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Year in review (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/casualconversation@piefed.social
 

What have you read/watched/played/created/listened to this year?

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[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I read the following books:

  • Neuromancer (Gibson)
  • Consider Phlebas (M Banks)
  • The Player of Games (M Banks)
  • The Work of Art in the Age of Mechanical Reproduction (Benjamin) (reread)
  • The Wizard of the Kremlin (Da Empoli) (in French)
  • You don't hate Mondays, you hate domination in the workplace (Framont) (in French)
  • Franchise (Asimov)
  • Use of Weapons (M Banks)
  • Call for vigilance: facing the far right (Plenel) (in French)
  • The State of the Art (M Banks)
[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 8 points 1 month ago

And then I played a bunch of games, too many actually, but here's what Steam said about me

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I like Banks. I have read Player of Games and Use of Weapons. I would have read more but the lines on Libby were months long. But now I am just acquiring them elsewhere so I intend to read more of his books.

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 3 points 1 month ago

Hope you read it in a comfortable chair

[–] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

I wish Banks could have written even more, I loved all the Culture books so much.

[–] Lighttrails@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I also read Hyperion this year and I loved it! Currently reading the sequel.

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago

After finishing The Fall, it’s all basically one book to me. Quality seems to be the exact same across the two. I intend to read the 3rd after a bit of a break from the world.

[–] Fredselfish@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Sitting at over 30 books and 30 audiobooks so far. Plan on 2 more books to complete for the year then I will post my list. Shorter then 2024 but not bad.

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Fredselfish@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Thanks I post my list every January and with pics. Tradition I started on Reddit years ago. 2024 I read over 100 books. Wish I had that time now. But 25 to 30 a year still descent.

[–] The_v@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My list is a wee bit longer. I listen to audiobooks most days while driving. I will often go through 3-4 books per week.

I have used everyone of my 10 audio borrows on one app. So that's 120. I also took advantage borrows on a other app for around 45-50 more. So that would put me at somewhere around 165-170 books.

Honestly I am down significantly from last year. I did 25-30 books per month last year for a total of over 325. Been too busy this year.

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If anyone wants a read that’ll seriously fuck with your head, try Hardfought by Greg Bear. A somewhat small novella, it takes place thousands of years in the future where humanity is engaged in a fight for survival against an enemy that no-one can understand.

The military patois is thick and barely understandable, with turns of phrases that you are forced to figure out on your own. The physics reads more like mysticism and religious doctrine. The combatants are modified from childhood to become perfect warriors until it is debatable if they are still human. A budding romance between a particularly talented pilot and the civilian analyst tasked to figure out and replicate the successes that produced her - which, ironically, was the humanizing elements of the highly illegal romance in the first place - sets the stage for humanity’s defeat.

And yet, a project started by the enemy in an attempt to understand the humans comes within a hair’s breadth of actually ending the war… until the alien’s own hidebound and ideologically blinkered leaders kill the project out of horror at the heresy it encapsulates.

Its ideas and concepts are maximally dense while the prose itself is sparse to the point of being almost haiku-like. The descriptions alone hew strongly to Chekov’s Gun, with no excess characterizations that don’t directly contribute. I have re-read it over a dozen times in the decades since I got it and every time I have peeled back more layers to find new revelations and themes.

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[–] state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So much. 42 books so far and 32 movies since July. I don't know how many before that because I imported data into Letterboxd and it messed everything before July up. I feel the full lists would be too long. And Letterboxd includes my ratings and I don't feel like getting dissed. Looking over it I feel like a lot of my ratings are contentious.

I also played through all Horizon games and DLC again.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Could you name a book/movie or two that are among those that stuck out from the rest?

My favorite movie I saw this year is Code 3 with Rainn Wilson. It was funny and heartbreaking. Everything involving children getting hurt is extremely difficult for me to watch since I have kids and the movie has that. But as it's also a comedy it was OK. Although one image is still stuck in my brain.

I also finally watched Mars Express and loved the art and the story. I would love to see more movies like it.

The biggest disappointment movie-wise was Frankenstein. I need to care about at least one character to enjoy a movie and I couldn't give a damn about anyone in this movie.

