Singing, it’s not a matter of money or time but talent and I don’t have it
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Probably be a recreational pilot, like one of my friends did training for. Like sure, I love my deep interests in tech, psychology and gaming, but damn I wanna fly a light aircraft.
It's not as hard to get into as you'd expect. Right now** is a great time to get into it. There are a lot of instructors right now trying to build hours waiting for the airlines to hire again. You can find higher quality instructors for cheaper than normal
My instructor works for free. He's just glad to be getting free flight hours. I wouldn't recommend doing a formal flight school unless you have money to burn. If you're good at self-study, get Sporty's or another online course. Few hundred dollars for the ground school. Then rent a plane to do your hours in
**Huge asterisk here due to gas prices being elevated. It's not too hard to find cheap 100LL/UL, but that window is closing. As long as the war in Iran is ongoing, higher fuel prices will be a concern. That being said, my Cherokee gets 16-20 MPG equivalent
Good info!!!
The new sport pilot rules may be for you then. There's also Ultralight aviation or powered paragliding.
Plaster would be really fun to get into playing with, but I just don't have the space for something that messy, eg. if you soak cloths in the plaster, the mess level with that is like paper mache turned up to 11; that type of thing really needs room to breathe, as it were.
Woodworking. I want to refinish my dining set and build a Murphy bed in the basement. These things seem well within my theoretical abilities but the tools are expensive and I'm afraid those items will look bad. I put some chair rail up and there's one spot I joined poorly and I can never unsee it.
Mood. I'd love to do some woodworking but I don't have the space
Scuba diving, it’s such a good way to interact with nature but I live in a very landlocked area and travel is expensive
There's probably diving in your local area. You'd be surprised, but almost everywhere has at least a few good diving spots. Quarries and lakes are common dive spots
I do a lot of diving in the midwest. Water is cold, but otherwise it's got some good diving. Ship wrecks are especially cool since cold, fresh water will preserve them for an extremely long time. Once you get drysuit certified, the cold water isn't much of an issue too
It's really cool how friendly and curious most life is underwater, and being able to move in 3 dimensions will always be amazing to me
I so wanna get back to making gamejam games but with a full time job in programming my body can't bear more screentime
Building PCs.
I'm perfectly capable of it, I built the PC I'm typing this on. It's just...the world's gone to hell in a Depends Adult Diaper.
Play guitar, or sew. Guitar because I play woodwinds, so when I'm sick, I'm pretty useless. At least with a guitar, I can cough my lungs out and still somewhat play guitar if I'm not heaving for air. Or someone else can sing for me.
Sewing because then I wouldn't have to resort to a single needle and thread and have no idea what I'm doing when patching something up. If I could remember how to use a sewing machine from home economics class in highschool, then I could start a little hobby business on the side, and I wouldn't have to give up my favourite pair of jeans. :(
sewing is a fun hobby. I started when the world was shut down. watched a bunch of youtube to learn how. Sewing machines are intimidating but really not that hard once you get into it.
I do remember using a pedal, and I don't remember it being too hard. I do recall, however, one of the troublemakers in class would put the pedal to the metal and the teacher would give him an earful.
What are some of the things that you've sewn? I need a little inspiration, maybe it's time I pick it up as a hobby and not just for school.
I think about going back to paragliding from time to time but it's just too expensive to do casually, requires time I'm no longer willing to dedicate to it and is a bit too dangerous for me now. But if I had a lot of money, didn't have to work and had unbreakable bones...
Every 5 years go so I think about getting into powered paragliding. It looks amazing! Inevitably each time I find youtube videos talking about how much progress has occurred in the industry...and a heartfelt eulogy about a wildly experienced paraglider pilot that died recently while paragliding. I always turn away with the same thought: "If the very experienced people are dying like this, it is far riskier form me to try."
I would say that casual flying can be pretty much as safe as skiing or rock climbing. It's an extreme sport and accidents happen but most of them are minor. The risk of something serious happening on a beginners wing and on a calm day is rather low. The problem is that flying on a calm day gets boring (you're zig-zagging close to the mountain all the time) and to keep learning and advancing you have to do more and more dangerous things. It's typical for people to push until they get out of their comfort zone and hit a limit. I knew people that did one or two solo flights and were done. Others pushed until first minor injury. I tried cross country flying and it was too much for me. Others are fearless and become real pilots. Each step means new dangers and higher risk.
I appreciate the reply with your experience and the context. Can I ask what your opinion is on electric paramotors? Do you think they are mature enought yet?
No idea, I never touched paramotors. From what I know it just lets you fly without wind so it should be safer than paragliding because you can fly when it's really calm. I would say it's as approachable as paragliding. Find a good instructor and you can dip your toes, see if you like it.
Those wildly experienced paraglider pilots are usually getting killed doing advanced acro or flying in sketchy conditions though.
Artisinal napping
Bespoke meandering
Daydream stylist
I LOVE counting money
Unca Scrooge?
