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[–] rain_enjoyer@sopuli.xyz 122 points 3 days ago (3 children)

there is an ukrainian soldier who shared footage from his raids and became sort of internet nanocelebrity on reddit because of it. at one point somebody made anime girl character based on him, and asked about opinion he said something to the effect of "i feel secure enough in my masculinity to jack off to this"

[–] DickFiasco@sh.itjust.works 66 points 3 days ago

Russia doesn't stand a chance against this man.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago

Truly the hero we need

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 days ago

"Would you fuck me? Yeah, I'd fuck me."

lolololololol

No but for real this is the kind of actual self-confidence and security in one's own identity that is actually healthy masculinity.

[–] centipede_powder@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Really depends on the quality of the art and how many tentacles they drew inside me. At a certain point too many tentacles is just gauche.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 days ago

First off, wonder why anyfur would want to make hentai out of my ugly ass.

Second, probably give them my email and ask if it's okay if I get a copy ( even if I have to pay a small fee ). If it's digital, that's an easy copy.

I'd love to see how they either turn me into some average to godlike looking beaver or if I'm the ugly bastard. Wouldn't complain either way.

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Have nothing to do with them. This gives me the ick. If they were distributing I would obviously go through whatever channels possible to have that cease.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I seriously think this is the normie response. As you can see by this thread, we weird here on lemmy.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This is definitely the normie response to the actual situation. But everyone imagines someone drawing them and imagines being flattered. And they imagine the artist being hot and charming.

I imagined some gay greasy nerd and I would still feel flattered, lol. But women are wanted kinda by default so I understand if they wouldn't appreciate it the same way and just find it gross or whatnot.

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[–] Jhuskindle@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

It has happened to me and I was flattered. As long as it remains fantasy only, I'm fine with it! I'm ace though so I dont really care about the sexualization part.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 28 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Sweet, a new profile pic for me!

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

...commence the jigglin?

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 23 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Be very flattered somebody thought I was worth drawing.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Someone drew me once in my life, and I still have the little index card they drew me on

[–] umbraroze@piefed.social 6 points 2 days ago

[Random glance at the Krita recent files] [Ponderous inhale] It sure would be weird if someone hypothetically would be doing that, but I'm not sure I would be able to do anything about that.

[–] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 7 points 2 days ago

Be flattered for a moment. Then decide to stay away from them, since they're creepy, apparently.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

I'd ask for copies so I can wank to it.

[–] bookmeat@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 2 days ago

Nothing. Stop obsessing over people obsessing over you.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 18 points 3 days ago

Would you do me?

I'd do me

[–] Flamekebab@piefed.social 17 points 3 days ago

Someone dressed as me for a Halloween costume one year. I think I'd be flattered, to be honest!

[–] faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 13 points 3 days ago

Demand royalties?

[–] Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Depends on the features exaggerated

[–] greenbit@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Nostril kink

[–] DrDystopia@lemy.lol 14 points 3 days ago

Yes I would do them.

[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 14 points 3 days ago (2 children)

how would one exaggerate a tiny weenus ?

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 25 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] DrDystopia@lemy.lol 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Did you know unlike the peenus, the weenus does not feel anything?

Try tugging and pinching your weenus, feel for yourself!

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 days ago

Obviously take it as a compliment.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

Depends are they putting out there for the public to see it then I might be annoyed with it if it’s for their own personal usage then I don’t care

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

Probably be flattered and a little turned on. Assuming it's flattering hentai. If I'm drawn exaggerated in an insulting way, I'd be hurt.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

If that was all there is to it, I wouldn't mind much personally. I dont think it's right to push someone's boundaries like that, but this specific example of it doesn't bother me all that much (as long as I am the subject, at least).

If that was only one step in the process though, I may be a bit annoyed or concerned, depending on what else is going on.

[–] MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

I'd feel violated. Even if the drawings aren't technically me, but are styled after me, it shows a glimpse of their creepy obsessive nature with "myself" in the middle without my consent. The implications scream louder than the act itself.

[–] Davel23@fedia.io 11 points 3 days ago

Sigh... unzips

[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 days ago
[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 8 points 3 days ago

Depends on the features.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 9 points 3 days ago

Probably click like and subscribe.

Disturbed and disgusted.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 8 points 3 days ago
[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

Ask to see it.

[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 4 points 2 days ago

Laugh my ass off and ask for a copy most likely

depends on whether i find them attractive

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

If it was like, inflation or some other very odd, nonconsenual kind of kink, somebody pretending I'm their sibling or something... yeah that would not be ok.

Barring that kind of nonsense?

Flattering!

I've never been the basis of an erotic artwork, but I have had guys and gals give me some fairly explicit uh, physical attribute based comments... less explicit, but more common... particularly gals, would be just actually jealous of my eyelashes and hair, sometimes literally pouting about how unfair it is that they don't have them.

Its a compliment.

[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago

That's gonna be a big nose

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I'd ask for a cut of all sales that are using my likeness or sue them for using it without my permission.

Otherwise, there's no way it would be news to me since I'm the one comissioning the art.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

They already are it just isn’t popular.

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[–] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Are we vibing? Im gonna need some background

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