My favorite book was Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree because it was so damn cozy. I am holding off on reading the sequel for a time when I really need something cozy again.

Another book I quite enjoyed was Dreadful by Caitlin Rozakis. It's about a wizard waking up with memory loss who slowly realizes he's an evil wizard.

[–] justlemmyin@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I just finished Bobiverse series. It was such a fun ride. I won't say anything about it in fear of spoiling the ride, but I am going to start book one again. Oh and the last in the series in coming next year hopefully. Bobiverse first book = We are Bob, we are legion.

[–] stray@pawb.social 4 points 1 month ago

I read the first book earlier this year and thought it was a very fun adventure story, but I feel like it could be doing a lot more with its premise. Books like Children of Time or All Systems Red made me think about things like the nature of life and consciousness, and different ways to run a society. Would you say I should read the rest of the series, or does it continue to simply be fun?

For anyone who hasn't read it, I want to be clear that I'm not saying it's bad by any means. I fully recommend it to anyone capable of enjoying entertainment for its own sake, especially if you appreciate gen X nerd culture.

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[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Weee! Looking forward to looking up some books here and finding something new to read!

Used to read a lot, but struggle to find novels I like, to get back into it. So it's mainly non-fiction now.

Autocracy inc. by Anne Applebaum - very well done book
How to win an information war: The propagandist who outwitted Hitler by Peter Pomerantsev - It's pretty much the story of Sefton Dehlmer and the group of counter-propaganda he led in Britain.
On Tyranny by Timothy Snyder
Nobody's Girl by Vrginia Roberts Giuffre
Code Name Pale Horse How I Went Undercover to Expose Americas Nazis by Scott Payne

Currently on Mysticism in the 21st Century by Connell Monette - very high quality text, picked it up after reading some of the things in the aforementioned book and wanting to dig in deeper.

Also reading some Graeber. Started with an audiobook and tried for months, but I just can't for this type of stuff.

[–] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Thanks for the recommendation on the propaganda war book, will check it out.

[–] Eat_Your_Paisley@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Since I'm an audio book guy I really only read one book this year, I was a Shelby Foote on the second year of the civil war so I used it and chased down most of that battles in the VA/MD/WV area.

I did however listen to 261 audio books

[–] SmokedBillionaire@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

One of the best things I ever did for myself was realize that I'm not "less than" other readers or book enjoyers because I only have time for audiobooks.

I have been able to dive back into a hobby that was a vital part of my childhood and teenage years with fervor and I feel like I'm such a better person for it.

[–] Eat_Your_Paisley@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I've been listening to audio books since they were a thing.

First it was books on tape, then on CD's, now on my phone it's just my thing.

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[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wow, that’s a lot. I edited top to include listen to as well. Anything that has stuck out to you over the year, either book wise or narrator wise?

[–] Eat_Your_Paisley@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

For male narrators I've always preferred Scott Brick, on the female side I like January LaVoy. I like both of these people so much that their voices have become the voices of the characters January is Kay Scarpetta to me.

The thing that is odd for me this year is I took a shine to westerns both classics like Larry McMurtry to moderns like the Johnstone's. I don't know what drove that switch but it seems to have tangentially stuck because there's quite a bit of C.J. Box of the bit.

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Just finished Project Hail Mary the other day. Really enjoyed it, one of my favs this year.

Others I enjoyed were:

-The Way by Cary Groner. Reminiscent of King’s The Stand but more accessible.

-Remnant Population by Elizabeth Moon. Sci-fi based on a distant planet with an old lady narrator. Refreshing change of pace from teen narrators. Really enjoyed it.

-The Book of Strange New Things by Michel Faber. A first (well not quite first) contact story from the perspective of a missionary sent to evangelize the aliens. A bit heavy on the narrator’s inner thoughts, but very creative. Should make you reflect on your priorities and whether God and his Promises make sense outside of earth’s context.

-The Carpet Makers by Andreas Eschbach. Another one that I found to be a nice change of pace from my usual sci-fi thrillers. Beautiful writing. Worldbuilds an entire galactic universe by weaving together short stories about various citizens.

