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Sorry it's late - Trans Megathread for the Week 25/09/15-25/09/21 (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 weeks ago by Eco@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I've been having some thoughts recently.

Why are we born on this earth? Just to suffer?

Incorrect. We are born because our parents had sex and didn't abort us.

Furthermore, we have no purpose. You can make your own "purpose in life" but I don't think it really matters. "Being" a "nihilist" also doesn't "matter". So what if you don't care? And so what if you do?

I've also thought a little about absurdism. I don't get why they are laughing in the face of the vast uncaring empty universe. It's empty. Ain't nothing there to laugh at. Maybe that's why it's "absurd".

Funnily enough, this is exactly the thought process that made me stop being a nihilist and become a communist/materialist. I realised that I am allowed to care for and engage with things that actually exist in the world. If I cut off all my attachments, I will not suffer. But my suffering doesn't matter. I don't need to escape samsara.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

But my suffering doesn't matter.

See this bit I disagree with. Suffering sucks. This life is all we have, I don't want it to suck.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I don't want it to suck either. But the realisation that it isn't supposed to be like this is even worse for me.

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

kink, mental health

it's kinda funny thinking about and comparing my progress with comfort and openness on sexuality. ten years ago I was repressing just Everything About Myself and a side effect of that is I was like cripplingly uncomfortable with anything sexual, my friends would joke that I was basically a puritan. Now I semi-regularly have group chats with the same friends talking about stuff like "if you wanna lick marinara sauce off your partner's boobs you can just ask, that's incredibly mild"

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

The tone of this post should not be taken as depressive or neurotic, but rather psychotic

cw:si

Kinda crazy isn't it? Yesterday I was pleasantly dreaming about my friend choking me and snapping my neck to death. Today, he was sitting in front of me and we had a mundane conversation about homework. I looked him in the eye as if nothing happened. It wasn't hard. I was sorta feeling fucked yesterday for having that dream, but now I don't even feel that.

If any of my friends knew about what I was feeling, they wouldn't want to be my friends anymore. I wouldn't blame them. It wasn't even a sexual dream, which could just be explained away as "attraction happens". No, it was this psycho shit.

I also had impulsive thoughts while meeting other people about asking them to help me kill myself.

I feel a sense of pride. I am going to be the toughest case that my GP assigned psychologist has seen in their career. Hopefully anyway.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

Next yakuza game is gonna be real 🔥 leaked title was LAD 9 : 11 stories we tell kiryu-pain

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