems wacko.

[–] twinnie@feddit.uk 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That’s mental. It’d be illegal in many countries. In the UK any place that sells alcohol has to give free water.

What's mental is she offered to pay for the tap water and they still refused.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That's really low class of the Hotel restaurant, and yes I am pretty sure it would be illegal in most countries.

[–] atrielienz@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I don't think it should have been a problem to provide her with tap water (rather than mineral water which is not the same thing), especially since she offered to pay for it. Is there something wrong with the tap water?

[–] wander1236@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It's considered a breach of etiquette to not want to be forced to pay for water? A lawsuit over being refused tap water at a restaurant in a non-emergency scenario seems a little silly, but refusing tap water also seems a little silly unless it isn't potable.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

She offered to pay for it!

the woman repeatedly asked for tap water with her meal, even offering to pay for it.

WTF is wrong with wanting water to a meal she pays for? Here our quality of tap water is generally better than bottled water, I imagine it could easily be the same in a mountain hotel in Italy.

[–] macaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Where there are fancy hotels, there are people who have enough money to sue out of spite.