Metalworking. It's not so much beyond my ability so much as it's out of my price range to get into it. I just don't have any of the necessary tools nor an appropriate workspace, and I'd basically have to build a workshop and start from the literal ground up.
I have a halfway decent woodworking setup, plus a 3D printer and a cheap laser, but metalworking is just not really an option. The space dedication, plus the oils and the fire hazards and the scraps/shavings/slivers/chaff/god-knows-what-else all being completely incompatible with sharing a space with the rest of it. Sigh, just not likely to happen until and unless I can get in with the makerspace mafia. I am thinking of trying to figure out designing for mills and using metal-bending workbenches in CAD, though, and sending more designs off to be fabbed.
Yeah, I may have to settle for woodworking. I could set that up in my basement safely enough but definitely can't be welding or have other fire hazards.
Only limitation with woodworking in insufficient ventilation if I want to paint or varnish or something.
For a "basic smithy setup" all you really need is a roof and a dirt floor. Sand would be better than dirt, but dirt can get you started. All my forges have started as a patch of bare dirt in my backyard with a simple pole and tin roof frame around the patch. I eventually dig it up to a depth of two feet and fill it with sand. I've only done this twice. Once you have the sand, cover the sand when you don't need it (to spill molten metal into) with 1/4 inch iron plates or steel plates. That keeps the sand where you want it.
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Basic metalworking needs a stick welder (£50-150), angle grinder (£30-80), mask (£20-100), other safety gear (£20-100), assorted hand tools (£20-200) and a dry workspace with light, power and ventilation.
You can setup a simple workspace in any room with some basic protection for your fixtures and fittings. Or you can get popup workshop tents you can put in your garden.
You can get all your metal precut and drilled, even folded in a brake when you order it and get it delivered to save costs on drills and saws.
There's always lots of cheap tools and things around if you look at online listings locally especially since it skews older as a hobby so lots of house clearances selling good quality tools.
This is exactly how I started!
Also, if you want to do blacksmithing you can get started with a 12" long piece of railroad rail as the anvil, and you can make a gad forge for under $100
Honestly I just wish i had the energy to take up learning another instrument. Like I could start taking violin lessons again, or I could seriously devote some more time to the guitar, and that would be really awesome. As is I barely have the energy to drum daily and I average only 1-2 sessions a week at best. Music is hella rewarding though, so the more ways I have of making it the better in my book.
I wish I could afford the really good RC aircraft. Not even, like, modern quadcooter drones, but a nice gas powered replica of a plane.
Or maybe just have a gnarly sim center for space and flight sims. Like one of those big gyroscopes with your chair and all the controls in it, and the controls are like real aircraft shit.
You can get some pretty cheap (around $200) styrofoam models. Most expensive part is the remote control itself, if you want a good one at least.
I have a A-10, F-15 and F-16. Though, the A-10 has seen better day (survived quite a few crashes).
Depends on your budget, but... discovery flight lesson doesn't cost a whole lot for an actual aircraft. I live in a somewhat expensive region, and it's around 100 USD equivalent for an hour.
And if you know someone with a 3D printer, an RC aircraft can be built relatively cheaply (working on this myself, but I already had the radio and receiver)
Not go to work and not die.
I've dabbled in so many that I wish I could choose a couple and ditch the rest. Just don't know which ones to pick.
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As ridiculous as it sounds: Hunting.
But it gets expensive fast, I would need a lot of rifle practice, and most hunters I know are pretty rough people.
The combination of all that makes entering the hobby fairly undesirable.
In the UK you also need permission from the wealthy to do it on their land.
Same in the US unfortunately. The few public lands that you're allowed to hunt in are overhunted
We have so many deer they cause problem, grey squirrels resulted in the native reds being almost driven to extinction. But normal people can't just go and eat them.
If it was a safety concern with guns, what about how hunting? No that is universally illegal because that is for poors.
My dad picked up bow and arrow hunting for a few years. He never snagged a deer, but I'm sure he spent a lot of pleasant time smoking weed in the woods with his buddies.
Obviously a lot of location factors are at play, but a crossbow is relatively inexpensive, has plenty of ability to humanely kill a deer (if that's your intended target), and the bolts and broadheads are recoverable.
Smaller game can be taken with a .22 or .25 cal air gun, which can be far more cost effective than a standard firearm, depending on if it is a spring, piston, or pre-charged pneumatic model. Side note, Lewis and Clark brought air rifles on their famous expedition.
Check your local hunting regs for legal options!
I had envisioned hunting deer but smaller game would be much more reasonable and easier to get into. I think I should look into that.
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You can get in the american army if you like killing so much
Cobbling and machining. Basically, I would do these things if I had the start up funds and time and space.
I do whatever the fuck I want
Sewing or gardening. I was taught both, but can’t keep two pieces of fabric together or a plant alive to save my life.
At least my little fuzzballs scream at me when they want food, lol. That’s much more doable.
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