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[–] gayspacemarxist@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Nixtamalized (cooked) corn is very nutritious, y'all just eat it raw

[–] RNAi@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Homo yankius are benthonic creatures, perpetually soyfacing

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

An arms race of having the most extreme affectation possible in place of being able to actually do anything.

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

Uh, my ex was from Central America and she seemed to buck this trend.

I still have a small scar on my shoulder (don't worry I was into it).

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've been on the full revolutionary/self-improvement montage for the last several years and haven't kissed in ages, I'm trying to get back into it, what are the latest smooching trends? I don't want to look like a loser doggirl-sweat

[–] chgxvjh@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

Teeth is the new tongue

[–] whiskers165@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

American, I bite hard and often. Often I will wear gold fang caps on my canines, I love pushing the sharp tips into a lovers neck.

Did not realize this was because I am American lol

[–] emeralddawn45@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

Biting makes kissing more interesting, I'll stand by that point. And I'm not an american't. There needs to be a tiny of bit of pain, or pressure, or conflict to keep a relationship fresh imo. If you're making out it should be 90% dancing tongues, 10% aggression. That's my personal formula that I think keeps it fresh. Translates pretty well to sex too I think. 90% cooperative, 10% conflict. This can apply to BDSM play too because that always (should) be cooperative between both people's limits. Maybe it's better to phrase it as 100% cooperative but ALSO 10% adversarial. Any more than that and it's getting into hate fucking but any less and its just not as engaging.

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

if you don't bite, it's not kissing power-genius

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

If you don't bite, it's not sex