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[–] SaneMartigan@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

First set of accounts on reddit perma banned for discussing jiujitsu technique - inciting violence.
Second set of accounts on reddit perma banned for recommending a lady with a stalker problem use her American freedom and get a gun for home defense - You know what you did type response.

I was already on Lemmy when my subs shut down to protest the API blackout.

[–] zecg@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Because reddit shut its api access off and "rif is fun for reddit" stopped working, duh.

[–] UnimportantHuman@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 hours ago

I just want to see less bots and find real community and conversations. I also love the concept of decentralized platforms. I feel like the Internet mostly isn't even real. I miss what it was like 15+ years ago.

[–] darkenergy@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 hours ago

Reddit destroying third party apps was the last straw for me. So, I hopped on kbin and some Lemmy instances. Reddit continues to degrade, and Reddit mods are annoying.

RIP Aaron Swartz (Reddit removed him as a founder).

[–] ieatpwns@lemmy.world 15 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Reddit killed third party apps

[–] chris@l.roofo.cc 1 points 2 hours ago

Yup. I still miss my rif app. It just felt like such a bad decision. Especially limiting NSFW. I needed to try something else.

[–] ThePunnyMan@lemmy.zip 1 points 17 hours ago

It wasn't just that. I used the first party app so the API changes didn't affect me. It was how bad they handled the whole situation that made me lose faith that reddit was going in a good direction. That thread "addressing" the changes and concerns was brutal.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 10 points 21 hours ago

reddit isn't fun

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago

I'm looking at other people's reasons for reddit bans and i kinda understand why they were. I dont agree with them, and most of them are stupid and heavy handed and are mean-spirited applications of the letter of a rule while blatantly ignoring the meaning, but they are technically justifiable.

I got banned for saying Genji mains suck.

[–] Sherad@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Graduating from "leftist" Reddit, I'm afraid.

Gonna glaze the 'grad specifically - on the whole it's done wonders for my revolutionary optimism and mental health, which in turn has lead to me actually doing some organizing irl.

Finding places full of people who actually know their shit and aren't swept up into the lies of neoliberalism and capitalism is a major step up from feeling utterly alone and helpless in the imperial core surrounded by people who at times feel utterly alien and unreachable.

Basically just using this space to say thanks for existing, as well as thanks to such incredibly consistent and well-informed posters like yogthos, cfgaussian, cowbee, rainpizza and others for their constant analysis and discussions that have definitely patched up a lot of holes in my own understandings of leftist history and thought.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 1 points 48 minutes ago

Thanks for the kind words, comrade! Glad you're here! 🫑

[–] m532@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 20 hours ago

Someone linked to lemmygrad on r/latestagecapitalism. I looked at both lemmy and lemmygrad (this was pre-federation) and realized that the "hard-coded slur filter" was genius.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I'd already heard of Mastodon and based on poking around there, I learned about Lemmy, so I explored it as a Reddit alternative. Initially, my early exposure to lemmy was mostly a curiosity thing.

Also during that time, my resentment and distaste for Reddit's policies and general culture was building up. The place had changed so much over the years, just slowly enough that it took awhile to notice that it was no longer the same place it was when I first arrived.

I ended up coming to Lemmy in the months ahead of the Reddit API fiasco, but would still peek over there from time to time. Then post API fiasco, I just stopped even peeking.

In those days, Lemmy was a largely KIND place, so that really helped the transition. The culture here was different from Reddit, and seemed much more positive and supportive at that time, so that made it easier to look past the flaws. It was a regular occurrence to see folks call out users who were being abusive or overly abrasive in their replies, and folks would often talk out or joke about their differences. It was a nice, refreshing change of pace most of the time.

That's almost all gone now or perhaps hidden on some private or unbeknownst to me server somewhere in the Fediverse. But for me, for now, I'm still here. I just had to adapt. Basically I mostly stopped reading replies to my comments and just block people I see being abusive to others, but this also means Lemmy is now a sad, dead echo of its not too distant past and more of an opportunity to fart into the winds of oblivion.

[–] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 20 minutes ago)

My instance and Beehaw still have that earlier friendliness (IMO, at least).

The threadiverse has gotten a bit more hostile since then, but on the whole I still find it pretty friendly, with many pleasant convos and sharing of useful info, but perhaps that's just the places I visit here.

[–] melfie@lemy.lol 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Apollo stopped working. 😒

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 1 points 21 hours ago
[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 day ago

Because I missed the niche that reddit filled and I wasn't willing to return to reddit or any other corporate, centralised social media/community platform.

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

The sex , drugs and rock n roll !

Discovered way to late there was a decentralized version of Reddit and I had to join

[–] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Reddit killed third party apps and I refused to use their shit app. It all just stinks of enshitification. So I spun up my own instance of Lemmy and haven't looked back.

