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That thing nobody understands about you. That book that explains it. Match me up.

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[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 56 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago

Username checks out

[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 week ago

Anything by Douglas Adams, Kerouac, Ferlinghetti, music history textbooks, Samurai Jack slash fiction, public restroom graffiti, HVAC technical manuals, and the comment sections on porn sites.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 12 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Iceberg Slim [aka Robert Beck] was widely read in the Black community and almost completely unknown outside of it. He inspired many Black artists, and both Ice-T and Ice Cube named themselves in his honor.

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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR)

[–] johnny_deadeyes@slrpnk.net 9 points 1 week ago

Kurt Vonnegut's Cat's Cradle might not explain it, but could add valuable context.

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 1 week ago

"They're not rocks Marie!!"

...ok, maybe some of them are, but they're really cool!

[–] Taco2112@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

All volumes of the Uncle John’s Bathroom Readers. My brain is mostly just useless trivia.

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy series and the John Dies at the End series

both 10/10s mixing gut wrenching existentialism and laugh out loud comedy

tbh I probably wouldn't say I'm into comedy writing in general but those two and Terry Pratchett are the only writers to ever make me bust out laughing in response to words on a page

[–] zerodawn@leaf.dance 4 points 1 week ago

I've lost count of the number of times and number of formats in which i've consumed The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and i've loved it every time.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 7 points 1 week ago
[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain, and The Codex Borgia.

[–] Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

The anarchist-faq will get you most of the way there, and the K-On manga will fill in the gaps.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 week ago

Every single comment shown in my profile.

[–] JoshuaBrusque@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camut. Absurdism/it philosophically examines whether one should commit suicide.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I started reading The Myth of Sisyphus because I'm interested in absurdism but haven't read much other philosophy apart from some of the classic Stoic books. I found it very dense and hard to get through the first parts with references to philosophers I hadn't read, does it get easier to read?

[–] mayorchid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Not OP but yes, if you can get through the dialogue with Kierkegaard the rest is pretty digestible. That said, you might get more out of it if you’ve got a basic foundation in existentialism and nihilism first. A lot of what makes absurdism interesting and important is its contrasts with other philosophies.

[–] JoshuaBrusque@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

It does. Would recommend just skimming the first section as far as when you hit a reference to a philosopher you don't care about. Once past that it's a beautiful book.

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[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

The Stranger - Albert Camus

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My life is so complicated, you'd need an entire "wikipedia-styled" article of me.

If I had one, it'd probably be one of the craziest stories... well like not like any acheivements or anything, but more like depression and trauma. I'm gonna seem so broken that you'd not wanna be friends. People are gonna be like: "oh that's that person, wow" then walk away since nobody want to hang out since nobody want to get afflicted/infected with my sadness.

I mean, I reflect on my past and I visualize the scene in "3rd person" and I look like a scared kitten hiding in the corner, except I'm not a cute kitten, but rather looks like a mini-tiger. That was what I was like in school.

I'm kinda just deciding on leaving an autobiography/journal, in case I kms in the future. I wonder how my parentd would react. Maybe leaving something behind would finally get them to understand what I've been through from my PoV. Maybe they'd live a better life without me being around. Idk.

I look like a scared kitten hiding in the corner, except I'm not a cute kitten, but rather looks like a mini-tiger. That was what I was like in school.

You should write that autobiography. I think you have a way with words.

You can write something for yourself and for other people to understand you through, without the intention of leaving it behind. Leave it alive instead. You can do it and carry on. You can know their reactions instead of wonder, if you decide to show them. And you can work through your experiences through writing. Preferably while being in contact with a support group or therapist, because writing it will for sure drag it up.

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[–] dil@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Realm of the elderlings, I mess my own life up through anxiety and overthinking, reading about fitz doing it makes me feel better about myself

Gentleman bastards, spurts of false confidence carry me through my days lol

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The State and Revolution by V. I. Lenin. It honestly isn't a long read

  • The Green Futures of Tycho
  • When The Tripods Came
  • The Girl From Isis
  • Kindred Spirits by Mark Anthony

Books I read in school that spoke to me.

[–] muxika@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
  • The Hellbound Heart by Clive Barker
  • The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brian

I have PTSD and a dark sense of humor about it.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 3 points 1 week ago

To scrap the surface: Babel.

The description of what it means to be an expat, away from your culture, cut much deeper than it had reasons to. And it’s a great action/fantasy book

As a kid one of my favourite passages to read was about a girl who saw her twin get ran over by a car and killed. I don't remember anything else about that book... but I would devour anything sad and traumatic and upsetting. I would absorb those emotions and live those lives, and it would be like a daily catharsis to read something horrifying and cry it out.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago

listen to all jethro tull till you can recognize every song and figure out the two bad albums.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Historical Illuminatus Chronicles, Volume 1: The Earth Will Shake.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Historical_Illuminatus_Chronicles

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Anything else by Wilson would probably be a more productive starting place.

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[–] lemmy_acct_id_8647@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Not as much a book, but the documentary Dominion. If someone can watch that and not understand reasons for going vegan if not choosing to do so themselves, I seriously question their moral compass.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The best part about being vegan is I'll never have to watch that doco lol

Same. I went vegan before watching it. Tried doing so and only made it about 15 min in. So hard to watch.

Anna Karenina and Promise at Dawn

[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Adorno’s Negative Dialectics

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Maybe these don't explain me, but they hit hard at forming my views of my fellow apes:

American politics

How Half Of America Lost Its F**king Mind

Which is also explained, among a shitload of other behavior, in

What is the Monkeysphere?

So MUCH of what we see around us is explained in those two articles. I've had responses that neither is a complete view, not all behavior, bla, bla, bla. Yeah, I know. But if you want to understand humans, especially why so many seem bugfuck evil, there's a lot of bang for the buck in there. (Be patient with the Monkeysphere article, old and the formatting is hosed, but I trust you'll get it.)

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Crime and Punishment". Doing something amoral only to find out I have morals.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Brothers Karamazov is way better.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

It's all subjective. I really liked that one too but C&P hit me harder.

[–] aim_at_me@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 week ago

Killed by a Traffic Engineer by Wes Marshall.

The Critique of Pure Reason.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Codex Seraphinianus.

Some pages may take two-three reads before understanding fully.

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