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[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 39 points 1 day ago (3 children)

That game has some of the best quotes:

"They try to put their stake in everything they see. Nobody's dick's that long. Not even Long Dick Johnson, and he had a fucking long dick. Thus, the name."

"They asked me how well I understood theoretical physics. I said I had a theoretical degree in physics. They said welcome aboard."

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago

Don't forget FISTO:

Please assume the position

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Benny, upon seeing that you crawled your way out of the grave he left you in: "What in the goddamn?"

[–] JetpackJackson@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

I just got that second one yesterday

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ok ELI5. What's the new vegas trans connection?

[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It has several transsexual characters that are properly fleshed out and not just tokens that are put in the game in order to fulfill some specific criteria. And they are presented as "just another npc with lots of interaction", and you need to talk quite a bit with them to notice they are trans.

It is often considered to be the game with the best transsexual representation among all mainstream games out there.

Courtesy of @Lehmuusa@nord.pub in the previous thread.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

Wait, what? I've done like every quest there is to do in that game and I've never come across a single trans character. The game is hella gay, but there aren't any trans characters to my knowledge.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 9 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Everyone is trans unless specifically identified as cis. Thank you for your attention to this matter.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I think it's the usual projection. Like how a bunch of people swear Gwen Stacy from the Spider-Man movies is trans despite zero evidence. Let people have their head canon and move on.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Wtf, I'm literally trans and love trans head canons. Seriously, which character are we talking about?

[–] festnt@sh.itjust.works 3 points 18 hours ago

i think they're talking about that one that did the

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Yeah there aren't any ... actually trans characters that I can think of ... ?

But like here are some reasons that do exist that I can think of:

Multiple potential companion characters have either story arcs or at least important bits to their personal back story that involve them at least discussing if not affirming their gender/sexuality.

Arcade is a gay man, who jokes (?) about how the Legion would just crucify him for being gay.

Veronica has a whole bit where all she wants is to wear a real, proper dress for once, to feel prettier than she is accustomed to, normally always being dressed in either essentially military gear or nondescript clothes meant to make her look unremarkable, as a scout/spy.

She expresses genuine glee, literally squeals with joy if you find her a nice dress.

You got FISTO, who ... is a robot, that uh, yeah, you can probably guess.

There's also a whole storyline that revolves around the sexual trauma of an NCR soldier, you are essentially able to be an impromptu therapist if you have the requisite skills.

You as the player can take perks, that allow you to actually seduce some characters in some situations, and you can pick to be straight, gay/lesbian, or even take both, and be bi.

You can actually kill at least one person this way, specifically as a potential plot point... beyond the perks also just giving you general combat buffs against npcs.

Basically... its ... possibly the first, if not at least one of the first 3D roleplaying game that has well written characters, that allows the player to define their own in game gender/sexual orientation as a fairly involved part of how you actually play the game, and it shows you a world with other characters that are basically doing the same.

This was pretty uncommon for a game to do or have, back in 2010.

Closest comparison for a popular game might be Mass Effect 1? But ... the romance options in that game are much more 'tacked on' and less integral to the rest of the game.

[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, I can't remember any either. I just assumed they were characters I never talked to since the game has so damn many good ones.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'm just salty that you can't romance Veronica or Christine or even let the two of them know how the other is doing. I just wanted the both of them to be happy (。╯︵╰。)

[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Now I want to go back and play through Mass Effect again. There are so few games where you can set your friends up with each other. It's usually "the player shacks up with one and the others remain all alone".

[–] CriticalMiss@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nothing in the lore specifically really, it’s just a very well made RPG despite its buggy state.

There is however a perk for each sex that does 10% damage to the opposite sex, so if you pick that at the start of the game and change sex when you leave Goodsprings you can then choose both perks and do 10% more damage to all mobs in the game, making your character canonically trans.

You don't need to change genders to have both perks. There are dedicated straight and gay perks for both genders.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Imagine if hrt worked that fast

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 21 hours ago

You know what we need? Estrogen pill bluetooth speakers

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Proposal:

If your egg was cracked via New Vegas, you are a deathclaw, and I would like an omellete.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Also a fearsome beast, especially when they've had time to grow, hahah!

[–] theuniqueone@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ehh NCR fan yesman is much superior.

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