[–] obamacares@lemmy.ml 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

What is your Lemmy instance?

[–] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 2 points 15 hours ago

lazysoci.al

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[–] GammaGames@beehaw.org 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Never seen the term apicalypse and just had to say it's fantastic.

That was my fediverse cohort too.

[–] GriffinClaw@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Same. I could only reddit through Boost.

Typing this from Boost for Lemmy :)

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 4 points 23 hours ago

I was already no longer posting on reddit through alternative front-ends since around 2018, because I disliked privacy issues with it. I was just lurking via alternate frontends (the precursors to Redlib, there were more before the API fiasco). I was already into the FOSS community and so I forget exactly how I came across Raddle and Lemmy (maybe through /r/piracy or /r/datahoarder, but could have been many other places), and Lemmy was far far far slower then, but when I landed on Lemmy I really wanted it to become a viable alternative to reddit.

Because Reddit is a haven for power tripping white supremacists who ban any opinion they don't like.

[–] null@lemmy.org 9 points 1 day ago

Reddit ban for a R1 violation.

Apparently if you say punching a nazi is a form of self-defense they'll say you're inciting violence.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I finally got banned from Reddit and by now they have rather effective methods to detect ban evasion.

[–] obamacares@lemmy.ml 1 points 21 hours ago

That is sooooo annoying! Like, ok ban my account. But ban ME for ever? Ridiculous. Sincerely hope Reddit dies

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[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 8 points 1 day ago

Because fuck spezβ„’ and reddit is so large it's hard to find community

because centralized social media eventually leads to ads/monetization etc. your content becomes for profit

[–] greyscale@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Got banned from reddit for saying that Peter Thiel should be turned into soup 3 times.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 21 hours ago

I was finally permabanned for a message I'd posted many times without anyone blinking. Then Trump gets elected, and it's a permaban offense.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] greyscale@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The best bit is it went like this:

  • "peter theil should be turned into soup"
  • "th-iel should be turned into soup"
  • "I got 2 warnings because I suggested Peter Theil be turned into soup like a bit in loony tunes"

And lo, 15+ year account into the bin, and reddit along with it.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 1 points 20 hours ago

you deliberately miss-spelled peters name but where still punished (by a bot?) ???

[–] ClassIsOver@hexbear.net 1 points 19 hours ago

I got really sick of rational thought being swept aside to maintain a status quo on Reddit, and looked for alternatives. All of the non-political subs weren't worth staying.

[–] rossman@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago

Not associating with as many bots.

[–] Anon@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 1 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Everything began when I discovered Shattered Pixel Dungeon while idly scrolling the Play Store. The pixel art caught my eye, so I tried the game and soon became a fan.

I wandered into the Pixel Dungeon subreddit to learn strategies and post screenshots of a lucky run. Then I noticed some moderators (00_Evan@lemmy.world) were moving to Lemmy. Curious, I followedβ€”that’s how I found Lemmy.

AdditionalJoining Lemmy changed my life. I learned how much privacy matters and started caring about tech, FOSS, etc.; if I hadn’t noticed or taken an interest in the game, I might never have found Lemmy and would likely still be relying on Big Tech’s products.

Last but not least, I want to shout out to Oleg Dolya (watabou), 00_Evan@lemmy.world, the fork makers, and all the contributors for creating such great FOSS games and amazing communities. They are true gifts to the communityβ€”and to me.

(Actually, I'm not a new Lemmy user. I had an account on another instance before I deleted it for some reasons).

[–] obinice@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I wanted to keep using Boost, and they banned third party applications from Reddit.

Especially annoying given that their own application was awful and at times unusable with whole features completely missing.

[–] 56_@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Saw a post on r/rust.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 1 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

came to lemmy because I am too dump/stupid for reddit xD their UI blocks me from actually using their product

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got perma banned from reddit.

I am not sure why. It could have been because I got 200+ downvotes for posting that Guy Ritchie’s Ministry of Ungentlemenly Warfare looked like a steaming pile of dog shit or because I posted that Pete Hegsbeth needs to die.

Anyway I deserved the Perma Ban.

The only thing I miss about reddit are the sports subs. Those were a lot more active than the ones on lemmy/fedverse.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

sports subs

idk iam not that interested in sports, hate sports betting btw. This shows how there are many different niche interests that can not be served by lemmy

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 2 points 21 hours ago

There is no reason the sports instances cant be busy on lemmy.

[–] arthur@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Corporative social media pushed me out, ActivityPub seems a great solution to those problems.

Then Reddit and Communism

[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Banned from Reddit for writing lyrics to my favourite Christmas song because it had a homophobic slur in it and mods don't understand when it was written, who it was written by/about/sung by whom, it's vulgarity in other countries culture and/or context.

And then ban evasion during that time. I prefer the lack of bots and reposts (except the Reddit repost bots) here though.

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