this post was submitted on 30 Jan 2026
358 points (97.9% liked)

Transfem

5169 readers
49 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

I took this pic a few months ago (5 months on HRT at the time). I've been too nervous to share it but fuck it, we're here :3 πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Edit: Holy cow, you're all so sweet 😊 Thank you so much for all the love. It means more than I can put into words πŸ₯²

top 33 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] hazl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 47 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Too nervous because it might make people jealous? Cute girl is cute!

[–] LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 4 days ago

No kidding! I’m jealous! πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ˜Έ

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

FIVE MONTHS?!

You're gorgeous lol. Keep in mind that you're always your own worst critic and keep slaying!

(is it rude to ask your dosage?)

[–] blaze@programming.dev 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Lol no it's not rude at all. 6mg of Estradiol and 200mg of Spiro per day <3

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Is that DIY? I'm a year in and slowly worked my way to 50mg bicalutimide and 6mg Estradiol, sublingually per day.

[–] blaze@programming.dev 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

No, I've been getting it through Planned Parenthood in the US.

This might be an interesting read since you take yours sublingually: Sublingual vs Oral Estradiol

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for the info! I switched to taking my pills sublingually out of concerns for my liver. I may just use another method, like the patch.

How do you adminster? Seems like your results came quick!

[–] blaze@programming.dev 1 points 3 days ago

Sent you a DM <3

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 21 points 4 days ago
[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 10 points 4 days ago

Love your hair 😍

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 19 points 4 days ago

Your hair is stunning

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 days ago

To thine own self, be true. That's the only way really. Just be strong enough to not be scarred by the darkness and always move towards the sunlight. Peace!

[–] enbee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 4 days ago

Daaaaaaaaaaamn Gina

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 4 days ago

Damn, 5 months? Girl, you look as if you took the definition of passing and crushed it. Jealous of your nose, it's beautiful.

[–] lwhjp@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 4 days ago

Woah, you're gorgeous! Keep on being yourself <3

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago

Good work! It is bravery for us to continue to exist in these dark times.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 days ago

Hair is fire!

[–] in_my_honest_opinion@piefed.social 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Fuck yeah! Those assholes better stay scared of you.

[–] titter@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Love the color.

Love the top.

Love all the choices you have confessed to.

Be true to you ❀️

Edit: Eyebrows on fleek, btw.

[–] katja@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 days ago

Damn, girl! I would totally murder for your hair. Not really, but super envious! You look so good. 🀩

[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 5 points 4 days ago

You look terrific, girl. Love the hair color and styling.

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

I absolutely adore your hair colour.

[–] Una@europe.pub 3 points 4 days ago
[–] ZJBlank@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

God DAMN you’re looking hella cute

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 days ago

Get it girl!

[–] deacon@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

You are beautiful.

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago

Nervous? You look like Chloe Bennet!

[–] thagoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 days ago

Don't be nervous, be you. You're killin it, girl.

[–] lunchbox2287@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Wow. Looking great!

[–] MotoAsh@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago

Fuck the haters! (no not literally)

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Your hair style and color choices are amazing

[–] Netux@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 4 days ago

Look gorgeous, great Pic.

[–] Vexsin@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

LookinπŸ”₯