-All the Water in the World. Dystopian climate sci-fi following the child of a museum scientist on her journey away from the flooded rooftops of NYC. Narrator driven and contemplative story about finding and protecting our humanity in a broken world.

[–] stray@pawb.social 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I haven't gotten around to reading anything of King's yet. In what way is the Stand not accessible?

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 month ago

I haven’t read a lot of King either but I read The Stand in honor of the pandemic. I also typically like ‘on the road’ adventure stories so I thought it was a good bet. It’s a long book. It has a lot of characters and puts a lot of time into developing each of them so the whole thing feels very meandering at times (though not quite tedious in my opinion).

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[–] WandowsVista@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I finally read through all 9 main books of The Expanse and I cannot recommend them highly enough. for fans of the show, the books have so much more. including a 30 year time skip. the events also happen in a slightly different order than in the series, which, to me, changes the overall story more than I expected.

if you like sci-fi that doesn't skimp on the physics, pick up a copy of Leviathan Wakes (looking at you, Andy Weir fans)

currently reading through Asimov's Foundation series of novels and I'm loving them so far

[–] dvlsg@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm on book 4 of The Expanse right now. +1 from me.

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[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The Expanse series is definitely on my to read list. So is the foundation series.

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[–] Una@europe.pub 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I read, and I recommend this book if you like fantasy, Solaris by Stanisław Lem. It is about astronauts who are researching about planet Solaris and life on that planet. 

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

I’ve put it on my to read list. Appreciate the recommendation.

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I’ve read 49 books so far this year. Some of my favorites include:

Road to Ruin by Hana Lee

Consortium Rebellion trilogy by Jessie Mihalik

All That We See or Seem by Ken Liu

Annie Bot by Sierra Greer

Kushiel’s Legacy trilogy by Jacqueline Carey

I Got Abducted by Aliens and Now I’m Trapped in a Rom Com by Kimberly Lemmings

Jules & Bun series by J.M. Griffin 

Run by Blake Crouch

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Awesome! I’m going to check these out.

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

I hope you find something you enjoy!

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Here's most of what I watched in 2025(not all released in 2025).

Movies

  • A House of Dynamite
  • The Amateur
  • The Bad Guys 2
  • Ballerina
  • Black Bag
  • Blue Moon
  • Bring Her Back
  • Captain America Brave New World
  • Cunk on Life
  • Elio
  • F1
  • Friendship
  • Good Boy
  • Good Fortune
  • The Gorge
  • London Calling
  • M3GAN 2.0
  • Fantastic Four First Steps
  • Materialists
  • Mickey 17
  • Minecraft Movie
  • Mission Impossible - The Final Reckoning
  • The Naked Gun
  • Nobody 2
  • Novocaine
  • Primitive War
  • The Running Man
  • Roofman
  • Sinners
  • Superman
  • The Watchers
  • Thunderbolts
  • The Toxic Avenger

TV Shows

  • Arcane
  • Black Doves
  • Common Side Effects
  • DAN DA DAN
  • Fallout
  • Farscape (Just started)
  • Frieren
  • The Last of Us
  • Last Samurai Standing
  • Love, Death & Robots
  • Magic and Muscles
  • Marvel Zombies
  • Monsieur Spade
  • Mrs. Davis
  • Murderbot
  • The Night Agent
  • Pantheon
  • Platonic
  • Poker Face
  • SAKAMOTA DAYS
  • Scavengers Reign
  • Shrinking
  • Silo
  • The Recruit
  • Wednesday
  • WITCH WATCH
  • Zero Day
  • Zom 100

Games

  • Red Dead Redemption II
  • Witcher 3
  • Star Renegades
  • Tower Wizard
  • Noita
  • Chained Echoes
  • Severed Steel
  • skate.
  • Glyphica
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[–] chuckleslord@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Read in the last year

Dungeon Crawler Carl books 1-7 by Matt Dinniman (twice). Will reread again when the next book comes out. Found this series last December and it's one of my favorites now

Dune books 1-4 by Frank Herbert. No interest in continuing, but I can see why they're famous. This series ate up the majority of my reading time because I found it hard to read in long blocks like I'm want to do.

The Commonwealth Saga by Peter F Hamilton. Sci-fi with a couple of interesting ideas within. Not something I'll reread. Very male gazey.

