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The Virgin Suicides for me. I bought it last week and haven't been able to work up the gumption to watch it yet. Maybe tonight.

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[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 1 points 43 minutes ago

Bridge to Terabithia

[–] uhmbah@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

Leaving Las Vagas

Then La La Land

[–] Janx@piefed.social 1 points 2 hours ago

Lilya 4-ever. So sad. So excellent...

[–] Dhar@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] QueenMidna@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 hours ago

Yep. This right here.

[–] disconnectikacio@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Life of others (Das leben der anderen)

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Reprise by Lars von Trier. Probably my favourite movie but I struggle to explain why.

Honorouble mentions:

  1. THE IRONCLAW! It's not the most emotionally devaststing for me but it was for a lot of people who saw it. To me it is really special though because it's a beautifully simple film and you sit right there alongside Von Erich as he walks through different stsges of his life. You feel everything.
  2. That irish schoolboy rugby romance - Handsome Devil, i think its called
  3. The Whale

Least favourite emotionally defastating movies:

The Devil All The Time and "Love Story"

[–] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

The Whale broke me. And Zone of Interest is also a really hard pill to swallow. First time I was sitting in a fully packed theater and not a single person bought any snacks. We all knew it would be horrible.

[–] Bruhh@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Holy fuck The Whale. I rarely get emotional for sad movies and usually my eyes well up at most but The Whale opened the flood gates. Watched it at the movie theaters and remember the credits rolling in silence while everyone is sniffling and sobbing. Cried on the way home too. I bought it on blu ray and have not worked up the courage to rewatch it.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Happiness (1998) is extremely dark and very funny at the same time

The War Zone (1999) is relentlessly bleak and uncomfortable

[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

The breakfast scene in that movie (happiness). Just ..... Fuck.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 1 hour ago

it's full of those sort of sinking feelings but that's a grim one

[–] essell@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

The Neverending Story

[–] Ilandar@lemmy.today 18 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I would say Grave of the Fireflies, but like a lot of people I've never wanted to watch it again so I'm not sure if I could say it's my favourite.

[–] B0NK3RS@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago

To this day I've watched it once and I'll never forget.

[–] lemmyng@piefed.ca 10 points 13 hours ago

The first 5 minutes of Up. Cutting onions every time.

[–] makyo@lemmy.world 20 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

Requiem for a Dream. Aronofsky is a legend and totally up my alley but this and a couple other films he has done I only have the energy to watch once.

[–] bulwark@lemmy.world 8 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I thought of this one as well. It's my favorite movie I never want to see again.

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[–] mech@feddit.org 16 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

The Road
The only truly realistic post-apocalyptic movie.
There is no hope. There is no humanity pulling together in times of crisis.
Just one man trying to keep his son and himself alive for another day, after losing everything else.

[–] jpeps@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe I just didn't give it enough of a chance, but I really just didn't get this film honestly. For me it just felt like a sort of 'depression porn' without really much substance to it.

[–] fake_meows@sopuli.xyz 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

The movie is an adaptation of the book by Cormac McCarthy. The book won the Pulitzer and the James Tait Memorial Prize.

"Depression Porn without substance" is a funny way to characterize the movie.

[–] jpeps@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I'm very aware! I mean it when I say I really don't get it lol.

[–] fake_meows@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Have you seen some of the other film adaptations? Or read the novels?

  • All the Pretty Horses
  • No Country for Old Men
  • The Counselor
  • Child of God
[–] BentiGorlich@gehirneimer.de 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Interstellar and Arrival The scene where cooper watches his kids grow up and get kids of their own in like 5 minutes always gets me.

[–] B0NK3RS@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

Anything like this with kids/families gets me pretty good nowadays :(

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 13 hours ago

君の名は。 (your name.) — the first big twist. When ya boy Taki first sets foot on the school (as himself) and looks at the lake and you realise what the movie's been doing this whole time.

Star Trek: Deep Space Nine did it like 15-20 years prior (and I loved that episode) but I never saw it coming. You go back and watch, and the movie kinda slaps you with a fresh fish with the clues, especially the date where he and his coworker are looking at all the photos. Camera stays there a good little while, too. Like damn. Stevie Wonder coulda saw that twist coming. But I was captivated by the beauty of the film. And the music.

[–] B0NK3RS@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Man on Fire is one of my favourites and it gets me every time.

[–] romanticremedy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 hours ago

La la land. Not the whole movie but the scene at the end always makes me emotional. It reminds of my ex, who I spent almost 10 years with. What if our relationship worked out?

[–] danh2os@piefed.social 8 points 14 hours ago

Everything Everywhere All At Once. I watch it every year and I pretend I'm a different character every time. I'm in my Waymond phase now. Watch it from his point of view when you're ready.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Powder is such a unique choice - not one many probably even remember.

Saw it in theater way back. Oddly, the power went out midway through.

It was touching.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

It's one of my favorites, that's awesome you got to see it in theater 💜

[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 11 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

There was something in Trainspotting that fucked me up so hard I never, ever went near that movie again.

And it's not explicitly a horror movie, so valid in this context.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Trainspotting csme to mind for me too. The violence in that movie is emotionally devastating but its not emotionally devastating for the human interactions & relstionships so it doesnt make my list.

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[–] djdarren@piefed.social 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I, Daniel Blake

When I say 'favourite', I mean it's the most compelling, devastating, truthful movie I've ever seen that I was transfixed by for it's entire duration, and never want to see again.

I've been on job seeker's allowance. I've suffered the indignity of the weekly visits to the job centre to be sneered at for not applying for an adequate number of jobs, of for not just accepting the first shitty delivery jobs on the list. But I was lucky enough to be healthy. I can't imagine having to deal with all that shit while also being sick.

[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Being in that situation right now - damn, I don't think I could watch it.

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 6 points 15 hours ago

Yeah, I wouldn't recommend it. I mean, it's a beautiful, powerful film, but yeah.

Here's hoping your fortunes improve x

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Tough call to just choose one.

Dead Man

Pan's Labyrinth

Human Nature

[–] circuit23@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 14 hours ago

Dead Man is incredible, love seeing it occasionally get the recognition it deserves.

[–] okwithmydecay@leminal.space 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Strangely these are my favourite kind of films, as there is something cathartic about emerging from an emotional roller coaster. These films have stayed me with long after:

  • Irreversible
  • 21 Grams
  • Never Let Me Go
  • Burning
  • First Reformed
  • The Long Walk
[–] kip@piefed.zip 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

i read never let me go, didn't know there was a film. do you think it's still worth watching with prior knowledge?

[–] okwithmydecay@leminal.space 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I've not read the book but my partner tells me the film is a very good adaption of it and it's worth seeing.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

cheers, i'll give it a go

[–] reboot6675@sopuli.xyz 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)
  • One flew over the cuckoo's nest
  • Aftersun
  • The father
  • Manchester by the sea
  • Million dollar baby
[–] djmikeale@feddit.dk 2 points 11 hours ago

Beast of no nation. Watched it once, it was very good, don't need to watch it again.

[–] MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Prisoners

I almost gave up during the final chase scene.

[–] khannie@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Took me three attempts to watch this movie. Absolutely superb.

[–] BlackLaZoR@fedia.io 6 points 15 hours ago

Nobody mentioned Requiem For a Dream yet?

[–] jpeps@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

One Hour Photo always stuck with me. Sy is an extremely sympathetic villain that my heart just broke for the entire film.

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