Isles of the Emberdark by Brandon Sanderson. Solid entry in the Cosmere. Nice expansion to Sixth of the Dusk. Probably not a great starting point to The Cosmere, since there's a good amount of cross knowledge utilized in this book.

Night Angel Trilogy by Brent Weeks. Nostalgia reread, read this a lot in high school. More male gazey than I remembered, which is a minor shame. But overall a fun time

Night Angel Nemesis by Brent Weeks. Follow-up to the Night Angel Trilogy. Not as good, the forced first-person compared to the original Trilogy really hampers this one. Sequel is coming out next year

The Black Prism and The Subtle Knife by Brent Weeks. First two books in The Lightbringer Series. Reread, first reread since the whole series came out. The first three books are really good. The last two are a bit rough around the edges.

[–] starik@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago

When Olivia Nuzzi released her pretentiously titled book “American Canto” this year, it reminded me of the Hyperion Cantos

[–] morgenman@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

https://imgur.com/a/2dDS7Z6 I really wish storygraph gave us a nice wrapped list or even a grid mode.. Can you tell I have a genre? Went on a book crawl in my city where I visited about 28 book stores and really got back into reading for fun.

[–] keyez@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I use storygraph and get a yearly wrap up or stats for the calendar year. This is my 2024

[–] MonkRome@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I really enjoyed the Machineries of Empire by Yoon Ha Lee, a trilogy. Then I read everything else by yoon ha lee, mostly good, the Thousand Worlds series was a bit clunky at the start.

[–] stray@pawb.social 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Highlights from this year include:

  • All Systems Red by Martha Wells First in a series of short novels about a cybernetic construct owned by a corporation in a dystopia. I found it extremely relatable and humorous in relation to my own autism. Please do not watch the Apple TV series; it's a literal hate crime.

  • Other Ever Afters by Melanie Gillman A graphic novel of fairytale stories which teach good values.

  • Notorious Sorcerer by Davinia Evans Basically cyberpunk in fantasy clothes. Rather than hacking, our heroes deal in illegal magical practices. Very light-hearted and fun, especially if you want read about boys holding hands.

  • Unnatural Magic by CM Waggoner Takes the basic premise of Equal Rites by Terry Pratchett and expands on it dramatically. Especially recommended if you're into wholesome dom/sub relationships.

  • The Three-Body Problem by Cixin Liu Humanity makes contact with an alien intelligence and politics ensue. More of a serious/heavy sci-fi.

  • You Weren't Meant to be Human by Andrew Joseph White Extreme body horror. One of the best things I've ever read. Deals heavily with mental health, self-harm, and abuse/torture. All of this guy's stuff is great, but this is the first one written explicitly for adults, so he doesn't hold back.

  • Don't Let the Forest In by CG Drews Also a horror story dealing with mental health and self-harm, but intended for a younger audience.

All of these except Three-Body Problem are explicitly LGBT-friendly and come with representation euphoria built-in.

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[–] _spiffy@piefed.ca 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lots of Horus heresy books

I started a new book series this year.

[–] keyez@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Started reading T Kingfisher last year, really enjoyable books. The warhammer 40K books are on my list but there's so many of them!

[–] _spiffy@piefed.ca 4 points 1 month ago

I love T. Kingfisher books! The Horus Heresy series is good, but I'm getting tired of it. I think I'll take a break and read some other books for a bit in 2026.

[–] epicshepich@programming.dev 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yo! I just finished Project Hail Mary today!

[–] RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

There’s a movie coming out in a few months that might not disappoint. I’m somewhat optimistic since The Martian was a good film.

[–] calamitycastle@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What did you think? I won't say too much other than I found it to be very poorly written.

[–] epicshepich@programming.dev 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I thoroughly enjoyed it. I really loved The Martian, and although Project Hail Mary was less grounded in "hard" sci-fi, Weir's writing style was compelling as ever (on a related note: I had to take a day off work when I read Artemis). He's the only author I've read who can capture in writing the excitement that you get when you make a breakthrough in the lab or get into a flow state fixing a broken gadget.

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[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If you want a good David Brin book that isn't very serious try the practice effect.

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